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Rancorous partisan nonsense aside, I truly feel bad for Sanford...as a man and as a human being.

His heart has placed him in a position at odds with the norms dictated by the society that he lives in and represents...and it's plainly obvious to anyone with eyes that it's tearing him apart inside.
 

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Just like William Jefferson Clinton??????:wink:

The one GIANT difference is that the Republicans have and continue to promote themselves as pious, christian, and religious.

Continually Republicans quote the Bible as a means to take away rights of entire class of citizens (see Prop 8).

Republicans *use* religion to further their political agenda, until they step in it, and then suddenly it is "Jesus and I are trying to sort things out", or "I'm a sinner, forgive me."

Why is it they are so flexible on the rules they have been shouting when they find themselves in a scandal, but if doesn't involve them personally (at least publically) there is never any wiggle room ("The Bible is very clear...").

I thought Republicans were trying to get government out of our lives -- except for anything involving the gays.

Hypocrites, hypocrites, hypocrites ... I love watching the lies (again a great Christian value) and the cover up.
 

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Flashy,

Why can't you see that when you belong to a party that bases a large part of their platform on "traditional" family values and religion (anti-abortion, anti-gay marriage, anti-civil unions, anti-contraception, etc.), and then it turns out that a leader in that party is *secretly* doing the opposite, that people are angry.

People are upset, not so much that he was having an affair, but he was voting and preaching against the exact things that he himself was secretly doing.

From a Republican stand point, this is one more nail in the coffin. I find it very entertaining to see a group being destroyed by the very statements and 'values' they support so strongly.

For me, I don't care that he is having an affair... it's the hypocrisy that I find hilarious... and yes I do find a extreme amount of pleasure in it.


hardly, but more often, the republican leadership, and more importantly the constituents, cast that person out or do not re-elect them.

the simple fact that Ted Kennedy is still around after drowning a girl and Barney Frank is still around after his behavior, while someone like Foley or Packwood is not, speaks to the fact that there is a marginal difference in what the constituents and leadership can tolerate.

the fact that Foley resigned after some cyber sex, but teddy kennedy is still in office after drunkenly causing the death of a girl and not even trying to rescue her, shows a slight difference.

while the bad behavior on both sides is roughly even, republicans, in both leadership and constituency, when it comes to sex scandals, have come down harder on the transgessors, even if only marginally more than the democrats have.

for all of the folks such as you, who are desperately trying to make this a "republican issue", maybe you should take a look at this list and stop trying to draw any type of fiendish pleasure from the "hypocrites"

America's Top 53 Political Sex Scandals
 

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to flashy and all the rest.....The POINT IS all the hypocrisy!!! not the mistake, the human factor, the temptation BS...it's the fricking low down dirty judging amd labeling everyone else and claiming to be "PROTECTING FAMLIES and MARRIAGE" while sneaking around....stop deflecting the simple truth!!
 

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Flashy,

Why can't you see that when you belong to a party that bases a large part of their platform on "traditional" family values and religion (anti-abortion, anti-gay marriage, anti-civil unions, anti-contraception, etc.), and then it turns out that a leader in that party is *secretly* doing the opposite, that people are angry.


why can't you see that adultery has nothing to do with the values of other members of your party such as "anti-abortion", faith based initiatives, school prayer, anti gay marriage, gays in the military, anti contraception?
So far, the only mistake i see he made was that he engaged in sexual infidelity. If one person, in this case Sanford, cheats on his wife, that does not mean everyone else is. That also does not have any bearing on people's stance on religion, gay marriage, contraception or abortion.



how does that invalidate an entire party's view, even those who have made no mistakes and have not cheated on their wives, about abortion, religion, homosexuality etc?

Considering that many republicans, who actually believe in traditional family values, have called for him to resign, in fact makes the claim stronger.

You cannot castigate 50 people for the actions of 1.

Is it fair to suggest that the entire democratic party is somehow hypocritical for being against drunk driving and murder, when Ted Kennedy was drunkenly driving a young woman off a bridge, leaving her to die?

Who are you to judge 50 people by the actions of 1?

the next time i see a black kid murder another black kid, should i take your tact and apply it to all black people since almost all black people have as a community made trying to eradicate black on black murder a massive part of their drive for making their community safe? Of course not.'

If a person like Larry Craig is anti-gay through policies, then is found to be engaging in gay relationships, that is hypocritical in the extreme...

but what about the other thousands of republicans who are anti-gay, but are not engaging in gay sex. It is not their fault that he is sneaking off to mens rooms, and those are his actions.

it is called individual responsiblity




People are upset, not so much that he was having an affair, but he was voting and preaching against the exact things that he himself was secretly doing.

where exactly did Sanford every preach against infidelity? Point it out please.

how does infidelity, relate to preaching against abortion rights, gay rights, gays in the military, faith based initiatives, school prayer, etc?

by the same token of absurdity, Bill Clinton's infidelity invalidated his and the democratic party views on, opposing school prayer, being pro-choice, being against Don;t ask Don't tell etc.

Infidelity is a completely different issue, and if one person cheats, it does not invalidate the views of, or somehow make other innocent people guilty.

When Bill Clinton cheated, that does not mean that Barack Obama should be tarred too, since he is a member of the same party.


