When a "straight" married guy strikes up a conversation in public...

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This has probably happened to most of us. You're out and about somewhere and you notice a married guy checking you out. Or maybe he strikes up a conversation. This has happened to me several times over the years. If I thought he was good looking and I was interested I played along. The ones checking me out, eyes up and down, were more obvious and I knew he was in cruising mode and we ended up hooking up.

The ones who struck up a conversation were sometimes less obvious to interpret their intent. Sometimes the public setting made it awkward, sometimes my radar would be off, e.g., they were just nice and not hitting on me. Since I was interested and wanted to get to their cock I would go for it and engage in a conversation. My hit rate is about 20%, meaning my gaydar is off in a lot of situations and they were just friendly guys. And there was no pattern to the 20% of the times we did end up hooking up. Sometimes it's just hard to tell, sometimes it creates an awkward situation, sometimes it's just funny and sometimes it's BINGO!

Anyone else have interesting situations where a "straight" married guy struck up a conversation with you in public and your radar had to interpret whether or not he was hitting on you? Where were you? What did he say to you? Did you get it right or wrong? What ended up happening? Funny situations welcome!

NOT looking for situations in public bathrooms, the gym, adult bookstores, bathhouses, etc.
 

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I like how guys share their experiences on this site. These are things we could never talk about until we had gay friends because we weren't in the 100% straight world. Even now, I haven't shared some of these stories so it's good to get them out there. It's amazing how many of us have had similar experiences but in different places.

I shared this with another guy on here this week. For me college was a time of discovery. I had an affair with a 34 year old married guy. I guess it was more of an affair for him than me since I wasn't in a relationship at the time. He was 6'4", good looking. Italian, dark hair, olive skin, classic looks, and athletic build. My friends tell me the way we met sounds like a cheesy gay porn movie.

I was picking up some briefs, aka tightie whities, in a department store. As I was going through the stack looking for several in my size he came up and started looking at underwear. I thought, "Fuck! He's hot. And he's buying underwear!" Plus he was wearing a suit (I've always had a thing for good looking guys in suits!) When I had mine picked out I turned around to go to the register and he said, "What do you think, gray or black?" as he held up a package in each hand. I was like did he just ask me that?!! I had never been hit on in public so was nervous... plus I didn't have much experience with guys and times were different. I didn't really know how to respond but wanted to since he was so hot and I was trying to get comfortable with myself being gay. I responded, "Gray if you're working out and black for all other times." He smiled and said, "I guess I'll have to get both." He was so handsome and his smile melted me. We then both walked up to the cash register. There were two sales associates who rang us up at the same time.

We walked out of the underwear department at the same time and towards the same door to the parking lot. Since he wasn't saying anything I thought maybe he wasn't hitting on me and was asking a serious question. But I also knew I had always kicked myself for not going for it, being more forward, so I decided to test the waters. I asked him, "So, what color are you wearing now?" He laughed and smiled and said, "White. Do you want to see? I replied, "Yes." He smiled and said, "And I guess you're wearing white?" And I responded, "Do you want to see?" He just smiled. I wasn't sure if he was just playing or not.

When we got out to the parking lot he said, "I'm over here." My heart started racing. I scored but this was also the first time I'd done anything like this. We went to his BMW and got in. He look around and checked that no one was around. He unbuckled his belt, unbuttoned the waistband, unzipped and spread open the fly of his trousers. He was wearing white Calvin Klein briefs. He reached into his trousers and pulled out a softball sized bulge. He then said, "Your turn" and I did the same although I didn't quite have a softball size bulge!

I said, "Black briefs will definitely look good on you" as I looked at his hairy lower stomach and wondered what he was packing. He said he agreed. I then thought to myself, you just need to go for it, so I asked, "Do I get to see what's in your briefs?" He smiled, pulled down the waistband with his left thumb exposing a thick dark bush and the base of his thick cock. He reached into his briefs with his right hand and pulled out his big dick and his balls. His cock was somewhere between soft and semi, a good six inches at this point and thick. It was quickly stretching out! He then told me it was my turn. I pulled out my dick which was getting hard and my balls. He asked if he could feel my cock and I told him yes. I let him feel my dick and balls for a couple of minutes. By now he was boned up and his hard dick was beautiful-- long, super thick, perfectly shaped with a slight banana curve. I reached over and felt him off.

