When did you know?

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When I was about 4 I had a girl show me how she used to rub her pussy against her teddy bear. That was the first time I'd seen a pussy and the first time I remember getting a boner. Since then female masturbation and girls that aren't shy have been two big turn ons. Go figure! I knew it was something that I wanted to do something with, I was fascinated with it, and as time went on me and the girl got through some experiences that kids in single figure ages shouldn't even be thinking about. Basically from that moment on I was and still am utterly enchanted by pussy.
 

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I knew from early childhood, 5 or 6.

When I was around that age, some of the neighbor kids were already playing doctor. The only ones I was really interested in were the ones with the handles.

The enthusiasm I had for the boys was offset by the lack of discretion. So I was tormented throughout my school years. I actually came out my junior year in high school, 'cause I had fallen in love. Still trying to pull that knife out of my back after
all these years.

Didn't connect the desire with the name(s) for it until middle school age though. What can I say, I lead a somewhat sheltered life. When I finally realized that faggot meant that, well, that stopped being such a painfull word.

"Mother" Matt
 

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Me and some other guys at summer camp used to give each other bad birthdays - even naked ones.

To be honest, when that penny goes flying off your tongue for the third or fourth time, it's a weird feeling. I was only eight or nine, so I didn't even know what gay was (and neither did anybody else), but on a pure gut level, we just didn't want to do it anymore. At some point, even before the summer ended, we all just cut that $~*# out.

Didn't change my mind about girls, either. Love'm. :wink:

Anyway, if you don't know your sex orientation after a naked bad birthday, there's no hope for you.
 

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It's trying to hold a penny on your tongue, while some moron dry-humps you really hard. You got two bumps for every year, and if you dropped it before the last bump, the whole thing started again - yow. The naked part was rare and just upped the stakes a little - we even made bets on it. Anyway, eventually we quit it and started chasing girls full-time. :biggrin1:

I can't believe there's somebody here, who's never had a bad birthday.
 

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GuyanaPrince said:
It's trying to hold a penny on your tongue, while some moron dry-humps you really hard. You got two bumps for every year, and if you dropped it before the last bump, the whole thing started again - yow. The naked part was rare and just upped the stakes a little - we even made bets on it. Anyway, eventually we quit it and started chasing girls full-time. :biggrin1:

I can't believe there's somebody here, who's never had a bad birthday.

Makes two of us buddy, I never had that happen..the only time we as kids used to dry hump each other.. was when we would wrestle(fully clothed) and one of us would do a victory thrust or call the loser his bitch.
We were profane brats:biggrin1:
 

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At 8, I was dry humping my neighbor (called him Chrissy because I was already Chris), who was a year younger. I don't remember how it started or why but we would strip down in the basement of his house he would lay on the shag cargpet. This went on for about 6 months until one Saturday morning, having stayed at my house overnight, we were watching cartoons in my parents bedroom. The humping began and we were fully busted by my mother who spanked me for the first time, spanked chrissy for the last time and cried.

After that, I was discouraged from hanging around my older brother, an older theater fag - and the sheltering from all things penis to penis began.

Curiously at 16, having told my mother and father that I was having sex, with both men and wonem and liked them both, she professed suprise that I was working my horniness with dudes. I guess she had forgotten about the dry humping but clearly I hadn't.

Chrissy is now a convicted fellon (auto theft) and was a teen father. I take no responsiblility for either.
 

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I remember back in 9th or 10th grade a friend told me "Now i can cover my dick with both hands" and I by that time my glans was over my hands when I did that :p I just said "cool"
 

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GuyanaPrince said:
It's trying to hold a penny on your tongue, while some moron dry-humps you really hard. You got two bumps for every year, and if you dropped it before the last bump, the whole thing started again - yow. The naked part was rare and just upped the stakes a little - we even made bets on it. Anyway, eventually we quit it and started chasing girls full-time. :biggrin1:

I can't believe there's somebody here, who's never had a bad birthday.

Does anyone else get the feeling that this game was a clever invention from a very closeted male child who was turned on by copper and dry humping. Although, when I was a kid.. we played "hide the penis in the asshole" . It didn't last long though, because no one liked to find the penis in their ass.:rolleyes:

All joking aside dude.. it sounds like a crazy game...:wink:
 

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jeff black said:
Although, when I was a kid.. we played "hide the penis in the asshole" . It didn't last long though, because no one liked to find the penis in their ass.

You clearly played with the wrong friends.
 

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Geez. It wasn't an orgy.

We were a bunch of adrenaline-crazed retards slamming our pelvises into each other's butts as hard as we could to knock a penny off another guy's tongue. We were counting at the top of our lungs and laughing your heads off. Even if you popped a boner, everybody just laughed and pointed. No kissing, no cornholing and no flowers.

Hardly Brokeback Mountain, believe me.

The only time it was naked bad birthday was at summer camp, because everybody was in swim suits most of the day anyhow, and the naked stuff was rare, even then. Sure, it was probably a little hormone-driven, but nobody ever thought of it as sex. We just weren't thinking that way.

So, I can't think of one moment in particular that confirmed me as str8. I just always was, even being dry-humped by morons. :rolleyes: My two cents.
 

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i don't ever recall going on the voyage of self discovery. i started with women, girls, and progressed to couples and groups, to men, over back and around. i always had the pipe and proclivity for sex and never really concerned myself with what it was called when i was with this gender or that or how exactly i felt about it....other than it felt good. shallow? perhaps. i may be changing with time though will not be completely tamed, i think.
 

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I can't say I actually knew I was gay, but I did know, from a very early age that something wasn't working in any attempt I made to be a "normal" straight male.

I couldn't work out why I wasn't obsessed with pussy like my straight friends. I convinced myself that it was because I was an enlightened pro-feminist male (ha!) But I never allowed myself to actively lust for men. I suppose I "knew" when I first had sex with a guy in my early 30s.
 

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My first sexual pulsions were not connected to a particular person. i just used to jerk off thinking about a girl, an anonymous one (often asian).

Since i was 16 i have always been interested in knowing what other guys pack, and to compare their penises to mine.

Even though, i never thought i might be gay, because i have always dreamed to have a wife, and to get old with her by my side.

It just took time to find the right one, and now here she is, sharing my days and dreams, walking forward to a future full of hope and light.

So that's why i am straight: i love my gilfriend, and, since we have been dating (3 years) i have never thought not to share every second of my life with her, not even for a second.