You seem to be quite excellent at generalizing and accusing and stereotyping, much in the same way the republicans are


From a Republican stand point, this is one more nail in the coffin. I find it very entertaining to see a group being destroyed by the very statements and 'values' they support so strongly.

I see, so one person who has an affair, somehow invalidates good work or other views held by others who are innocent, and completely "destroys" their views and values?

you are a very silly person.

so the next democratic sex scandal, will, presumably lead to you decrying the democrats in the same way, considering this is in their platform:


Family is the center of everyday American life. Our parents are our first protectors, first teachers, first role models, and first friends. Parents know that America's great reward is the quiet but incomparable satisfaction that comes from building their families a better life. Strong families, blessed with opportunity, guided by faith, and filled with dreams are the heart of a strong America.


I would assume that infidelity, divorce, or anything else that might compromise the family of a member of the democratic party in elected office anywhere in america, would then compromise all democrats, since they believe in strong families, parents as role models, teachers and protectors...etc.


For me, I don't care that he is having an affair... it's the hypocrisy that I find hilarious... and yes I do find a extreme amount of pleasure in it.

Again, show me how someone who makes an individual choice to cheat on his wife sexually, invalidates the views of an entire party consisting of millions of members, not only that, but how also, it invalidates their views on issues, totally unrelated to infidelity, such as school prayer or abortion.

So far, the only thing i see that Sanford violated, was his promise to be faithful to his wife on their wedding day. He did not break any laws by having sex with the woman. If he preached against infidelity, then indeed he was hypocritical as he would be if he included fidelity in his definition of family values...

but once again, i ask you to point just how, exactly, one man's infidelity invalidates the views and opinions of millions, even on unrelated topics?

I'll wait.
 

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The one GIANT difference is that the Republicans have and continue to promote themselves as pious, christian, and religious.

the one giant difference is that one person's failing does not mean that 100 others have failed as well.

so how is it, that if one man falls from grace, 50 others who did not are somehow guilty? Being Pious and Christian does not mean that if one person fails, 49 others that he associates with are guilty too.



Continually Republicans quote the Bible as a means to take away rights of entire class of citizens (see Prop 8).

I see, so how does that make republicans that are not engaged in infidelity a hypocrite? also, how does Sanford cheating on his wife, have anything to do with gay rights?



Republicans *use* religion to further their political agenda, until they step in it, and then suddenly it is "Jesus and I are trying to sort things out", or "I'm a sinner, forgive me."

What about the republicans that don't sin? Are they not entitled to be pious without being smeared when someone else fails?

and, if they use religion as part of their agenda, what is wrong with them looking to their religion for forgiveness if they screw up, usually of a sexual nature?

Why is it they are so flexible on the rules they have been shouting when they find themselves in a scandal, but if doesn't involve them personally (at least publically) there is never any wiggle room ("The Bible is very clear...").

what rules are you referring to their flexibility on that they have been shouting when they find themselves in a scandal?

I have heard individuals shout it, but i have not heard the republican party or the millions of republicans shout anything when there is a sex scandal...in fact, most times, they demand that the guilty party resign his post or leadership position, or his consitutents try and vote him out.

so are you referring to an entire party of millions, or just the one person that screws up that shouts about flexibility in order to get him forgiven for failing?


I thought Republicans were trying to get government out of our lives -- except for anything involving the gays.

How does one man having an extra-marital affair have anything to do with what the entire republican party of millions' view of government involvement in certain aspects of private life is?


Hypocrites, hypocrites, hypocrites ... I love watching the lies (again a great Christian value) and the cover up.

What lies? What cover up?

I have not seen anyone lying or covering up for Sanford. I see only himself, trying to ride out a sad event that has you laughing hysterically at the pain his family is going through because he failed at controlling sexual urges we all have.

It says alot that you love watching it...it says alot that you love to blame an entire party when one person fails...it says alot that you are taking such pleasure in deriding the failings of this man, no matter what the effect is on his young children and wife.

You remind me exactly of the cackiling republicans who took such great joy and relish watching Clinton twist in the wind, while he and his wife and Daugher walked to the helicopter after the scandal broke, knowing that their pain, sadness and humiliaton was tearing them apart because someone failed on the same order that millions fail at every day.

It is funny that you hate the republicans so much...your delight at the misery of others and your intolerance makes you quite alot like those vicious, insufferable types you decry.

It is rather sad.
 

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Rancorous partisan nonsense aside, I truly feel bad for Sanford...as a man and as a human being.

His heart has placed him in a position at odds with the norms dictated by the society that he lives in and represents...and it's plainly obvious to anyone with eyes that it's tearing him apart inside.

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to flashy and all the rest.....The POINT IS all the hypocrisy!!! not the mistake, the human factor, the temptation BS...it's the fricking low down dirty judging amd labeling everyone else and claiming to be "PROTECTING FAMLIES and MARRIAGE" while sneaking around....stop deflecting the simple truth!!

so when one person is unfaithful, it means everyone is unfaithful and all who are associated with that persons vies are than guilty by association?

when one republican or democrat, screws up and fails, all the rest, even the innocent and decent ones deserve to be slandered as well?

makes sense.

obviously when one person does something, everyone is guilty.
 

