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Puh-leeze stop making circumcision the reason that everything is wrong with everyone, with the world, etc., and that medical professionals are just out for the money. The few dollars they make doing a circumcision isn't even worth their time. Parents make the choice. If they want it done, fine, if not, fine. 99% of the cut men in this world don't harbor any resentment. I think that your anger towards your parents and the dr. that circumcised you are reason enough to get counseling.
Absolutely. Or a lawsuit.The few dollars they make doing a circumcision isn't even worth their time.
Another good reason to abandon the practice. I think it's the circumcisers who need their heads examined though.I think that your anger towards your parents and the dr. that circumcised you are reason enough to get counseling.
Yeah, they got so many of us we're unnaturally normal in the U.S.For me it wasn't so much about finding out something was missing as wondering what the hell that strange shit growing on the end of the first intact one I ever saw was.
Apparently, it already has.... And, come on, you know if you keep talking about it being a parent's choice this will turn into every other circ thread on this board.
Likewise, I don't understand the anger of the cut mongers. I've been called "dipshit" and recently "cunt" and yet I've never employed a vulgar name against the cut mongers. And I plan to keep that scorecard one-sided. Strangely it's the cut mongers that seem to complain the most about "anger". What's their problem?I know I'm going to get criticized for this post, but here goes anyway...I just don't understand the anger and strong emotions against circumcision.
The bolded text says a lot. Anyhow, circ. is like a deformity. There are rare cases in which a baby is born without a foreskin. That would be a deformity and so being cut as an infant is like a deformityIf you were cut when you were born (complications notwithstanding), it isn't like it's a deformity. Likewise, it's not a deformity to be uncut.
O.K. I won't say what you don't want me to say.My point revolves around this...I was cut when I was 25. Now, before everyone goes off saying "it was your choice," just understand that as a kid I had foreskin problems even though I was taught to keep it clean and tried very hard to do so. The painful visits to the doctor's office and the embarrassment of my family knowing what was going on...horrible! I was traumatized for a very long time over those evens.
Not all infant circumcisions go smoothly. Therefore if there's no medical indication it shouldn't be done. Even if an infant circumcision goes "perfectly" complications can ensue. For instance: meatal stenosis, which is a narrowing of the meatus [slang: peehole]. Jerry/dx and I had that and it happens to about 9% of all circumcised boys and only to circumcised boys. I don't remember my circ. but I can see the damage meatal stenosis caused.So, my point is this: it would have been much less traumatic had I been cut at birth or shortly thereafter than to have been taken to the doc at an age where I can remember and then deal with a sore dick for the next several days (and this happened on more than one occasion).
There's a word for that: circumfetish.Finally, I've got to admit, since about my senior year of high school, I liked the look of a circumcised dick and I'm glad I did it.
This is not a personal attack on you or your parents. A Phd can't possibly be misinformed for God's sake he's a Phd.Who says that my parents were misinformed? Both my parents were in medicine, and my father had a PhD. If they had not wanted me to be cut, they wouldn't have had me cut. I LOVE MY CUT COCK. :tongue:
I'm tired of being made to feel like I'm less of a man because my medical professional parents chose to circumcize me.
Puh-leeze stop making circumcision the reason that everything is wrong with everyone, with the world, etc., and that medical professionals are just out for the money. I think that your anger towards your parents and the dr. that circumcised you are reason enough to get counseling.
... I think that your anger towards your parents and the dr. that circumcised you are reason enough to get counseling.
Since both of you have mentioned "counseling," please state in writing who specifically needs it. Also state your Psychology training and certifications.But it's SO much easier blaming someone and everybody. Counseling is hard. Complaining daily on LPSG is SO easy. ...
Since both of you have mentioned "counseling," please state in writing who specifically needs it. Also state your Psychology training and certifications.
I think less than 99% are happy. A lot less.
Since both of you have mentioned "counseling," please state in writing who specifically needs it. Also state your Psychology training and certifications.
Prove it. Oh, and try not to use all of the anti circ propagandist studies and websites. I know that's almost impossible (actually completely impossible because the above statement is a bunch of crap.)
I love it!
Somehow natural penis advocates have become akin to terrorists!
What next?
The "training and certifications" tactic is something I learned from your side. In another thread, in which my side was advising stretching routines for a tight foreskin, your side said we weren't qualified to give "medical advice" and asked us to state our medical certifications. Is that familiar? And yet in that same thread someone on your side (not you) recommended circumcision, an irreversible surgery. Remember?Ahh you can't have it both ways. Either you require everyone to have training and certifications or you require no one. ...
It's now 15+ hours later and there was no "name-calling". Your side accuses my side of name-calling and yet your side does more of it. Please review the following samples.Now I can't wait for the inevitable name-calling to begin. I speculate in less than 2 hours.
My side has members in Europe, No. America, and Australasia so I will concede we do have a worldwide advantage. And there's not much you can do about that. There's only one other country that practices widespread infant circumcision and they don't speak English as a second language. I feel your pain.:smile:And by the usual 4-5 members who do a better job than Predator drones in striking their targets 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
I'll concede Chico's terrorist comment was over-the-top and not helpful to my side. But it's not anger on his part, he's an extremist. There are times I'd like to throttle him. When I read something like that I roll my eyes and skip it. I figure a lot of others do that as well.It's not what you advocate, it's how you do it and the anger that you hold. ...
Huh???You don't see websites and organizations devoted to circumcision.
My side opposes an single procedure. It may be perceived as an attack on a religion but it isn't. I don't recall anyone on my side "attacking" a religion. If it happened please state the post it happened in. I was called "anti-Semitic" and I can state who and which post, if requested. Oh ... and it happened more than once.You don't see people attacking someone's religion if they don't circumcize.
Only one-side needs to calm down? Only one???I think that if the ant-circumcision group would calm down a little ...