Gillette
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Knowing size ahead of time can be valuable whether the relationship is casual or not. Good sex and orgasm help to cement the emotional bond in loving relationships. Ho hum sex and lack of orgasms don't.I guess what I'm conveying is that knowledge of size ahead of time can result in significantly better sex, and therefore in a casual relationship, knowing it can be valuable. Too big or too small, either way can be a barrier to great sex.
I happen to think sexual compatibility is even more important in long term relationships than it is for casual encounters.
With a casual encounter lack of satisfaction just means you don't repeat the encounter.
With a relationship continual lack of satisfaction can lead to discord in other areas of the relationship possibly leading to cheating or break up.
Why do many think it's okay to ask when the consequence of incompatibility might be one missed orgasm but not okay when the consequence might be heartbreak?