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flashy, then why does a poliltical party have the right to speak out against anyone or anything?? I and the others should be able to comment and refer to anything or anyone's actions and behaviors just as republicans and Sanford has......especially when the person is in leadership.......you don't seem very indignant about the SMEARS that the republicans have communicated......so go ahead and worship Rush "the drug addict" Limbaugh while he spews his hate while you're at it.....your defending this all is pretty sad...and is your right...just as we can speak out also.....!!!!
 

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With the exception of statutory rape, which is also hazy considering that the age of consent regarding sex differs from state to state, how is this as bad or even worse than Sanford? Did Studds run his political career heavily centered around the basis of Christian & Family Values? Did he publicly denounce and vote against measures to help progress Gay Rights, which in this case would probably circulate around the AIDS crisis and spreading awareness? You'll have to let me know because in 1983, I was only 10 years old and was only interested in Saturday Morning Cartoons like the Smurfs. And professional wrestling, but I digress. :biggrin:

Age Of Consensual Sex | LIVESTRONG.COM
So a politician having sexual relations with an underage/minor in the employ of the government, even if that person is above the age of consent, is somehow not worse than just having a regular old affair?

Essentially it is open season on all minors for politicians as long as they are the age of consent?

What Sanford did was commit an act that was unsavory, hurtful & hypocritical, if he ever supported marital fidelity, but did not border on illegality of either age or employment related nature.

having sex with a minor employed by congress, whether that minor is male or female is just a tad worse, no matter a republican or democrat


This is a guy that pushed heavily against child pornography and sexual offenses while in office. He was the Chairman of the House Caucus on Missing and Exploited Children, advocated abstinence for children, introduced bills through congress for stricter sex offender laws and others such as the Child Modeling Exploitation Prevention Act (2002), and even pushed for a nudist resort in Florida to be investigated after it was found that they had a program for teenagers.

A perfect model politician who wanted to be painted as the image of the strong politician who was looking out for the best interest of children. So, we can only imagine the shock when it was exposed he sent fifteen sexually explicit e-mails to a 16 year old boy.
didn't you just excuse having sexual relations as somehow not bad or worse than Sanford because someone was the age of consent yet still a minor in the case of Studds?

Foley deserved to have to resign. His behavior was reprehensible. However there was no physical contact & indeed, Studds' behavior was worse. Sanford's behavior was worse too.

Studds had sex with his page, Foley, for his lechery, did not. Stanford had a physical affair, Foley did not.

And as of late, I don't think Dennis Hastert has been exposed for sexual misconduct of any kind. I could understand the outrage if he was found to be cheating on his wife or fooling around with barely legals.
Hastert, asshole that he is, still did not tolerate it, which goes back to what i was saying about this behavior being condoned by republicans either in leadership or voters as being false.

Already have. :wink:
and as i said, Studds comes out the worst, though Foley & Sanford hardly wrapped themselves in glory.

I will say, both Foley & Stanford expressed regret & contrition while Studds did not.

when people screw up royally, contrition & regret should can usually be seen in the perpetrator if one is to believe that they know they made a serious error.

Foley knew he screwed up massively cybering with a 16 year old boy. Sanford knew he screwed up massively with a young mistress. Studds does not seem to think he screwed up at all having an affair with a 16-17 year old boy & proved it by shunning any type of regret not to mention insulting congress, who felt he might want to accept just a bit of responsibility for extremely bad judgment


And here is where I bring up the issue of individuality on both of these cases. Again, I'm not trying to look at this as a Democrat/Republican issue and I invite you, for once, to also try to do the same. You're the one who considers himself an Independent on this board, so how come it's the "dirty lib" that's willing to do this? :rolleyes:

Did Studds run a political career against gays & lesbians, AND was it actually statutory rape considering the age of consent? Don't forget the link I posted earlier on the subject. Whereas Mark Foley actually portrayed himself to the public as the superhero against sexual deviancy towards minors. Then it was exposed that he was soliciting sex with a 16 year old.
Nowhere have i said it is the "dirty lib" willing to do this. i have castigated all of them. the difference, is that in those 3 cases, Sanford, Studds & Foley, not one of them did anything illegal (technically) by the age of consent.

Studds & Foley came close to breaking the law. BOth of their behaviors were extremely questionable

*HOWEVER* you are castigating Foley, because he was an ardent supporter of legislation that supported protection for children. But you have defended Studds because his page was 16-17 as being age of consent, while castigating Foley for his who was 16.

If He is above the age of consent, than Foley has not done anything wrong, or even hypocritical, according to your reasons for not castigating Studds based on the age of consent.

cannot be both ways.
the boys were the same age.
they were both minors.
they were both above the age of consent
only 1 had sex with 1 of the boys or even any physical contact (Studds)

the issue is not that Studds was gay, or how he ran his campaigns or his policy.

the issue is the age.

the fact is, though both were above the age of consent (*BARELY*) both were minors.


Of course, if he wasn't guilty of any crime he could have stayed in office and fought despite what the opposition said about him. But he chose to resign because he knew his reputation was exposed.
Just because you are not guilty of a crime, does not mean you can stay in office. You can be removed from office, asked forcibly to resign, ruined to the point you must resign etc.

He was not guilty of a crime Any more than Studds was, but both were *EXTREMELY* close to a crime of a statutory sexual nature. the diference, hypocrisy aside, is Foley never carried out the physical side. Studds did. What Studds did would still be worse no matter what the gender of the page was, since Studds involved real sex.

saying you are going to screw someone & actually screwing them, no matter how true or hypocritical your views are, are two very different things.



