What's your problem with dating? I have had men and women tell me I am way too picky. I'm sorry but since when is a high school diploma and teeth too picky. :261: I think I might be clingy, but that's only because I have been cheated on in the past and have trust issues. :redface: When I was in a relationship with an honest and good man I wasn't clingy. As for being socially lazy, I don't think that's an apt description in my case. It's more a fear of going places by myself, where I would be likely to meet men. In New Jersey and Massachusetts for some reason I felt safer going skiing, biking, hiking or even to the corner bar by myself than I do here in Georgia. As for commitment issues I'm all about commitment. I love relationships, it's that initial dating process I suck at. I mean think about it, a first date is like a job interview with someone who may or may not want to fuck you and you get to eat while obsessing about this. :yikes: No pressure there. I'm sure I act completely normal on a first date. . . NOT! If my introverted weirdness doesn't freak him out I'm sure the lettuce in my teeth will.