How many people have you been with and do you think your size has influenced that either way?
13 women have given me orgasms via direct genital contact of some kind, 10 of them were full blown (sexual) relationships of various lengths of time, from one-time hookups, a few occasional get-togethers to long term relationships.
Absolutely none of the women I have been with had any idea of my penis size before they decided they were going to experience it for themselves. Unfortunately for me, no word was spread, and there was no online reputation at the time. What did happen is that I am naturally a good lover as I love to please the woman I'm with, pay attention to their needs (sexual or not) and especially pay attention to what works (and doesn't) when making love with them.
On almost every first sexual encounter, I've been complimented on how well I performed and took care to see that the woman got the most pleasure I could give her. Except for the hookups where we had no expectation of seeing each other again, that made sure there was a 2nd, 3rd, 50th, 100th, etc, time we had sex.
The old cliche of "It's not the meat but the motion" is very true in my experience, but in my case, having "the meat"
and "the motion" made for some very, very happy and sexually satisfied women!