It would be very easy for you to say this if you're only looking at this from a Democrat vs. Republican view. The Dems rallied behind their candidate and saved his career. The Repubs left Mark Foley out to dry.
you have just echoed what i have said about the republicans, for all their flaws, dealing far more forcefully with members of their party on issues of this nature. Whether or not one likes the republicans, or hates them, in the case of Studds, democratic voters returned him to office. republicans did not hang Foley out to dry, they stood on what their alleged principles of "values" are, which whether you agree with their stand or not, you must admit, shows that they do take it seriously and are not hypocritical about it, even if their views are unpalatable.

They were furious over Foley, furious over Craig, they are now furious over Sanford. In each case they either demanded resignation, or made it plainly clear that these folks will suffer in terms of lack of support from the hierarchy & local republican machines.

Well, it is the Republican Party that is usually first to throw out the attacks against Democrats regarding how they have "no morals", or are not "true Christians".
I have not heard the republican party hierarchy ever sanction attacks against the democratic party as having "no morals" or not being "true christians".

Perhaps some individual Republicans do, but for all their intolerance, as i have pointed out above, when the republicans have someone who is embroiled in a scandal of a moral/sexual nature, they are usually extremely active in destroying or forcing out that person, since that person becomes a threat to the perception & beliefs of what the GOP claims to promote.

No matter how much you dislike/disagree with the republicans, you have to give them credit. they may be intolerant & mean & preach values etc. but when one screws up & threatens that image, they do take action & the claws come out to protect the "values" image.

that is my point, while individual republicans may prove to be hypocritical in cases of a sexual nature, the GOP as an institution, is not hypocritical about it & punishes those transgressors one way or another, usually ending a career.
 

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They inadvertently bring this extra level of scrutiny onto themselves for saying it repeatedly. The public expects politicians to practice what they preach, ESPECIALLY when it pertains to sex and children. Perhaps people would be more forgiving of an offender's actions if some of them didn't engage in activity that went completely against their beliefs on the issue? And possibly fuck interns of legal age? :rolleyes:
since when does the public expect that? I would say if the public expects politicians to practice what they preach, they are very stupid.

As for banging interns of legal age, the democrats, only slightly, still have the lead in that category & i mean that in the bad way, not the good way, considering banging interns & pages is hardly a feather in the cap of either party, no matter age or gender.
BZZZZZT! As you can see, even I'm willing to try things like this on a case by case basis even with Republicans.
that is not what i said. what i said was:

It is certainly not a copout to discuss the facts...unless you are trying to ignore them to make political points for the lunatic left at the expense of the retarded right.

That was not an accusation directly at you and was stated viewing both parties in a negative light. calling the left lunatics & the republicans retarded.

it was stated to anyone who chose to use this particular scenario, to take shots at the right in order to score for the left. (had Trinity used a future democratic sex scandal in the same manner, i'd say the same thing)



Committing adultery or sleeping around with interns should not be immediate grounds for dismissal from politics. If the benchmark was this simplistic for public office or any corporate setting, we wouldn't have a government.
no, adultery should not be immediate grounds at all, nowhere have i said that. I pay them to govern, not to judge them on their sex life.

unless the intern is a minor. I don't care who people sleep with. But Politicians should not be screwing minors, no matter who or what party they are. If you cannot wait till your intern turns 18 to screw them, you really should not be making laws.



It's too easy for people who don't want to analyze the different scenarios to lump them all into one pile and write them off as unfit to rule. That's essentially what you're doing here.
that is actually the opposite of what i am doing. they are not one pile & are different scenarios.

the Studds,Foley, Frank and Sanford scenarios, to name a few are all different.

the ones that concern me are not the ones where someone screws someone else & has done nothing else wrong. I do not care who Clinton slept with, anymore than i care who Sanford slept with.

what i do care, is when people sleep with minors, or do something illegal sexually (coercion, rape, harassment)

I would not care at all about politicians sleeping with prositutes *IF* it was legalized. But, it is not. As such, they must pay.
Their mouths and dicks were someplace they shouldn't, so they ALL should have an equal amount of shame and ridicule.
Not everything is equal in a sexual nature. a democratic senator that goes & bangs his 28 year old mistress without his wife knowing, has not broken any laws or come close to crossing any lines. on the same day, A republican senator goes on a trip to Spain with his wife
On the trip, the Senator meets & seduces the 13 year old niece of an acquaintance.

This is dug up by the press. The age of consent in Spain is, in fact, 13 years of age.

Should he resign or be forced out? Does his act have the same amount of shame and ridicule (not to mention extreme stupidity) as the democratic senator? Not at all.

what he did was far worse.
People like Mark Sanford look like MAJOR hypocrites, even more so than John Edwards or even John Ensign. Sanford's actions strike at the very core of his political career based on his voting records and various public statements regarding sexual deviancy of any kind. People like Edwards, Ensign and Gerry Stubbs were just "caught out there" with their pants down. Hence why the public will make a MUCH bigger deal out of Mark Sanford than they would of most politicians in this case. This isn't a double standard, nor is this hypocrisy from either political party.
I do not think he looks any worse.

you just said above "Their mouths and dicks were someplace they shouldn't, so they ALL should have an equal amount of shame and ridicule"

with regards to Edwards & Ensign he might look more hypocritical but not much. frankly, because he fell from grace with an adult, still does not look as bad as being with a minor, as Studds & the republican who was charged with Studds & numerous others have been.


