What's your reaction and impression to a woman asking about your size?

[Drifterwood]

Women have a hard time with this issue. Society's take on it is that if you know exactly what size cock you like, that says you've sampled quite a few. If you like big ones, it might also imply (to some) that you're a slut and you've worn your pussy out and you need crazy barnyard animals or pornstar slutty men to have sex with. Plus if you're being so harsh on men about penis size, where is your sense of priority? Why wouldn't you prefer a nice, stable man (even if he's a little boring to you)? What kind of slutty childish girl wants boys with big cocks? When a guy wants a young bimbo with big tits and a tight body, he's just being human. But if a woman has that mentality, she's putting her basest, most shallow desires before being a wife and mother (according to society). We can change the laws, but we can't change the fact that most of us were raised by sexist people and everything we learned was just a generation's influence away from the same sexist institutions we pretend are long gone.

I completely agree.

Furthermore, if men didn't have such dumbass egos about their dicks then a lot of sexual issues could be easily resolved.

 

[Drifterwood]

give a real HONEST answer and stick to it

Rob, take a look at my thread in the women's section.

All I see Chrissy saying is that for some women a big/bigger dick is a must for sexual satisfaction.

If you don't have one, why should you be bitching about it, move on. If you do, then lucky you, if you also want sex with that person. There should be no proide involved.

Having said this, there are certain types of Puss that I prefer to others. I haven't yet found a way to be precogniscent.

 

[Enid]

how do you tactfully and sensitively ask someone you hardly know how big thier dick is?

I don't ask men about their cock size, period. Particularly not strange men (men I don't know). When I mentioned tact and sensitivity I was referring to the OP's pursuit of a larger-sized partner.

in a thread where a guy wants to feel good about having a big dick, a ton of women come out and insist size dosn't matter

I'll never say size doesn't matter at all, for me personally.

All I see Chrissy saying is that for some women a big/bigger dick is a must for sexual satisfaction.

Yes, that is what I was saying, thank you Drift for putting it succinctly.

 

[TheRob]

Rob, take a look at my thread in the women's section.

All I see Chrissy saying is that for some women a big/bigger dick is a must for sexual satisfaction.

If you don't have one, why should you be bitching about it, move on. If you do, then lucky you, if you also want sex with that person. There should be no proide involved.

Having said this, there are certain types of Puss that I prefer to others. I haven't yet found a way to be precogniscent.

I was extreamly clear with the problem I have with the majority of women on this site tryng to 'have it both ways' if you can't understand then I can't help you

 

[NYCdude]

It is very important to my sexual satisfaction that the woman be under 120 pounds - I like to be able to lift the woman in the air comfortably and my tested limit is exactly 120 pounds. So, if the girl looks on the edge and I can't tell, I'm going to ask how much she weighs...

I think I would be slapped in the face and then beaten up by some guy-friend.

 

[NYCdude]

In other words chrissymgreen and drifter wood, the point is not whether or not you can have the preference, ofcourse you can, but can you just ask it at a bar or on the first date? No, because some men will find it offensive, just as the situation I outlined above.

That being said, I'd be turned on by it...But if someone was offended by it, you can't cry for feminism in this case

 

[KTF40]

When a guy wants a young bimbo with big tits and a tight body, he's just being human. But if a woman has that mentality, she's putting her basest, most shallow desires before being a wife and mother (according to society).

That constant comparison to men's preference for big tits and women's preference for big cocks is really a bad comparison. You can't have intercourse with tits. You can have intercourse with a dick.

The better comparison would be women's preference for a big dick and a man's preference for a tight pussy.

Which leads me to why this question puts men at an unfair position. Yeah, a woman can ask a guy does he have a big dick, but can a guy ask a girl if her pussy is tight? You know the girl is always going to say yes, regardless of whether it is true or not. Personally, I feel like a woman can only ask me how big I am as long as I can determine how deep and tight she is. But we all know that's not practical.

 

[Pitbull]

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The better comparison would be women's preference for a big dick and a man's preference for a tight pussy.

Which leads me to why this question puts men at an unfair position. Yeah, a woman can ask a guy does he have a big dick, but can a guy ask a girl if her pussy is tight?

She: "Do you have a big dick?"
He: "Yes, I have a big dick!"

He: "Do you have a tight pussy?"
She: " I have a very tight pussy."
She : "Only guys with small dicks think it isn't tight."

 

[D_Jurgen Klitgaard]

That constant comparison to men's preference for big tits and women's preference for big cocks is really a bad comparison. You can't have intercourse with tits. You can have intercourse with a dick.

The better comparison would be women's preference for a big dick and a man's preference for a tight pussy.

Which leads me to why this question puts men at an unfair position. Yeah, a woman can ask a guy does he have a big dick, but can a guy ask a girl if her pussy is tight? You know the girl is always going to say yes, regardless of whether it is true or not. Personally, I feel like a woman can only ask me how big I am as long as I can determine how deep and tight she is. But we all know that's not practical.

