When did you become a man?

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    1. At what age do you believe you became a man?

    2. Event that brought you over the threshold of manhood?

    3. How do you define what being a MAN means?

    Thanks in advance. There is only so much research a gal can do on her own. I want to hear from the Subject Matter Experts themselves.
     
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    1. At what age do you believe you became a man?

    mid-30's. when i found out how truly ignorant i am.

    2. Event that brought you over the threshold of manhood?

    i call it my 2nd chance at greatness. i achieved one dream of mine. but when i achieved the 2nd i know its value now.

    3. How do you define what being a MAN means?

    treating others how you would like to be treated without any regards of how other people think of you or what you can personally get out of it.
     
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    I'm almost there!
    At 30 I yearned for everything.
    At 40 I thought I knew everything.
    At 50 everything changed.
    I'm almost there!
     
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    1. At what age do you believe you became a man?

    I'm only in my mid 20s so I still feel like I'm 'becoming more of a man' per se as I grow older. However, I've been through tons of experiences in life already and I'm completely self supportive in every way and have all the characteristics any grown adult male would have... so people can judge however they want. I'd consider myself a young adult at my age honestly.

    2. Event that brought you over the threshold of manhood?

    Having to become financially self supportive. Balancing schooling, life, and bills by yourself will make anyone a man! :tongue:

    3. How do you define what being a MAN means?

    Being a man is metaphorically being as strong a lion, but as gentle as a feather all at the same time.

    A man is: a leader, comforter, provider, protector, gentleman, good example to others, loving, considerate, passionate, a good lover, etc. etc. All the good qualities a person can have... exhibiting those qualities is being a man! Don't let these bad guys tell you any different!
     
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    When I became (in society's terms) self sufficient.
     
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    me too.:biggrin1:
     
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    1. At what age do you believe you became a man?

    When I was born.

    2. Event that brought you over the threshold of manhood?

    Puberty at 13 + Another eight years.

    3. How do you define what being a MAN means? Wisdom, learning from your mistakes, and realizing the only superhero left in the world may well have to be yourself at times. Keeping a sense of humor. Taking leaps into vulnerability. And being your natural self...flaws and all.

    Being a MAN means that you have a penis. Everything else. The rites of passage...the bullshit assumption "I have arrived at a certain thing or have done this...to define one as a man" all are mirages.

    I think you can go through life feeling that "we aren't ever MAN enough"...who in the fuck is?

    Thanks in advance. There is only so much research a gal can do on her own. I want to hear from the Subject Matter Experts themselves.
     
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    Here here...you and I have a lot in common. I was going to say that I became a man when I had sex for the first time...but you know what? In the grand scheme of things, it really was an inconsequential event.

    1. I'd have to say that in addition to what you said, it was when my first child was born, and I realized that there are others now who depend on me for their very life. It made me realize we're all interconnected...all of us.

    2. When I realized that there are always going to be people who are your detractors, no matter how good you are, and if I retaliate to hurt them, I am reducing myself to their level. I had to learn to turn the other cheek...

    3. giving unconditional love...no matter what...its hard...no, IT'S REALLY HARD.
     
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    Very good way to put it also! :smile:
     
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    1. At what age do you believe you became a man?
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    18

    2. Event that brought you over the threshold of manhood?
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    Moving out, supporting myself, putting myself through college

    3. How do you define what being a MAN means?
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    Self-sufficiency, independence, courage, integrity, the ability to deal with the situation.
     
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    1. At what age do you believe you became a man? 24

    2. Event that brought you over the threshold of manhood? My first day at work and I realized how serious my job was and the amount of responsibility involved.

    3. How do you define what being a MAN means? You start making responsible decisions and not fun ones. You realize what your priorities are. You stop relying on others and start relying on yourself. In general you begin taking responsibility for you actions, and you know when it's time to work, do it hard; and when it's time to play do it hard and responsibly.
     
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    1. At what age do you believe you became a man?

    Somewhere between 35 and 40.

    2. Event that brought you over the threshold of manhood?

    The death of my mom at the age of 40

    3. How do you define what being a MAN means?

    Not giving a rat's ass what any one else thinks!
     
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    When you stop feeling that you have to fit in with other men and can truly stand alone, fully comfortable with your masculinity...
     
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    The birth of my kid made me realize several things. Her life was totally dependent on us and it was my responsibility. It kind of a stock answer I know, but it's a profound experience.

    Being a man means doing what needs to be done and not whining about it. I can't stand listening to men bitching and moaning. I think to myself, "shut up and move your ass".
     
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    1. At what age do you believe you became a man?

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    2. Event that brought you over the threshold of manhood?

    Being financially independent for 1 year, having fiance and her baby rely on me for food, shelter, and suppport. Putting their needs above mine, skipping lunch because I couldnt afford it and diapers.

    3. How do you define what being a MAN means?

    Putting myself last, being financially dependent. Being able to seperate needs, wants, and 'have to'. Standing up for what you beleive, even when its consequential to you. But biting your tongue and swallowing that pride when it would hurt those you love.
     
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    1. Mid-20s. It took me a long time to understand the importance of discipline and maturity and the difference between those compared to intelligence and success, which is what I mistook them for when I was younger.

    2. Rebuilding my life. I found out that failure, even what seemed like complete failure, was surmountable if I didn't make excuses and didn't live in the past.

    3. Maturity. Realizing the difference between intelligence and knowledge.
     
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    1. At what age do you believe you became a man?

    17

    2. Event that brought you over the threshold of manhood?

    Supporting my parents financially when my dad got colon cancer (he's still alive, fortunately).

    3. How do you define what being a MAN means?

    Being independent, wise, and trustful
     
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