Of course, you're probably not gonna agree with me and lash out with some condemning attacks about my intelligence.
when people use civilized conversation & do not use personal anal rape or sexual innuendo as insults, they receive civilized discussion in return

Just remember... I haven't made one personal attack on you in this post,
I have an excellent memory. if i had seen one, you would have heard back about it rather quickly & nastily.


nor have I resorted to my usual bouts of brazen sarcasm.
the "BZZZZZT!" was debatable.

I assume you were brazenly & sarcastically saying i was wrong, not that a bee had attacked you in the middle of typing your post. :cool:

Let's TRY to keep it that way.
your choice.
 

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flashy, then why does a poliltical party have the right to speak out against anyone or anything??

so political parties don't have the right to speak out on issues? If one member of the party fails to live up to those issues or break laws, etc. in contravention of the party ideals, it is then the whole party's fault?

I and the others should be able to comment and refer to anything or anyone's actions and behaviors just as republicans and Sanford has......especially when the person is in leadership......

you should indeed be able to comment...just make sure you realize how much you sound just like the republicans when you do it. frankly, when people on both sides of the aisle do it, they look just as ugly as those they are criticizing for the same thing.

you and the republicans cover each other with the same vile excrement you fling at each other every day, every hour on every possible issue....it is no wonder you begin to look and smell the same.

you don't seem very indignant about the SMEARS that the republicans have communicated......

because i do not care about the smears that the republicans have communicated...because i do not listen to them, because they are stupid, and immature, just like the democratic ones. I was furious when the Republicans were smearing Clinton. I am furious that you folks are doing it now.

It is childish and despicable, and it will be the next time a democrat screws someone and the republicans start screaming again.

you both are childish and immature, not to mention rather pathetic.

the reason on this board, is that the vast majority of people here tend to be on the left, so the vast majority of smears you hear are directed at the republicans. As such, i defend them against the hypocrisy of the democrats.

When we had a couple of righties here who were talking about supporting Palin, i said Palin was an idiot. When those same people were saying Obama was a Muslim or was not born here, i called their smears idiotic.

and a billion other criticisms of the ridiculousness of the republicans.
so go ahead and worship Rush "the drug addict" Limbaugh while he spews his hate while you're at it.....

why would i worship Rush "the drug addict"? I am an independent, i disagree with just about everything opinion the man has, have never listened to his show, and think he is a total moron.

I have never voted for a republican or a democrat in my life. Nor will i ever. I do not cast my lot in with liars, hypocrites and angry, lying, intolerant and partisan political machines.

However, you insulting someone because they have drug problems, is indicative of exactly the same type of childish hypocrisy and niggling, viciousness that people of the Limbaugh variety exhibit so well


your defending this all is pretty sad...and is your right...just as we can speak out also.....!!!!

nowhere have i defended anyone. What i have been doing is attacking those who believe that they are somehow more holier than thou and have taken such glee in other people's sexual failings. In that regard, i am defending the notion of having a bit of decorum as well as having just a bit of understanding, not only for people's failings, but for how ridiculous you and others look for castigating people for the exact same things.

I have simply pointed out the hypocrisy of demonizing people for their sexual improprieties.

you indeed can speak out also, as much as you want...just remember, when you start behaving in the same way as those you abhor, like the republicans, do not be surprised if people start mistaking you for them.
 

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So a politician having sexual relations with an underage/minor in the employ of the government, even if that person is above the age of consent, is somehow not worse than just having a regular old affair? Essentially it is open season on all minors for politicians as long as they are the age of consent?

You can't have it both ways, Flashy.
The age of consent is there and it differs from state to state. To assume your argument, it would suggest that you think 18 years of age should be standard across the board and that no adult should pursue a human before then. Perhaps it does just to simplify the procedure, however, at this moment our laws doesn't suggest that.

There are different ages of "consent" for sex, driving, voting rights, and drinking alcohol in this country. In Massachusetts, the age of consent for sexual activity is 16. I remember my days as a closeted, gay male being more attracted to guys that were older than me. The way you make it sound, if someone older did find me attractive enough to have sex with and did, you'd consider him a statutory rapist because I'm still a "minor". In what regard? Because I can't drink (that age of consent is set at 21)? Because I can't vote (that one is set at age 18)? What's the point of having an age of consent for sex if everyone is going to ignore the law and associate whatever number they feel is consensual and appropriate?

didn't you just excuse having sexual relations as somehow not bad or worse than Sanford because someone was the age of consent yet still a minor in the case of Studds?

Again Flashy, you're trying to have it both ways and that doesn't work here. The person Studds slept with is either at the age of consent, therefore making it legal for him to have sex with whomever he chooses, or he wasn't therefore making him a minor. Pick one.

But let's look at the facts. The guy Studds slept with was 17 years of age. And as I stated before, in the state of Massachusetts the age of consent is sixteen. Therefore, that does NOT make him a minor.