But if you have a big dick, then it'll probably be tight regardless.

 

[Gillette]

I was extreamly clear with the problem I have with the majority of women on this site tryng to 'have it both ways' if you can't understand then I can't help you

The problem you have is trying to lump all women together. Those of us participating in this thread so far are not the same women who say that size doesn't matter. For some it does, for others it doesn't. We aren't trying to have it both ways, we're two different groups.

That constant comparison to men's preference for big tits and women's preference for big cocks is really a bad comparison. You can't have intercourse with tits. You can have intercourse with a dick.

Not to mention tits are visible clothed.

The better comparison would be women's preference for a big dick and a man's preference for a tight pussy.

Which leads me to why this question puts men at an unfair position. Yeah, a woman can ask a guy does he have a big dick, but can a guy ask a girl if her pussy is tight? You know the girl is always going to say yes, regardless of whether it is true or not. Personally, I feel like a woman can only ask me how big I am as long as I can determine how deep and tight she is. But we all know that's not practical.

If there were a way to determine tightness so we could answer that question it would be great. I'd be happy to provide an answer.

You can't even go with a kegel master score because that's flexed, so not representative of a natural fit. The same goes for those inflatable dildo things, max stretched capacity also isn't representative of a natural fit and certainly not representative of a comfortable fit.

The best we can offer in answer to such a question is that we'll probably feel looser the more the penis deviates below X" girth, and tighter the further the penis deviates above X". Probably being the operative word. We can't judge your perception of tight.

The erect penis is the only factor that can be quantitatively measured with any meaningful accuracy.

 

[Bob Ross]

I don't read into it too far. Such as in terms of the accepted roles of men and women in society and whether or not such norms are morally correct...

To me, its totally dependent upon the setting...If we are out drinking and having a good time and someone makes a joke about dick size or we are flirting or some other normal situation and she was a little flirty/curious and asked I would be a little embarrassed by it (to be honest) but I would probably tell her and I wouldn't be offended or think less of her.

But if we had just met up for the first time and were walking into a movie theater and she asked me how big my dick was I would be a little weirded-out. Not that I would think she was classless but it seems stupid to ask seeing as so many men lie so whats the point and also its one of those "are you good enough for me 'cause i'm the shit" miund games that make me rue the thought of "dating"

 

[shr1125]

Out of curiosity, what if he lies? In other words, if you ask him his size and he responds with some acceptable value, do you accept his answer as fact? Do you insist on checking for yourself right then? Or do you wait until you're both getting naked and you have visual confirmation before you reject him?

The erect penis is the only factor that can be quantitatively measured with any meaningful accuracy.

This is a great statement. Taken out of the context of this thread, it could take on a whole new meaning.

 

[KTF40]

The problem you have is trying to lump all women together. Those of us participating in this thread so far are not the same women who say that size doesn't matter. For some it does, for others it doesn't. We aren't trying to have it both ways, we're two different groups.

Not to mention tits are visible clothed.

If there were a way to determine tightness so we could answer that question it would be great. I'd be happy to provide an answer.

You can't even go with a kegel master score because that's flexed, so not representative of a natural fit. The same goes for those inflatable dildo things, max stretched capacity also isn't representative of a natural fit and certainly not representative of a comfortable fit.

The best we can offer in answer to such a question is that we'll probably feel looser the more the penis deviates below X" girth, and tighter the further the penis deviates above X". Probably being the operative word. We can't judge your perception of tight.

The erect penis is the only factor that can be quantitatively measured with any meaningful accuracy.

Which is why I said it isn't practical. I can tell the difference between every pussy I've been with. But obviously, a girl isn't going to let me stick it in them to determine their tightness and depth.

However, there has to be some kind of way to figure out depth though, right? If some girl is going to ask the question and reject me for being too small, I should be able to ask girls how deep they are and reject them for being too deep. Seems fair to me.

 

[Gillette]

Or do you wait until you're both getting naked and you have visual confirmation before you reject him?

This.
I'd reject anyone caught lying about something I considered important. Wouldn't you?

The doubly shitty part of this is that they lie counting on the woman's supposed tender hearted nature to spare his feelings and go through with the sex anyway. Been there, done that, not sparing the feelings of any more manipulative pricks.

{quote]This is a great statement. Taken out of the context of this thread, it could take on a whole new meaning.[/QUOTE]Don't.

Which is why I said it isn't practical. I can tell the difference between every pussy I've been with. But obviously, a girl isn't going to let me stick it in them to determine their tightness and depth.

They would if you had other appealing qualities and were in the range they liked.:wink:

However, there has to be some kind of way to figure out depth though, right? If some girl is going to ask the question and reject me for being too small, I should be able to ask girls how deep they are and reject them for being too deep. Seems fair to me.

