When did you first feel the desire to be penetrated by another man?

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As a straight guy, that is such a foreign thought or feeling or desire.
It's the same as asking a straight guy when he first wanted to penetrate a woman. Growing up, boys and girls played separately and didn't want anything to do with each other.

To me it's more foreign to want to be with someone who has less things (including body parts) in common.
 

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It's the same as asking a straight guy when he first wanted to penetrate a woman. Growing up, boys and girls played separately and didn't want anything to do with each other.

To me it's more foreign to want to be with someone who has less things (including body parts) in common.


I am assuming most gay man want also to penetrate another man, but the desire to be penetrated is more unique to both gay and bi men. I don’t understand where that desire comes from emotionally so would I like to understand it.
 

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I am assuming most gay man want also to penetrate another man, but the desire to be penetrated is more unique to both gay and bi men. I don’t understand where that desire comes from emotionally so would I like to understand it.
As a bi man, I've never wanted to be penetrated, but guys I've penetrated have explained it to me in different ways.
Some focused more on the physical pleasure, and others on the emotional/psychological pleasure, but most of them were into both.
 

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As a bi man, I've never wanted to be penetrated, but guys I've penetrated have explained it to me in different ways.
Some focused more on the physical pleasure, and others on the emotional/psychological pleasure, but most of them were into both.
And some of them have absolutely no desire whatsoever to penetrate anything. Some don't even want their cocks touched.
 

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not sure it was a desire as much as going along with the lesson. The first guy to have me took his time and over the course of a weekend had me take a journey that ended up with him going balls deep in my virgin ass. I had no idea how the feeling would be or no idea if there would be pain or pleasure but do know now! love getting filled.
 

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I am assuming most gay man want also to penetrate another man, but the desire to be penetrated is more unique to both gay and bi men. I don’t understand where that desire comes from emotionally so would I like to understand it.

So you understand why women like to be fucked? It would be pretty similar reasoning.
 

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As a straight guy, that is such a foreign thought or feeling or desire.

I'd like to also point out that the pleasure gay men get from anal stimulation is the same as straight men would since they are biologically the same down there.

It's very well known for girls to stick their finger up a guys ass while blowing them or even getting rimmed by a woman. Some straight guys enjoy anal stimulation so much that they get their partners to wear a strap on to peg them.
 

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It's hard to pinpoint an exact time, because it just feels natural, in the same way I'm sure straight people view sex. It's not like one day I woke up and suddenly have the urge to be fucked lol

With that said, if I had to pick a time, it would be the first time I was penetrated. It happened a few time after having sex with my boyfriend. I topped usually, but one day I was on my back and he was above me kissing me and poking my ass with his cock. I just got caught up in the moment and knew I wanted to have him inside me. Took a little bit of time it I'm glad I tried it. Was an entirely different experience than topping.
 

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I'm not sure what this means. Can you elaborate?
It was in reply to an earlier comment, which was in turn a reply to another comment.
It was comparing straight men having no desire to be penetrated, versus gay or bi men who do.
I was raising an alternative point of view that some Bi men don't want to be penetrated, either, using myself as an example.
And I know exclusively gay men who also don't want to be penetrated.
Does that make sense? I hope I expressed that clearly. Sometimes a written comment loses something.
 
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I don't have much desire to be penetrated by another man. I first got bottomed by the age of 18 and i didn't quite enjoy it, he was bi, massive and was trying to fuck me like he would a woman. However sometimes some assplay is good and you should try it on yourself if you're open minded enough ;)
 

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In my 20s. I was out at the gaybar with my then BF, and we’d had a great night, but couldn’t get a cab home. We only lived about a 25 minute walk home. On the way, he asked me if he could go and ask another guy for a 3 way. I was like, yeah, whatever - but when I saw him, I was diamonds and like a puppy with a new bone. We got home and this other guy and my BF we’re making out on the bed, and I manoeuvred my BFs cock to the other guys ass. I watched them fuck, the other guy refused me saying I was too big, but my BF let me take his ass, and then I least my V to them both. Hot times!
 

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I was in my... um... late teens, let's say. I made do with available re-purposed household implements.
My first gay sex was when I was 18. It felt awesome and have loved it since those years.

I am assuming most gay man want also to penetrate another man, but the desire to be penetrated is more unique to both gay and bi men. I don’t understand where that desire comes from emotionally so would I like to understand it.

You'd be assuming wrongly, I'm afraid. It is estimated that around 25% of gay men do NOT participate in anal sex, from either the top or bottom position. And of those who do, there are more bottoms or verse bottoms than pure tops or verse tops.

If it was "all choices available" night, I'd request someone to top my ass. That said, I'm not averse to helping a fellow bottom out, as required. And if not by me personally, I do have plenty of toys.

On a slight tangent, it is sort of sad that straight guys will simply not even consider having anal sex (for fear of catching the gay) as this means they do miss out on a hella lot of great pleasure.
 

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Always knew I liked guys, but I guess my late teens was when I wanted to try and bottom. There was a few failed attempts, but when it finally happened it was perfect. The feeling of being filled up and the guy sliding in and out was so amazing!

As well as the physical it was the mental stimulation of being submissive and having another person actually inside me....Never looked back!
 
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It was never a desire but something that just happened, seemed to feel right and after the first penetrative pain very enjoyable, so much so I wanted it again. When I topped for the first time a different sensation, having been entered and felt it I now knew what it t felt like on my cock to enter another guy.
But in either case it wasn't something that I set out to do, his cock was in the right place at the right time as later mine was doing the right thing, a sort of natural progression