Foley deserved to have to resign. His behavior was reprehensible. However there was no physical contact & indeed, Studds' behavior was worse/

I disagree... Foley's actions went completely against what his political campaign & career stood for. And even though he didn't actually have physical contact with the minor in the e-mails he was certainly enticing it and that's enough in some states to warrant an arrest. Hell, you've seen or at least heard of "To Catch A Predator".

Age of Consent Laws in Florida for sex is 18 years of age, with an exception for minors ages 16-17 as long as the adult is under 24 years of age. Foley's e-mails were sent to a 16 year old boy in Louisiana, where the age of consent is 17. There lays the problem. Either way you look at it, whether it be under Florida or Louisiana Law, Foley didn't have the argument of Age of Consent on his side. So why would he be pushing legislation to toughen and crackdown on sexual deviancy towards minors if he's privately basking in the same debauchery?

I already established that Studds had sex with someone that would have been cleared under the Age of Consent Laws of Massachusetts. That should be the end of it. Of course, when the arguments are made on a moralistic standpoint we can easily bastardize anyone who is having sex with someone that one may feel is too young. But I'm not here to engage in moral arguments, because who am I to judge people on that level?

Sanford's behavior was worse too.
Depends how you look at it. If it was the issue of hypocrisy, Sanford is the worst of them all. He's a blatant opportunist who took the infidelity of other politicians to further boost his own credibility. "See that sexual demon over there? Isn't it disgusting? You should vote for me because I have Christian Values and I love my wife. I'd NEVER do that!" That's not his exact words, but I think you get the picture...

With Sanford, we don't know how old the South American girl was. Although it is a bit extreme to have your affair in a completely different country in an attempt to not get caught. If anything, I'd say it was a little ambitious. :biggrin1:

Studds had sex with his page, Foley, for his lechery, did not. Stanford had a physical affair, Foley did not.

Seems as if you're more focused on the crime itself and not the info surrounding each case. Naturally, I would want to find out more information before passing sentence. It's too easy to just say he committed a crime and just throw them aside with the rest of the criminals. But each case is different, so we have to look at all the facts.

Foley knew he screwed up massively cybering with a 16 year old boy. Sanford knew he screwed up massively with a young mistress.

I think that speaks for itself.

Studds does not seem to think he screwed up at all having an affair with a 16-17 year old boy

Well, he does have a little thing called the State Law of Massachusetts behind him.

proved it by shunning any type of regret not to mention insulting congress, who felt he might want to accept just a bit of responsibility for extremely bad judgment

Well, if your actions were covered by state law and people were pushing to punish you because they felt it was morally wrong, wouldn't you fight back as well?

Nowhere have i said it is the "dirty lib" willing to do this.

It was a joke, silly...

i have castigated all of them. the difference, is that in those 3 cases, Sanford, Studds & Foley, not one of them did anything illegal (technically) by the age of consent.

Incorrect, as I already proven it otherwise above in the case of Foley. It's too early to judge Sanford on these same credentials.

If He is above the age of consent, than Foley has not done anything wrong, or even hypocritical, according to your reasons for not castigating Studds based on the age of consent.

They're two separate arguments, Flashy...
The age of consent is one part of the equation, and the impact on one's political career based on past actions is the other. You're simply putting the two together and ignoring the details within them just so you can have your belief that all of these guys are equally guilty.

cannot be both ways.

I shall say the same to you.

the boys were the same age.
they were both minors.

State laws would say a completely different story.
Ages of consent in North America - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

If you don't like that, then try and change the law. Until then, let's not make this an argument regarding morals and stick with the facts.

they were both above the age of consent

Nope. Foley's "love interest" would not have been protected by Age of Consent Laws in Florida (where Foley lived), nor in Louisiana (where the boy lived). Double whammy.

only 1 had sex with 1 of the boys or even any physical contact (Studds)

And it was legal.

the issue is not that Studds was gay,

That hasn't even factored into my argument thus far, although I know some of the people who pushed against Studds did it because it was a male-to-male relationship.

or how he ran his campaigns or his policy.

And that's the other half of the equation you're trying to leave out, Flashy...
That's why Foley & Sanford's actions are considered by some to be much more severe. As I stated before, it goes beyond the sex (or enticing of sexual contact).

the fact is, though both were above the age of consent (*BARELY*) both were minors.

Doesn't matter how many times you say that, Flashy, it doesn't make it state law. And let's not hate on people who know how to get people fresh out the incubator into bed. When we're both old and grey, we'd BOTH want to try and get some young, barely legal whipper snapper in bed just to show that we still got it. I'm kidding to some level, of course... :biggrin1:

I have not heard the republican party hierarchy ever sanction attacks against the democratic party as having "no morals" or not being "true christians".

I'm just going to take your word on this one. :confused:

Perhaps some individual Republicans do,

Like Sanford...

but for all their intolerance, as i have pointed out above, when the republicans have someone who is embroiled in a scandal of a moral/sexual nature, they are usually extremely active in destroying or forcing out that person, since that person becomes a threat to the perception & beliefs of what the GOP claims to promote.

Again, the GOP is more prone to make arguments based on morality than the opposition. They bring that extra level of scrutiny on themselves.

No matter how much you dislike/disagree with the republicans

Hey, I voted for one in the 90s (Weld). I still respect Colin Powell. I don't hate them all.

you have to give them credit. they may be intolerant & mean & preach values etc. but when one screws up & threatens that image, they do take action & the claws come out to protect the "values" image.

