when bottoming do you stay rock hard or flaccid?

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by pierceplace, Jan 14, 2012.

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are u... do u...

  1. Im a bottom and when fucked my cock is limp

    32 vote(s)
    15.7%
  2. Im a bottom and when fucked my cock stays hard

    49 vote(s)
    24.0%
  3. Im versatile and when fucked my cock is limp

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  4. Im versatile and when fucked my cock is hard

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  5. Im a top and Ive done anal play... I stay hard

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    5.4%
  6. Im a top I dunno

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  1. pierceplace

    pierceplace New Member

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    I'm mostly a top but whenever I bottom my cock remains rock hard, and I get off easily,,, but I see a lot of guys in porn and couples of mine that cant get hard while bottoming, does it mean you are not enjoying it? I cant get how someone could feel the pleasure and dont have an erection!

    I have a theory, maybe a dude who is 100 % bottom wont get hard coz all the attention is on the ass, but a vers/top guy who bottoms is more likely to stay hard. (?)
    For example jeff palmer tops in a lot of movies but when he bottoms his cock is erect, but power bottoms like lucas from machofucker take those cocks and stay limp. WTF?
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    I am versatile but mostly bottom and have always stayed hard...until lately: issues with ED. So for me it is not about position. Before, I also never understood how a bottom was not hard and enjoyed it; now I have first hand experience.:yup:
    So my conclusion is, everyone is different and there is no rhyme or reason to bottoming, anal sex pleasure and being hard or soft.

    P.S. I am voting selection #4 as that is my natural tendency.
     
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    mixture of both.
     
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    I stay hard. My experience with men who range from true bottoms to vers to vers/tops to tops just doing it this once has been that your theory might be onto something.
     
  5. Smaccoms

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    That's funny, cause I have this theory about Glee. When gay men see it, they get super excited and start acting really effeminate. When straight guys see it, no emotion reaction is seen. Glee is a gay guy thing, which is why it makes them act effeminate. Straight guys aren't like that, so they don't react to it. Do you think it holds any validity?
     
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    I have been hard or soft; depends on the skills of the top.
     
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    It certainly appears to be the case.
     
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    I'm a top 99% of the time, my bf can be hard or at times soft when I'm making love to him, depends on his mood. When I get fucked, I stay hard.
     
  9. Smaccoms

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    You missed my point entirely.
     
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    wow, I cant EVEN
     
  11. Smaccoms

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    ? What is your response?
     
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    bottom and i stay hard. and yes i do enjoy the feeling of getting fucked, toping for me is no fun at all.

    i guess is does depend on the mood and even person.
     
  13. Smaccoms

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    You realize I was attempting to mirror the inappropriateness of your OP...
     
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    I bottomed once, in 1997. I am planning on bottoming again this year (once every 15 years to see if I like it or not). In the past, whenever a playmate would slip a finger up my ass, my cock would get as limp as a noodle. Hopefully, when I bottom this year, my playmate & I will have a chemistry. He & I will hopefully work in sync to make sure I enjoy being the bitch. I just hope I can stay hard while I work the ass muscles. I just hope I can cum while he pounds my ass. (There's a lot of hope in this plan).
     
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    Versatile, but tend/prefer to bottom. I'll sometimes lose my erection when first penetrated, but nearly always get it back as the sex continues.
     
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    See, this is part of my point. People connect "masculine" and "feminine" identities to the catcher and pitcher. It mirrors connecting the same concepts to gay and straight men.
    "Gay men can't be masculine because they're gay." mirrors "Bottoms can't be masculine because they are gay" mirrors "True bottoms can't stay limp while bottoming because they're gay". Whatever the progression may be, it doesn't change the fact that you're trying to turn our sex into straight sex. We're not straight, we're gay. Staying hard while bottoming doesn't mean your a "true bottom" or whatever. That's complete bullshit. Whether or not a guy stays hard while he's fucked has NOTHING to do with that. That's exactly what I was trying to point out with my first post...
     
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    well I wasnt ''connecting'' feminine or masculine behaviour with staying hard or no, and I actually was saying that those who claim being 100% bottoms on my personal experience stay limp and it doesnt bother me at all, I just couldnt get it.
    Im pretty aware of the fact that being tough and masculine doesnt make a u a top, or visceversa. so ''how you act'' or ''if you watch glee or no'' should be in other thread
     
  18. AM_092

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    Feeling pleasure in my butt and having an erection are two different things for me! I'm usually limp or semi when I'm getting fucked... I think I'm usually to preoccupied with the fucking and getting the top off that I don't get rock hard.
     
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    I never used to always be hard, it varied, but now when ever my boyfriend fucks me, im rock hard until the end.
     
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    Always hard when bottoming
     
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