What's Your Opinion Undescended Testicle

[psguy64]

Are you attracted to a man that has an undescended testicle
meaning one testis is visiable and available for touch.

OK here it goes, from childhood I have been embarrassed
not having two testicles in my scrotum. I have always to
this day, incomplete. Years and for years I have been
personally embarrassed. In my youth I considered it a
birth defect.

Due to personal life changes I am seriously considering
having an implant. Also, would like to fill out my speedo
or have a larger jean bulge.

Background was married 25-yrs with resulted with four healthy
children - two sons [first thing check at their respective births
was to determine if they had two testis]. 3-grandsons did not
inherit their grandfathers condition.

Marriage failed 20-yrs ago, with that changed teams and with
a successful relationship with another man for 10-yrs.

To date no one has made a comment one way or another
of a testis...no one has ever mentioned that I have ruby red
lips tat on my ass either.

Now that I am totally 'out there', single and available -
after all these years I am wondering if I should have an implant.

My inhibitions or fear or potential embarrassment gradually
evaporates once my pants are initially dropped and an
mutual inventory has been made...have been carrying this
concern for wayyy to long.

Appreciate your comments. What's your opinion men?

 

[D_Teasdale Tittithorne]

I personally don't think this is something to be concerned over. I would prefer the one as it is to an implant. It's an easier mouthful, and I think natural is always better. Plus, it's not affecting performance.

 

[D_Teasdale Tittithorne]

And it's often our "oddities" (for lack of a better word) that add to sexual excitement.

 

[B_crackoff]

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Straining & getting a hernia would do a go job! I'm sure that there would be more people interested just to have a look see if you told them. There are a lot of better things to splash your cash on.

 

[dolfette]

makes no difference.

 

[crescendo69]

One of the sexiest guys I knew had an undescended testicle.

 

[londonhanger]

Is there not an option to have it descended? I'm sure I read that can be done.

 

[earllogjam]

Pick the low hanging fruit first.

 

[Dave NoCal]

An undescended testicle is a testicular cancer risk. You should get this aspect evaluated and monitored.
Dave

 

[belowaverage1]

I have my left testicle which never dropped. I've lived with it for 25 years and have come to accept it myself.

At times there are feelings of inequality, especially when dealing with other guys who have particularly large nuts but that's just how things go.

I have been dumped for it before but the guy was a vain runway model. I realize that if someone can't accept me for who I am then they don't deserve to be with me.

If you can't accept yourself, it's worse.

It's the way you were made. Be proud of it.

We all have things about us that make us more "worthwhile."

 

[kiltiesf]

I too was born with a left undecended testicle, and ended up having it removed at age 39, as I was informed that I had a 75% of developing testicular cancer in BOTH testicles if not removed.

As far as my sexual encounters, they haven't had much said. A few have inquired, and once its explained they shrug their shoulders and go back to whatever we were doing.

I will say that as a result of being a member of the One-Baller Club, that I have a fetish for a beautiful set of balls that are full and hang nicely. But I won't kick a man outta bed if he doesn't possess such.

Its one thing to be born with just one testicle, its another to have an undecended testicle - if its undecended, go and get it check by a doctor; more than likely they're going to recommend its removal. Its a week off of work, and the scaring will be minimal; you can barely see mine, unless you're specifically searching for it - its faded, and hidden within pubic hair. Man up and get yourself check!!!

 

[claddagh]

I dated a guy once that only had one testicle, he had lost the other one in a motorcycle accident. If he hadn't told me, I probably wouldn't have noticed I certainly didn't care. I mean, it did feel different but there was still plenty to play with.

 

[BlackGirl]

It seems that I have heard of this condition before, I remember vaguely hearing about this in the case of a male cat.

 

[D_CountVonBhigBohner]

I would consult a physician to discuss my options rather than get opinions on a message board.....just sayin

 

[silvertriumph2]

Why worry what people will think now? You had no problems before, so why would it be any different now that you have "changed teams?"

That said, please go get checked and consider having it removed for your health's sake. If you want to have an implant so that you feel more complete, go ahead.
I understand that today it is almost impossible to tell the implants from the real ones.
Unless you tell, it will not be known.
Good luck...

 

[dolfette]

I would consult a physician to discuss my options rather than get opinions on a message board.....just sayin

will his doc know what women do and don't find attractive?

there's nothing wrong with doing both. he was born this way so his doctors are aware. i'm sure there have been conversations. but, from his POV,what's the point in spending on a purely cosmetic implant if it turns out very few women will care?

 

[onenuttertoo]

onenutter here too. Trust me, in public (gym showers, etc), it is hard to tell. It is uncomfortable when first having sex with someone for the first time but have never had a problem with it.