If the pizza is not good enough to eat the leftovers cold for breakfast, that pizza was never good enough to eat hot. Facts.
A lot of this thread seems to be more about seduction than getting him off. Feedback I've gotten from men seems to indicate that I have a way of watching a man's eyes that is appealing. From my perspective, if his eyes are no fun to watch, I don't want him. My eyes have been described as dark and questioning (or sometimes other words to that effect) and simultaneously guarded and seeking (or sometimes similar words to that effect). I'm aware of this habit of eye-watching with interesting men, and it is not meant to be part of my seduction play, but apparently it's an alluring trait. When I'm ready to shift gears and make a deliberate move, I will be watching his mouth.
When I'm hand feeding him from my plate, kissing my favorite parts of his face (usually while declaring out lout how irresistibly cute his nose, ear, dimple or whatever is), gently thumbing his hairline or jaw, getting him to spontaneously slow-dance with me, or doing something nice for him (like driving 200 miles because plans for him to come to my house fell through, baking something just for him, or editing his term paper) that's all early stages of seduction. It's generally effective, too.
However, the truth his seducing "him" is tailored to whomever he is, but no matter who I'm working on, it begins with seducing myself.