That's true. It's too bad they're more focused on maintaining an image than actually analyzing every situation and treating people like individuals first.
 

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Flashy, the issue is very clear. Mark Sanford preached the sanctity of marriage (which is code for anti-gay).

Remember When Philandering Gov. Mark Sanford Wanted to Keep Marriage for Straights? / Queerty

Now he finds himself doing significantly more damage to the "sanctity" of marriage than any committed gay couple.

I do not see the Replublicans standing up and trying to remove the right to marry from Mark Sanford. If they were consistent on the issue, shouldn't they be proposing laws in the State of South Carolina to outlaw marriage between any person that cheated in their previous marriages?

Here are some more quotes and votes:

“As Jenny and I are the parents of four little boys, we’ve always taught our kids that marriage was something between a man and a woman. As governor, I am supportive of legislation that furthers that definition here in South Carolina.” — Republican Governor Mark Sanford to the Post and Courier, February 2004


“He’s always felt marriage is between a man and a woman.” — Spokesman for Republican Governor Mark Sanford, April 2005


Question: “Do you think the Republican party should become more libertarian on the issue of gay marriage?” Answer: “No, I don’t.” — Republican Governor Mark Sanford, June 12 2009


During the Clinton impeachment issues, one House Republican, Mark Sanford, said: "The bottom line is that he lied under a different oath -the oath to his wife."


why can't you see that adultery has nothing to do with the values of other members of your party such as "anti-abortion", faith based initiatives, school prayer, anti gay marriage, gays in the military, anti contraception?
So far, the only mistake i see he made was that he engaged in sexual infidelity. If one person, in this case Sanford, cheats on his wife, that does not mean everyone else is. That also does not have any bearing on people's stance on religion, gay marriage, contraception or abortion.

how does that invalidate an entire party's view, even those who have made no mistakes and have not cheated on their wives, about abortion, religion, homosexuality etc?

Considering that many republicans, who actually believe in traditional family values, have called for him to resign, in fact makes the claim stronger.

You cannot castigate 50 people for the actions of 1.

Is it fair to suggest that the entire democratic party is somehow hypocritical for being against drunk driving and murder, when Ted Kennedy was drunkenly driving a young woman off a bridge, leaving her to die?

Who are you to judge 50 people by the actions of 1?

the next time i see a black kid murder another black kid, should i take your tact and apply it to all black people since almost all black people have as a community made trying to eradicate black on black murder a massive part of their drive for making their community safe? Of course not.'

If a person like Larry Craig is anti-gay through policies, then is found to be engaging in gay relationships, that is hypocritical in the extreme...

but what about the other thousands of republicans who are anti-gay, but are not engaging in gay sex. It is not their fault that he is sneaking off to mens rooms, and those are his actions.

it is called individual responsiblity

Flashy, the issue is that when a Party's platform consists of cherry picking their morals in a veiled attempt to cover up bigotry and then hide behind "privacy" and "forgiveness"... people don't like it.

I would respect the Republicans a lot more if they stuck to what use to be their believes (smaller government).

where exactly did Sanford every preach against infidelity? Point it out please.

See quotes and links above

how does infidelity, relate to preaching against abortion rights, gay rights, gays in the military, faith based initiatives, school prayer, etc?

by the same token of absurdity, Bill Clinton's infidelity invalidated his and the democratic party views on, opposing school prayer, being pro-choice,
being against Don;t ask Don't tell etc.

The difference is that Bill Clinton never ran on the platform of "sanctity of marriage". Get it? It is really quite simple.

Infidelity is a completely different issue, and if one person cheats, it does not invalidate the views of, or somehow make other innocent people guilty.

When Bill Clinton cheated, that does not mean that Barack Obama should be tarred too, since he is a member of the same party.

The difference is that Bill CLinton never ran on the platform of "sanctity of marriage". Get it?

Look up the definition of hypocrite and then maybe you can understand why folks are angry with Gov. Sanford.

You seem to be quite excellent at generalizing and accusing and stereotyping, much in the same way the republicans are

I see, so one person who has an affair, somehow invalidates good work or other views held by others who are innocent, and completely "destroys" their views and values?

you are a very silly person.

so the next democratic sex scandal, will, presumably lead to you decrying the democrats in the same way, considering this is in their platform:

No... The democratic platform is not tied to the religious right and the "sanctity of marriage"... I did not see the democratic party pour millions of dollars into a campaign to take away the rights of a minority -- Republicans did.

Family is the center of everyday American life. Our parents are our first protectors, first teachers, first role models, and first friends. Parents know that America's great reward is the quiet but incomparable satisfaction that comes from building their families a better life. Strong families, blessed with opportunity, guided by faith, and filled with dreams are the heart of a strong America.

I would assume that infidelity, divorce, or anything else that might compromise the family of a member of the democratic party in elected office anywhere in america, would then compromise all democrats, since they believe in strong families, parents as role models, teachers and protectors...etc.

Again, show me how someone who makes an individual choice to cheat on his wife sexually, invalidates the views of an entire party consisting of millions of members, not only that, but how also, it invalidates their views on issues, totally unrelated to infidelity, such as school prayer or abortion.

