When Did You Know

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i grew up before there was internet or cell phones so it wasn't until college that I even had a clue that there were guys with very large penises. After a long run, some of my roommates ended up in the sauna and that's when i saw my first big penis ever.

My question is when did you discover that there were big penises out there and I know big is a relative and individual perception thing.
 

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Well, this is going to be borderlining the ToS, so can't answer directly.

But I've been raised in a country where nudity in many settings is normal. So seeing naked people of all ages at the beach has always been part of my life as I grew up living next to the beach.

Porn magazines and films was popular back then and they were lined up in more or less every store. So when I went to a grocery store with my mom or the gas station with my dad, there was always boobs, butts and cocks in plain sight.

However, to be completely honest I never thought of it in a sexual way. It was just naked bodies - just as when I walked out the garden door to the beach.

I didn't connect it to sexuality until my second boyfriend. My first was the smallest I've ever had, and the second was double his size. It made me connect penile size to sexuality.
 

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I honestly thought all weenies were basically the same. Granted, my sample size is small compared to some other women, but all of my lovers were within a certain range. A good range, I might add.

But I've seen my share of weenies who weren't lovers. The cowboys on the ranch would skinny dip, and try their best they couldn't hide from me. A friend and I spied on nudists at Hippie Hollow near Austin.

I always thought that women who joked about looking for King Dong were doing just that - joking.

So, it was my husband who made me realize that there is another side of the bell curve.

I stand corrected.
 

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I honestly don’t know. A dick is a dick, you know? I guess it wasn’t until I got into a relationship with someone who was larger. The sex wasn’t great, so it hurt a great deal. UTIs, tearing, etc. Put me off the larger guys. Fortunately, most guys are average, so it hasn’t been something I’ve had to endure too often.
 

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Young, queer-kinkster and interwebz baby... I knew there were outlier peen I just didn't care.

Kinda still the same today. I really don't care.

eta: I did not seek out peen. Back in the day when you searched BDSM gay men were the main generators of related content and smut. And Bears. Those wonderful and welcoming leather pervs, always gonna get the love.
 
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I extrapolated from the fact that all humans have unique and very different looking features. I didn't need to see it ever. I just knew, because I thought it was common sense..

This... I never expected that despite the fact bodies vastly differ in countless ways that dicks would be uniform
 

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I thought they were all pretty much the same and I’d only really known my husband’s (he was the only man I’d ever been with). So I thought huge sizes were a myth and a way to tease guys until my husband’s friend flashed me as a dare. I didn’t realize a guy could be that big.
 

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I thought they were all pretty much the same and I’d only really known my husband’s (he was the only man I’d ever been with). So I thought huge sizes were a myth and a way to tease guys until my husband’s friend flashed me as a dare. I didn’t realize a guy could be that big.

You're the first woman I met who thought like I did! LOL! Seriously, a weenie is a weenie, right?

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