After a few minutes of each of us feeling each other I told him I was getting a little nervous sitting in his car doing this. I asked him if we could go to his place. That's when he told me he was married and had kids. He then asked if I'd be interested in going to the hotel across the street. I said yes and we went to the hotel and he got a room. We quickly got naked. He told me what a nice body I had and here I was standing in front of him thinking he's the hottest guy I've ever been with! We made out and sucked each other's dick and then jacked off to completion. He shot a huge load, about twice as much as mine. Four to five big squirts onto his hairy chest and stomach.

As we cleaned up in the bathroom we started talking about other stuff and he seemed like a really good guy. We continued to talk as he drove me back to my car. He gave me his work number and said to call him if I was interested in getting together again. I called him the next day.

We got together for about four months. We only met in hotels. Sometimes for an hour or two, sometimes most of the day and twice an over nighter when his family was away. We talked a lot, watched movies or TV shows and had lots of sex, including a lot of fucking each other. It ended when his company transferred him. During our last get together he told me how much he liked me. His eyes got red and tears welled up and I knew he wanted to say more but couldn't because of his situation and the times.

I always wondered what happened to him. Really nice guy, handsome, hot fit body, big dick... still in the top 3 I've had in my ass! And the sex was great!!
 

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My friends call me a magnate for "straight" married men. My gaydar is pretty fine tuned. Public settings can be fun to see how far you can go like in conversations dropping hints or seeing how far the other guy will go and how comfortable or uncomfortable he is.

Last summer I went to a friend's wedding at a splashy hotel in San Diego. The wedding was on Saturday and I was going to stay through Monday morning since I had business in LA. At the reception I noticed this guy talking to a circle of people who kept looking over at me. It was a straight wedding but there were several gay guys there, some I knew and some I didn't. I assumed he was gay. He was good looking, stocky in a good way (about 5'9", wide with broad shoulders and a flat stomach). A few minutes later I looked over and he had his arm around an attractive blonde woman and they were obviously together. I thought to myself, "You got that one wrong."

Fast forward a half an hour or so, I'm standing at the bar waiting for a drink. I hear a guy behind me say, "Great setting for a reception isn't it?" I turned around and it was him. I told him I agreed and introduced myself. He introduced himself, we got our drinks and the chatting began. We talked about 15-20 minutes about all the usual stuff. A couple of times during conversation I could tell he was checking me out by the ways his eyes would just look me over, like to my chest or when I stood back quickly down to my crotch. So add his earlier glances my way to this and I knew I wanted to veer the conversation in the direction of figuring out his story. About that moment a guy came up and said his wife was looking for him to be in a group photo. Later on I caught him looking my way and I smiled and nodded. It got late and I was tired from staying out too late the night before and I had no idea if anything would play out with married guy so I excused myself and went to my room and crashed.

Early afternoon the next day, Sunday, I was hanging out by the pool reading a book. I heard my name and looked up and it was married guy. He asked if he could join next to me. I said sure and asked where his wife was. He said she flew out that morning and he had business in LA on Monday so he was staying over. I smiled and said I was in the same situation. He took off his polo shirt and I was like, Dang! He had a really broad chest, well defined, perfect nipples and was hairy down to waistband. He also had nice guns and a bulge in his swimsuit. Knowing I needed to open the conversation up I told him he was in great shape and asked what he did for working out. We talked about working out while he put sunscreen on. He then asked me if I'd mine getting his back. I could feel my cock stretching out a little as I put sunscreen on him. Since I've taken several massage classes and am pretty good at it I gave him more than the typical slather of lotion but also kept it discreet as other people were around. When I was done, he said, "Wow you do a good job putting on sunscreen. That actually felt great."

We spent the next couple of hours chatting poolside and in pool. At some point I told him I really lucked out with my room and that I had a really cool corner room with a great view. When I'd had enough sun I told him I was going to go to the gym to work out. He asked if I would mind if I joined him. I told him no problem. He said he had to go back to his room and change. About 20 minutes later he joined me in the gym. As we worked out we were very comfortable talking about our bodies- arms, legs, chest, etc. When we started squats he told me how much he liked squats not only for his legs but for how firm they made his ass. He turned around, grabbed his ass and said, "See, that's firm. Feel it. It's firm." No one was around so I was sure! I grabbed his ass and squeezed it and said, "It is firm." But I kept my hand on it, moved my hand lower and inward, fingers closer to his hole and massaged his ass a bit. He said, "I told you the squats pay off" and smiled. While I was doing my set he said, "Your cycling is paying off, you have strong legs and your gluts are in good shape. I noticed that when you got out of the pool. When I was done with my set I was going to ask him if he wanted to feel how firm my ass is but two people walked into the gym.

