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Thanks for the advice I freaking hate chit chat Haha so try to avoid it as much as possible. But I do agree that doing it more will make it easier for those times that I want to do it! I'll work on itIcebreaker: Hi. What's your name?
You should try to make chit-chat at every opportunity. Don't expect each attempt to become a 5 minute conversation that can feel like an eternity, just drop one-liners here and there. If they bite, they bite, but keep it short. This works well if you're on the move anyway. Then when you're not necessarily on the go, you can add more to the convo.
When you're checking out at Coles or Woolies or wherever, no matter who is working the register, look at their name tag. If it's a unique name, that's an opportunity for a background question.
You should practice every time you HAVE to interact with people. That should make it a little easier when you WANT to.
Or you could try this:
Haha love that dumb and dumb clip too... I forgot about that!