RedHead8
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I don't get guys who say "I can't stop, I'm about to cum". Yes... you CAN stop. And if you stop, you ain't gonna cum so fast.
It's just a total lack of self-control and will power.
I don't get guys who say "I can't stop, I'm about to cum". Yes... you CAN stop. And if you stop, you ain't gonna cum so fast.
It's just a total lack of self-control and will power.
Even back when I first starting fucking in my teens, I was a "retarded ejaculator" (awful term that has fallen out of use, I think) who needed to fuck hard and steadily for at least 30 minutes to get off. This might be an asset for a straight man but has felt like a serious handicap for me as a gay man.
Have seen statistics somewhere that suggest your guy is far more typical, under ten minutes being standard. My attitude is why even bother if you're only going to do it five minutes! (On edit-- found this site that says under three minutes is typical-- hope this is wrong!)
Premature ejaculation - AskMen.com
Didn't you have an STD/cancer/something scare a little while back? Why are you still having unprotected sex?
I don't get guys who say "I can't stop, I'm about to cum". Yes... you CAN stop. And if you stop, you ain't gonna cum so fast.
It's just a total lack of self-control and will power.
OMG! UNDER 3 MINUTES! Women take much more time to organsm. In that case I guess he's normal. We had sex earlier today and I didn't wanna give him head in fear of a repeat so to get him hard so we can start fucking I started with a handjob. 3minutes into the handjob he said "STOP!" I did and he then said "i was about to cum". We talked and agreed to end it tomorrow.
I know I know...I can possibly catch something...but I haven't. We're ending it tomorrow so that wont be an issue anymore. Besides, we tried anal today and he came in my ASS
OMG!!! That's what I didn't understand. If you haven't cum yet and I want you to slow down/stop so you don't why can't you? Is an invisible person holding a gun to your head? I think he was getting "i can't" and "i won't" confused :frown1:
Roughly 2ish hours, without a condom, unless there's a need to "rush" for some reason. Never been able to finish in less than 15 minutes even hurrying like a rabbit.I just got finished having sex and a question came across my mind... How long does the average guy last for sex? I gave him head for 5 minutes and then we fucked for about 5 so all together it was 10 minutes. Is this the average time for most guys?
I know you may need more details so here it goes:
He was going slow...very slow (in and out...pause...in and out)
Out of nowhere he started pounding the last 30 seconds and I told him to slow down and he said "i can't help it...im about to cum".
No condom was used...this may have also affected his time.
Any more questions then feel free to ask.