As we finished we finished up with our workout he asked if I wanted to grab a bit to eat. I said sure and said I needed to shower and could meet him in the lobby in about 45 minutes. I was hoping he say he he wanted to shower together and we'd end up playing around but he didn't. Instead he said that would be perfect and that would give him time to call home. As we were waiting for the elevator to our floors he said, "What's your room number? I'll meet you there. I want to see your upgraded room and we can go from there." I said sure and gave him my room number.

At this point I wasn't sure what was going to happen. I was kind of getting mixed vibes. About an hour later there was a knock at my door. I opened the door and he looked so hot! Freshly showered, dark jeans, crisp white shirt, loafers and sun from the day. He walked into my room and said how nice it was. We stepped out onto the balcony. We talked briefly about dinner and a little restaurant he wanted to go to. We stepped back in the room. I close the door and turned around. He put his arms around me, pulled me in and kissed me. He was a great kisser! Things quickly progressed and soon we were naked. His hands and mouth were all over my body and mine on his. He was hot! He had a nice thick dick, freshly shaved balls and a furry ass. We sucked each other and 69'd and then he wanted me to fuck him. He was a hot fuck... multiple positions and just couldn't get enough. He finally came while getting fucked on his back. I pulled out, took the condom off and blew a load all over his chest. I collapsed onto him and we kissed for a while. We got up and cleaned up together in the shower. He told me he's been wanting that since he saw me yesterday. I asked him if there was anything else he wanted. He said, "Yeh. When we get back from dinner I want to fuck your ass." He knelt down in the shower, turned me around and tongued my ass." I told him that with a tongue like that he could eat my ass all night.

We went out to dinner and I felt like I was on a date. Not only was the sex good, he seemed like a really nice guy and was fun to hang out with. I totally forgot he was married.

When we got back to the room the close flew off. He spent the night and we had sex three times, fucking each other, and cuddled in between, before he went back to his room at 7AM.

Most married guys I hook up with its all about the sex. With him there was a little connection which was nice. I have wondered from time to time what his real story is but know I will never know.
 

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My friends call me a magnate for "straight" married men. My gaydar is pretty fine tuned. Public settings can be fun to see how far you can go like in conversations dropping hints or seeing how far the other guy will go and how comfortable or uncomfortable he is.

Last summer I went to a friend's wedding at a splashy hotel in San Diego. The wedding was on Saturday and I was going to stay through Monday morning since I had business in LA. At the reception I noticed this guy talking to a circle of people who kept looking over at me. It was a straight wedding but there were several gay guys there, some I knew and some I didn't. I assumed he was gay. He was good looking, stocky in a good way (about 5'9", wide with broad shoulders and a flat stomach). A few minutes later I looked over and he had his arm around an attractive blonde woman and they were obviously together. I thought to myself, "You got that one wrong."

Fast forward a half an hour or so, I'm standing at the bar waiting for a drink. I hear a guy behind me say, "Great setting for a reception isn't it?" I turned around and it was him. I told him I agreed and introduced myself. He introduced himself, we got our drinks and the chatting began. We talked about 15-20 minutes about all the usual stuff. A couple of times during conversation I could tell he was checking me out by the ways his eyes would just look me over, like to my chest or when I stood back quickly down to my crotch. So add his earlier glances my way to this and I knew I wanted to veer the conversation in the direction of figuring out his story. About that moment a guy came up and said his wife was looking for him to be in a group photo. Later on I caught him looking my way and I smiled and nodded. It got late and I was tired from staying out too late the night before and I had no idea if anything would play out with married guy so I excused myself and went to my room and crashed.

Early afternoon the next day, Sunday, I was hanging out by the pool reading a book. I heard my name and looked up and it was married guy. He asked if he could join next to me. I said sure and asked where his wife was. He said she flew out that morning and he had business in LA on Monday so he was staying over. I smiled and said I was in the same situation. He took off his polo shirt and I was like, Dang! He had a really broad chest, well defined, perfect nipples and was hairy down to waistband. He also had nice guns and a bulge in his swimsuit. Knowing I needed to open the conversation up I told him he was in great shape and asked what he did for working out. We talked about working out while he put sunscreen on. He then asked me if I'd mine getting his back. I could feel my cock stretching out a little as I put sunscreen on him. Since I've taken several massage classes and am pretty good at it I gave him more than the typical slather of lotion but also kept it discreet as other people were around. When I was done, he said, "Wow you do a good job putting on sunscreen. That actually felt great."