If depth is an issue for you it is fair. I have no objection to that. We even had a thread in the women's forum testing this with our toys. However, a problem with this is if a guy were to reject a woman based on not being deep enough. A woman can take more length when she's highly excited (tenting) and toys rarely get us to quite that level.

 

[shr1125]

I'd reject anyone caught lying about something I considered important. Wouldn't you?

Yes, I would.

This is a great statement. Taken out of the context of this thread, it could take on a whole new meaning.

Don't.

Please.

 

[Drifterwood]

I was extreamly clear with the problem I have with the majority of women on this site tryng to 'have it both ways' if you can't understand then I can't help you

Gillette has pointed out the flaw in your opinion above. Let's see if I can help you.

I am aware of three types of regualar female orgasm. Clitoral, Gspot and deep vaginal. So the first variable for a woman is which ones of these she can achieve and which ones, singular or combination she needs to be satisfied. The first two don't even need a cock, but if you are using a cock then the skill of the man is far more important, though girth and shape will help.

Let's throw in a few other variables regarding the emotional needs and psychology of the woman. Some women will say that they can't just have sex. I am not sure that I believe this completely, but it s certainly a barrier, and then there are women who want a big cocked man even if they don't need it.

Back to the physical. If you agree that men have two obvious dimensions, length and girth, and you stick with three definitions, short medium, and long, skinny, medium, and fat, then you have nine variables. So what about the vagina and vulva? You have the size of the openning, the volume of the vagina and then it's depth. Throw into this the variables of arousal, muscle control and stretching, then I think that you can see that the definitve size of a woman is beyond my inclination to compute.

But anyway, let's get back to the question how big is your cock. Upon reflection you could answer it like this.

1/ Do you need girth for your clitoris and Gspot?
2/ Do you need girth to feel full inside?
3/ Do you need length to stimulate your posterior fornix?

Then the detail is the relative size needs. Some women only need 5 inch girth, some women's cul de sacs are reached with 5. Then some women prefer 7 girth and you can still be going with 9 of length.

You could answer the question, how big is your cock, by asking how big is your cunt and what orgasms do you like?

But you can probably assume that someone asking this question is quite experienced, can have sex without you being the ideal boyfriend and understands the x by y system.

You could tell them that they aren't your type, even if you have the biggest wang in the district.

You could get it out and show them, or let them have a feel. Or you could say that you have had a lot of compliments. Never say that you have never had any complaints.

 

[Silvertip]

i think it would depend on how she asked it. if it was a matter of fact clinical thing or brashly stated, it wouldn't do much for me ... but if she asked in a flirtier more seductive manner, it'd be something of a turn on ...

I agree wholeheartedly with The Reverend. My own favorite memory of being asked in a flirty, seductive manner was with an attractive woman I had know for some time, but until then not in a sexual way. I had dropped in to my favorite bar/restaurant for lunch and she was there at a table alone. She invited me to join her and I gladly accepted the invitation. After catching up on small talk she reached across the table, took one of my hands in hers and began gently stroking the back of my hand and fingers. Then she asked "Is it true what they say about men who have such large hands?" For reasons that are not entirely clear to me that was a huge turn on and I immediately began going erect. Hell I don't even remember now whether I ever ordered or ate my lunch that day, all I remember is her staring into my eyes and asking that question.

 

[D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah]

To ask a person you had just met straight out would be extremely rude, and the kind of man who would answer a question like that probably isnt someone i'd want to take home. However, if it's towards the end of the night and the conversation has been taking a more intimate, flirty turn then i think its quiet reasonable to sneak the question in. But i think the key is to remember not to ask if you cant handle the truth becuase the cute guy you've been flirting with all night might just tell you he's hung like a 3 year old from Antartica.

 

[sendera1]

If it was just casual sex I wouldn't mind a woman asking me about my size. I've never had a woman really come right out and be so blunt. I guess since I'm big I wouldn't mind though. The way it's typically paid out is that we've maybe flirted all night and towards the end of the night the woman might mention it. I never ever bring up anything related to sex with a woman. I always let them bring it up and they always do. I let them steer the conversation around to size if they like and joke with them, but eventually, they'll know that I'm big. The majority of the time we end up hooking up. The funny thing is that the majority of them thought I was kidding, so a big penis is icing on the cake to them.

 

[Magnum10x2]

Do you guys think it's fair for a girl who might be interested in having casual sex to ask you about your size or would you rather risk getting rejected face to face?

I have no issues with the question..

I've had a few women be that forward. Once, I had a girl who was chatting with me say, "so, how big are you" - without missing a beat I said, "over 9". Within an hour, we were back at her place fucking like animals.

Whats the big deal - If I couldn't see your tits, I'd probably ask you how big they were and if they were real...