It doesn't... Government should stay out of our lifes... Abortion is legal. No one is stopping anyone from praying in school. Marriage is a government recognized institution between two loving, committed people.

The problem is Republicans instigate violence against Abortion doctors, want to force prayer in school, and are on a active campaign to stop two loving people from getting married.

Stay out of our lives, and I'll stop taking such pleasure in the unhappiness of hypocrites. Until that happens, I love to sit back and enjoy :)

So far, the only thing i see that Sanford violated, was his promise to be faithful to his wife on their wedding day. He did not break any laws by having sex with the woman. If he preached against infidelity, then indeed he was hypocritical as he would be if he included fidelity in his definition of family values...

but once again, i ask you to point just how, exactly, one man's infidelity invalidates the views and opinions of millions, even on unrelated topics?

I'll wait.

His entire political career (launched by his wife), he has been toting the line of "sancitity of marriage", "one man, one woman".

I did not hear him saying "one man, one or more woman"? or did I miss that somewhere?

It does not invalidate the views of the Republican party, but it certainly shows how flawed those views are.
 

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Rancorous partisan nonsense aside, I truly feel bad for Sanford...as a man and as a human being.

His heart has placed him in a position at odds with the norms dictated by the society that he lives in and represents...and it's plainly obvious to anyone with eyes that it's tearing him apart inside.


I agree. I have rarely seen such genuine, multi-faceted pain on a public face.

What I find truly egregious is that he literally abandoned his job and his state for four days. It's that that makes me question his judgment.
 
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the one giant difference is that one person's failing does not mean that 100 others have failed as well.

so how is it, that if one man falls from grace, 50 others who did not are somehow guilty? Being Pious and Christian does not mean that if one person fails, 49 others that he associates with are guilty too.

I see, so how does that make republicans that are not engaged in infidelity a hypocrite? also, how does Sanford cheating on his wife, have anything to do with gay rights?

What about the republicans that don't sin? Are they not entitled to be pious without being smeared when someone else fails?

and, if they use religion as part of their agenda, what is wrong with them looking to their religion for forgiveness if they screw up, usually of a sexual nature?

what rules are you referring to their flexibility on that they have been shouting when they find themselves in a scandal?

The Republican definition of marriage is one man, one woman. They seem very flexible on that rule when it comes to their own lifes. See John Ensign, David Vitter, Larry Craig, Vito Fossalia, etc. Of course once they are exposed, the only things the republicans can do is excommunicate them. But up until they are exposed, they are living life as hypocrites.

Wouldn't it be easier for a Poltical Party to say "Government should stay out of your personal lifes." Then, when a member of that party commits adultery, they can say "Look, I ran on the platform of getting government out of our personal lifes, so please respect that."

But when a Party does the opposite and actively seeks to impose it's moral beliefs on the entirity of America, and then leader after leader of that party is caught doing what they preach against. Look up the definition of hypocrite again.

How does it relate to Gay Rights... Republicans have spent millions on defending the sanctity of marriage. They described it as "*the* cornerstone of our society and without it maintaining it's "traditional" one man-one woman definition, the country will crumble."

Republicans can preach all they want about religion (this is America), but DO NOT FORCE your religious beliefs on anyone.

So if you, as a Republican, spend money, time, resources, preaching *your* religious beliefs on America, you should not be upset, or even surprised that when you fail to live up to those same beliefs, people react.

I have heard individuals shout it, but i have not heard the republican party or the millions of republicans shout anything when there is a sex scandal...in fact, most times, they demand that the guilty party resign his post or leadership position, or his consitutents try and vote him out.

so are you referring to an entire party of millions, or just the one person that screws up that shouts about flexibility in order to get him forgiven for failing?

How does one man having an extra-marital affair have anything to do with what the entire republican party of millions' view of government involvement in certain aspects of private life is?

What lies? What cover up?

"I was Hiking in the Mountains"... did you miss all of this?

I have not seen anyone lying or covering up for Sanford. I see only himself, trying to ride out a sad event that has you laughing hysterically at the pain his family is going through because he failed at controlling sexual urges we all have.

It says alot that you love watching it...it says alot that you love to blame an entire party when one person fails...it says alot that you are taking such pleasure in deriding the failings of this man, no matter what the effect is on his young children and wife.

You remind me exactly of the cackiling republicans who took such great joy and relish watching Clinton twist in the wind, while he and his wife and Daugher walked to the helicopter after the scandal broke, knowing that their pain, sadness and humiliaton was tearing them apart because someone failed on the same order that millions fail at every day.

It is funny that you hate the republicans so much...your delight at the misery of others and your intolerance makes you quite alot like those vicious, insufferable types you decry.

It is rather sad.

I relish not in the pain or misery that he has caused his family, but in the hypocrisy of the Republican party with respect to how they treat minorities so differently than themselves.

The Republicans party and their beliefs have caused the destruction of Gov. Sanford's family. When you lie with dogs, don't be surprised if you get fleas.

When you align yourself with a political party that preaches hate... don't be surprised that you are the one hated (again mostly by Republicans) when your actions contradict those beliefs.
 

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What I find truly egregious is that he literally abandoned his job and his state for four days. It's that that makes me question his judgment.[/FONT][/SIZE][/COLOR]

Bingo. How could he think he could just leave his job as Governor? Did he not think anyone would notice? Why did he not delegate his authority while gone?