We spent the next couple of hours chatting poolside and in pool. At some point I told him I really lucked out with my room and that I had a really cool corner room with a great view. When I'd had enough sun I told him I was going to go to the gym to work out. He asked if I would mind if I joined him. I told him no problem. He said he had to go back to his room and change. About 20 minutes later he joined me in the gym. As we worked out we were very comfortable talking about our bodies- arms, legs, chest, etc. When we started squats he told me how much he liked squats not only for his legs but for how firm they made his ass. He turned around, grabbed his ass and said, "See, that's firm. Feel it. It's firm." No one was around so I was sure! I grabbed his ass and squeezed it and said, "It is firm." But I kept my hand on it, moved my hand lower and inward, fingers closer to his hole and massaged his ass a bit. He said, "I told you the squats pay off" and smiled. While I was doing my set he said, "Your cycling is paying off, you have strong legs and your gluts are in good shape. I noticed that when you got out of the pool. When I was done with my set I was going to ask him if he wanted to feel how firm my ass is but two people walked into the gym.

As we finished we finished up with our workout he asked if I wanted to grab a bit to eat. I said sure and said I needed to shower and could meet him in the lobby in about 45 minutes. I was hoping he say he he wanted to shower together and we'd end up playing around but he didn't. Instead he said that would be perfect and that would give him time to call home. As we were waiting for the elevator to our floors he said, "What's your room number? I'll meet you there. I want to see your upgraded room and we can go from there." I said sure and gave him my room number.

At this point I wasn't sure what was going to happen. I was kind of getting mixed vibes. About an hour later there was a knock at my door. I opened the door and he looked so hot! Freshly showered, dark jeans, crisp white shirt, loafers and sun from the day. He walked into my room and said how nice it was. We stepped out onto the balcony. We talked briefly about dinner and a little restaurant he wanted to go to. We stepped back in the room. I close the door and turned around. He put his arms around me, pulled me in and kissed me. He was a great kisser! Things quickly progressed and soon we were naked. His hands and mouth were all over my body and mine on his. He was hot! He had a nice thick dick, freshly shaved balls and a furry ass. We sucked each other and 69'd and then he wanted me to fuck him. He was a hot fuck... multiple positions and just couldn't get enough. He finally came while getting fucked on his back. I pulled out, took the condom off and blew a load all over his chest. I collapsed onto him and we kissed for a while. We got up and cleaned up together in the shower. He told me he's been wanting that since he saw me yesterday. I asked him if there was anything else he wanted. He said, "Yeh. When we get back from dinner I want to fuck your ass." He knelt down in the shower, turned me around and tongued my ass." I told him that with a tongue like that he could eat my ass all night.

We went out to dinner and I felt like I was on a date. Not only was the sex good, he seemed like a really nice guy and was fun to hang out with. I totally forgot he was married.

When we got back to the room the close flew off. He spent the night and we had sex three times, fucking each other, and cuddled in between, before he went back to his room at 7AM.

Most married guys I hook up with its all about the sex. With him there was a little connection which was nice. I have wondered from time to time what his real story is but know I will never know.
Sounds like a great eencunter
 

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My friends call me a magnate for "straight" married men. My gaydar is pretty fine tuned. Public settings can be fun to see how far you can go like in conversations dropping hints or seeing how far the other guy will go and how comfortable or uncomfortable he is.

Last summer I went to a friend's wedding at a splashy hotel in San Diego. The wedding was on Saturday and I was going to stay through Monday morning since I had business in LA. At the reception I noticed this guy talking to a circle of people who kept looking over at me. It was a straight wedding but there were several gay guys there, some I knew and some I didn't. I assumed he was gay. He was good looking, stocky in a good way (about 5'9", wide with broad shoulders and a flat stomach). A few minutes later I looked over and he had his arm around an attractive blonde woman and they were obviously together. I thought to myself, "You got that one wrong."

Fast forward a half an hour or so, I'm standing at the bar waiting for a drink. I hear a guy behind me say, "Great setting for a reception isn't it?" I turned around and it was him. I told him I agreed and introduced myself. He introduced himself, we got our drinks and the chatting began. We talked about 15-20 minutes about all the usual stuff. A couple of times during conversation I could tell he was checking me out by the ways his eyes would just look me over, like to my chest or when I stood back quickly down to my crotch. So add his earlier glances my way to this and I knew I wanted to veer the conversation in the direction of figuring out his story. About that moment a guy came up and said his wife was looking for him to be in a group photo. Later on I caught him looking my way and I smiled and nodded. It got late and I was tired from staying out too late the night before and I had no idea if anything would play out with married guy so I excused myself and went to my room and crashed.

