When And How Did You Find Out You Were Into Men? (18+ Only)

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When did you have your first hard on or just an attraction for men?

I remember watching straight porn and my attention was to the masculine butt in the scenes when it used to appear sometimes.
I also remember being in the lockeroom clubs and cheking the men's butt sometimes, well I think I've always been a ''butt lover'' since very young...but I am not a top, I m versatile.. haha
 

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When did you have your first hard on or just an attraction for men?

I remember watching straight porn and my attention was to the masculine butt in the scenes when it used to appear sometimes.
I also remember being in the lockeroom clubs and cheking the men's butt sometimes, well I think I've always been a ''butt lover'' since very young...but I am not a top, I m versatile.. haha

Dunno if there was a specific moment for me .. always been attracted to aspects of men and women since I was a wee lad but there was only a language for being attracted to women. Guess watching the 6 million dollar man as a young thing when Steve Austin first got his new arm and had his shirt off, hairy chest and great pecs out - was the first time I can remember thinking ..that's a bit of alright. Dukes of Hazzard and super tight jeans leveraged that initial reaction and so on.
First time I ever did anything with a bloke when when I was around 20 - took a trip to Sydney to visit an ex GF .. always wondered about men and had a night to myself where I figured ..I'm in a strange city, completely anon .. lets see what might happen, Went down oxford street but really had no idea what I was doing but figured I'd go to a gay adult bookshop just to see some gay men in the wild. Was a young pretty thing so ..didn't take long before a few guys began circling.. Kinda panicked given I had no idea what that meant past, they appear to like me .. but, y'know .. then what. So - bolted out of the shop and went to walk back to my ex's apartment. A young bloke followed me out and followed me down the road maintaining a distance of about 20 meters .. Which also panicked me. So I swapped sides of the road as I got closer to Centenial park .. he followed. At which point I thought something might happen but - not sure what or how that would work .. ended up cutting thru some big old church grounds - he continued to follow .. so I slowed down .. he stopped and started rubbing his groin ..out of view from the street but still quite public .. Figured - ok in for a penny and so I stopped .. he motioned over and in no time started giving me a blowie .. I figured I might as well reciprocate but .. really didn't like his dick .. and quickly found myself too uncomfortable to continue .. he suggested we go back to his place and I was all .."Nope".. and just walked home. For a while after I figured I must not really be into guys and yet .. was still hanging to get with some of my hotter mates .. It was a confusing time. Second hook up was at a gay lounge (RAM) in Melbourne. It was late ..I was about 23 .. seen the lounge there for an age but had no idea what one really was so ..plucked up some courage and just went up .. Young ok looking bloke at the desk told me that the lounge was closing in 20 min but I could go in for free if I like .. So I did .. there was no one there ..just gay porn on a tv .. I could see the guy at the desk had come in and was creeping around the corner ..wanking just out of view with the occasional move to into view ..so I got my dick out .. he came in .. blew me, no recip from me, which was nice enuff but still not exactly my thing. After that I started going to adult cinemas in town and sitting in the back row to watch people wank .. came across one bloke who was gorgeous .. great cock .. ended up going back to mine and had a play and that was the first time I figured .. yup, this is certainly for me!
 

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Probably when I was coming of age and had recurring dreams of a young nude daddy. When he approached me, I felt tingly. I literally never thought anything of it until I came to terms I was gay. Although I'm a daddy myself, I always had a thing for older men.
 
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It's a common story, I found myself lingering in the men's underwear section of department stores for ages. I believe Travis was the Calvin Klein model at the time. The rows and rows of boxes of him just in underwear did something to my brain!
 

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In retrospect, the first sign was probably when I learned about the birds and the bees, and I discovered that thinking about penises would give me a boner. As I grew up, I caught myself checking out guys in locker rooms etc. But I still convinced myself I was straight, which is a whole other story! It wasn’t till years later that I realized the signs had been there all along, I just hadn’t put two and two together.
 

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In the UK, years ago when I was a teenager, there were TV porn channels that had freeview periods.

One channel was Television X and during one of their freeviews there was an advert for Superdick (aka Mario). Situations where he was having sex with women (with bad acting, bad storytelling).

After seeing that advert he, and later other men, was what I thought about. Their bodies, accents, facial expressions. All their their-ness. lol

The women's breasts/vaginas/bodies didn't interest/excite me.

It was the first inkling that I would be a sexual minority. For a lot of gay boys (youths), watching straight porn only to remember the men involved is a common journey.
 

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I had a good idea when I was pretty young. I remember when I was in elementary school and going into the bathroom. I was amazed by all the urinals in a row with no dividers and thinking that was awesome. I had no idea why I thought it was so great, but I did like the idea of it.

And like @jaybee0560 said, I knew that I was attracted to guys I saw on tv. The hairy chest of the Six Million Dollar Man, the bulges and butts (in those tight jeans) of the Dukes of Hazard boys. That is also the reason I love watching sports (especially baseball) is watching those guys and their cups in the tight uniforms. But the best for me was Tom Selleck. He was a huge turn-on for me. His killer smile, that huge stache and his hairy chest.

I had a neighbor come on to me and I experimented with him, but I still didn't consider myself gay at the time. But a few years later, my best friend (another neighbor) became my first friend with benefits. We played around for about 3 or 4 years, but I was his experimenting phase and he stopped playing around with me when he got a new girlfriend.
 

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Looking back it was probably having recurring wet dreams about watching guys shower in a locker room of sorts... Then heading over to the urinal, start to piss and a guy comes from behind and grabs my cock... Bam... I came instantly every time... Woke up to cum all over... Those were the good ol' days
 

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I guess I'd always known, from a youngster skinny dipping, my first experience while unexpected was totally wonderful, that first hard thrusting cock and all that spunk yep, I knew.
 

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Looking back it was probably having recurring wet dreams about watching guys shower in a locker room of sorts... Then heading over to the urinal, start to piss and a guy comes from behind and grabs my cock... Bam... I came instantly every time... Woke up to cum all over... Those were the good ol' days
Do you still have wet dreams, I do!
 

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Looking back so many hints as to what desires were to come. Always enjoy playing naked in the dirt, skinny dipping with mates from the time I was allowed out unescorted, my first experience which showed me there were changes ahead. The other signs were like enjoying the ballet boys bulging in tights and firm bums when we did the local Pantomime, the chorus boys posing just wearing gold lame cache sex cock coverings - totally erotic and lead to hours of fun in front of the mirror. Naturally schooldays, locker rooms, guys in jocks and full moons, communal showers ans the swimming pool and always wanting to be mates with the good looking guy and ignoring the girls - the signs were there, when the time came it was in with both hands body and soul.
 
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