When did you know you realized that someone was gay?

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For me it was on an airplane from San Francisco to Los Angles with a woman I had a weekend with. I was only 19 years old.

As we were collecting out things from the over head bins I watch two guys kiss in the cabin. They were so as matter of fact about it. I was amazed and absolutely perplexed.

I had never seen any thing like that before. I have to admit I was naive and thought that they must be movie stars.


So when did you see anyone gay and realized that gay people existed?
:rolleyes:
 

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Someone was flirting with me in the mens room when I was having lunch with my mother, stepfather and brother and I was perplexed and titillated at the same time. When I recounted the incident when I got back to the table and saw all the color drain from my mother and stepfathers face I realized I should not have brought this up. My brother and I had to have the facts of life conversation (again) later that night in my stepfathers library.
 

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For me it was on an airplane from San Francisco to Los Angles with a woman I had a weekend with. I was only 19 years old.

As we were collecting out things from the over head bins I watch two guys kiss in the cabin. They were so as matter of fact about it. I was amazed and absolutely perplexed.

I had never seen any thing like that before. I have to admit I was naive and thought that they must be movie stars.


So when did you see anyone gay and realized that gay people existed?
:rolleyes:
Probably when I was first told what it was. My uncle had a boyfriend and my aunt had a girlfriend who she later married.
 

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when i was a kid there was a boy in our class who would give blow jobs to any boy who asked for one...

but i must admit that until my mid 20s i was pretty clueless about noticing that anyone was gay unless it was extremely obvious...i just didn't notice...even when i was being hit on by guys, it just never registered...