My Grandfather sent me on a vision quest when I was 16. I spent several days saying prayers as I tied prayer flags together on a string. When I started my prayers, I was praying for child-like stuff (new video games, new bike, etc) but by the end of my prayers, I was praying for the health of my loved ones, for humility, for abundance, world peace. Things that really mattered.
My Grandfather took me to a spot on a mountain in the Black Hills of South Dakota and stripped me of my clothes. I stepped into my prayer circle with enough water to last 4 days and I was left alone for 4 days and 4 nights in the wilderness. I had no blanket or any shelter from the cold nights or hot days. I was to stay inside my prayer circle (5'X5') the entire time.
I had 4 days and nights to pray and think. I saw many forms of wildlife. I sang teepee songs and sweatlodge songs top past the time. I prayed until I cried and then laughed for joy.
On the morning after the 4th night, I got up and made my way down the mountain to sit in a sweatlodge and share any visions or experiences with the elders.
This was the most incredible experience of my life. I knew a change had happened. When I went up on the mountain, I was a boy. When I came down the mountain, I was a man.
I had been introduced to my animal spirit helpers and to this day (26 years later), when I have things happen in my life, I call on those spirits to help me make major decisions. My life has been blessed ever since. I walk with my head high and have never questioned my "being a man".