Early afternoon the next day, Sunday, I was hanging out by the pool reading a book. I heard my name and looked up and it was married guy. He asked if he could join next to me. I said sure and asked where his wife was. He said she flew out that morning and he had business in LA on Monday so he was staying over. I smiled and said I was in the same situation. He took off his polo shirt and I was like, Dang! He had a really broad chest, well defined, perfect nipples and was hairy down to waistband. He also had nice guns and a bulge in his swimsuit. Knowing I needed to open the conversation up I told him he was in great shape and asked what he did for working out. We talked about working out while he put sunscreen on. He then asked me if I'd mine getting his back. I could feel my cock stretching out a little as I put sunscreen on him. Since I've taken several massage classes and am pretty good at it I gave him more than the typical slather of lotion but also kept it discreet as other people were around. When I was done, he said, "Wow you do a good job putting on sunscreen. That actually felt great."

We spent the next couple of hours chatting poolside and in pool. At some point I told him I really lucked out with my room and that I had a really cool corner room with a great view. When I'd had enough sun I told him I was going to go to the gym to work out. He asked if I would mind if I joined him. I told him no problem. He said he had to go back to his room and change. About 20 minutes later he joined me in the gym. As we worked out we were very comfortable talking about our bodies- arms, legs, chest, etc. When we started squats he told me how much he liked squats not only for his legs but for how firm they made his ass. He turned around, grabbed his ass and said, "See, that's firm. Feel it. It's firm." No one was around so I was sure! I grabbed his ass and squeezed it and said, "It is firm." But I kept my hand on it, moved my hand lower and inward, fingers closer to his hole and massaged his ass a bit. He said, "I told you the squats pay off" and smiled. While I was doing my set he said, "Your cycling is paying off, you have strong legs and your gluts are in good shape. I noticed that when you got out of the pool. When I was done with my set I was going to ask him if he wanted to feel how firm my ass is but two people walked into the gym.

As we finished we finished up with our workout he asked if I wanted to grab a bit to eat. I said sure and said I needed to shower and could meet him in the lobby in about 45 minutes. I was hoping he say he he wanted to shower together and we'd end up playing around but he didn't. Instead he said that would be perfect and that would give him time to call home. As we were waiting for the elevator to our floors he said, "What's your room number? I'll meet you there. I want to see your upgraded room and we can go from there." I said sure and gave him my room number.

At this point I wasn't sure what was going to happen. I was kind of getting mixed vibes. About an hour later there was a knock at my door. I opened the door and he looked so hot! Freshly showered, dark jeans, crisp white shirt, loafers and sun from the day. He walked into my room and said how nice it was. We stepped out onto the balcony. We talked briefly about dinner and a little restaurant he wanted to go to. We stepped back in the room. I close the door and turned around. He put his arms around me, pulled me in and kissed me. He was a great kisser! Things quickly progressed and soon we were naked. His hands and mouth were all over my body and mine on his. He was hot! He had a nice thick dick, freshly shaved balls and a furry ass. We sucked each other and 69'd and then he wanted me to fuck him. He was a hot fuck... multiple positions and just couldn't get enough. He finally came while getting fucked on his back. I pulled out, took the condom off and blew a load all over his chest. I collapsed onto him and we kissed for a while. We got up and cleaned up together in the shower. He told me he's been wanting that since he saw me yesterday. I asked him if there was anything else he wanted. He said, "Yeh. When we get back from dinner I want to fuck your ass." He knelt down in the shower, turned me around and tongued my ass." I told him that with a tongue like that he could eat my ass all night.

We went out to dinner and I felt like I was on a date. Not only was the sex good, he seemed like a really nice guy and was fun to hang out with. I totally forgot he was married.

When we got back to the room the close flew off. He spent the night and we had sex three times, fucking each other, and cuddled in between, before he went back to his room at 7AM.

Most married guys I hook up with its all about the sex. With him there was a little connection which was nice. I have wondered from time to time what his real story is but know I will never know.
This sounds like a married buddy of mine, no kidding
 
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I've had some curious exchanges with married men, but I respect the state of marriage too much to even very much flirt with a married man. Only in a case where it became clear he was in an open marriage might I consider it.
 

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While I have to say I've only found a couple of married guys attractive, the reason why I met them was because I was friends with or worked with their wives. The thought of having sex with them, and betraying her trust was a total turnoff.
 
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