What's your average time?

What's your average time?

  • Under 5 min

    Votes: 14 6.5%
  • 5-10 min

    Votes: 43 20.0%
  • 11-30 min

    Votes: 80 37.2%
  • 30-1 hr

    Votes: 51 23.7%
  • over an hour

    Votes: 27 12.6%

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RedHead8

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I don't get guys who say "I can't stop, I'm about to cum". Yes... you CAN stop. And if you stop, you ain't gonna cum so fast.

It's just a total lack of self-control and will power.
 

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I can last as long as bottom tells me that he has had enough. I don't come by fucking. It isn't a reflection upon the bottom either. I have had sex with some really hot men with amazing grippy sphincters. Those guys felt really good. I want to pleasure those hot fuckers even more. I want to make them come.
 

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I don't get guys who say "I can't stop, I'm about to cum". Yes... you CAN stop. And if you stop, you ain't gonna cum so fast.

It's just a total lack of self-control and will power.

EXACTLY, RedHead!!!!
It could not have been said better!
 

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The truth is that most males last about 3-4 minutes on the average. Apperantly the guys on LPSG are "porn stars" and can go for hours... Maybe that is what separates the well endowed from the rest of the world? :wink:

I don't get guys who say "I can't stop, I'm about to cum". Yes... you CAN stop. And if you stop, you ain't gonna cum so fast.

It's just a total lack of self-control and will power.
 
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I guess normally my girlfriend and I go from 11-30 minutes. Then she usually gets really sore. :(

Other times we'll fuck all night (if we've been drinking)... Then's she sore for a couple days :(
 

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This is a learned response. You can train yourself to delay coming, and if you get into tantra, you can even orgasm without cuming. It all really depends on your guy's mindset/conditioning, assuming he wants wants to satisfy you first. My range is from 30 minutes to when we both are ready, whatever time that takes.
 

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First off, to the OP, it sounds like you had some WACK sex......5 mins oral 5 mins pen.??? That isn't even sex to me, 5 mins flies, since I started typing this post a minute has passed already.

I always last (penetration, not including oral, foreplay, etc...) around 45-1hour..... I can go longer than 1 hour to 1 n a half.
 

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I was watching Embarrassing Bodies (UK Channel 4) the other day and they said the average time to ejaculation during sex is 2 minutes and I was shocked, I've only came during sex once, it's not a matter of how long it takes me to come it's if I come at all. Whilst masterbating it takes me between 10 minutes to a few hours or not at all.
 

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Even back when I first starting fucking in my teens, I was a "retarded ejaculator" (awful term that has fallen out of use, I think) who needed to fuck hard and steadily for at least 30 minutes to get off. This might be an asset for a straight man but has felt like a serious handicap for me as a gay man.

Have seen statistics somewhere that suggest your guy is far more typical, under ten minutes being standard. My attitude is why even bother if you're only going to do it five minutes! (On edit-- found this site that says under three minutes is typical-- hope this is wrong!)

Premature ejaculation - AskMen.com

OMG! UNDER 3 MINUTES! Women take much more time to organsm. In that case I guess he's normal. We had sex earlier today and I didn't wanna give him head in fear of a repeat so to get him hard so we can start fucking I started with a handjob. 3minutes into the handjob he said "STOP!" I did and he then said "i was about to cum". We talked and agreed to end it tomorrow.
Didn't you have an STD/cancer/something scare a little while back? Why are you still having unprotected sex?

I know I know...I can possibly catch something...but I haven't. We're ending it tomorrow so that wont be an issue anymore. Besides, we tried anal today and he came in my ASS

I don't get guys who say "I can't stop, I'm about to cum". Yes... you CAN stop. And if you stop, you ain't gonna cum so fast.

It's just a total lack of self-control and will power.

OMG!!! That's what I didn't understand.:confused: If you haven't cum yet and I want you to slow down/stop so you don't why can't you? Is an invisible person holding a gun to your head? I think he was getting "i can't" and "i won't" confused :frown1:
 
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one of my favorite things about sex is watching a girl cum, so obviously endurance is a must. I can in all honesty say that my average time is 25-30 minutes, with the primary variable being how much energy i have.
 

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OMG! UNDER 3 MINUTES! Women take much more time to organsm. In that case I guess he's normal. We had sex earlier today and I didn't wanna give him head in fear of a repeat so to get him hard so we can start fucking I started with a handjob. 3minutes into the handjob he said "STOP!" I did and he then said "i was about to cum". We talked and agreed to end it tomorrow.


I know I know...I can possibly catch something...but I haven't. We're ending it tomorrow so that wont be an issue anymore. Besides, we tried anal today and he came in my ASS



OMG!!! That's what I didn't understand.:confused: If you haven't cum yet and I want you to slow down/stop so you don't why can't you? Is an invisible person holding a gun to your head? I think he was getting "i can't" and "i won't" confused :frown1:

funny, I've caused quite a few women to confuse I can't and I wont as well :eek: )
when you are horny enough wont and can't really are the same
 

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For me, the answer varies a lot, so it's hard to know the real average.

During a 1-on-1 quickie, sex is sometimes just 15 minutes.

For most 1-on-1 sex, we usually take over 30 minutes.

But when I have sex with both of my partners, our threesomes usually last over 90 minutes and often over 2 hours.
 

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I just got finished having sex and a question came across my mind... How long does the average guy last for sex? I gave him head for 5 minutes and then we fucked for about 5 so all together it was 10 minutes. Is this the average time for most guys?

I know you may need more details so here it goes:

He was going slow...very slow (in and out...pause...in and out)
Out of nowhere he started pounding the last 30 seconds and I told him to slow down and he said "i can't help it...im about to cum".
No condom was used...this may have also affected his time.
Any more questions then feel free to ask.
Roughly 2ish hours, without a condom, unless there's a need to "rush" for some reason. Never been able to finish in less than 15 minutes even hurrying like a rabbit.
 

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ive never cum in less than like 5 minutes, but i guess my average is like 20? sometimes you last ages sometimes only ten minutes it depends on things
 

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surely i can cum in 5 Minutes but i dont want it!, i can go to 45 Minutes ( hard and fast and without breaks ), with breaks and much foreplay i can go to hours but thats not so extraordinary, that can everyone