When did you realize that you were small(er)?

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  1. Smallprivate

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    Just curious when did u realize that you were small... Or for u larger guys when did u realize that you weren't the biggest?

    For me it wasn't really gym class, but I really realized in college and my first attempts at anal...certain positions DIDN'T work.haha. I specifically remember trying one position and my dick couldn't even reach it. Lesson learned, haha.
     
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    For me it was at the gym. I noticed some guy actually kinda laughing at my locker room size. He wasn't even that big, but still had me beat.
     
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    What kind of arrogant douchebag laughs at someone in the locker room? :confused:
     
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    I know, right?! Now I have a complex about it.. but also a fetish so it's not so bad.
     
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    Bradhardhairy you may not have a big softie but you are deffinately above average hard. I'd call that a big dick
     
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    I realised I was a bit smaller shortly after college. I always thought I was average because hard I was a solid 6" long- more like 6.5" with a slight bone press. After college though I found out more information on girth and being only 4.5" around I realised was in the lower range... and being in my mid 20's I knew there wasn't going to be any more growing!

    I find my slender girth has a huge impact on overall cock volume and reading how women liked girth and like feeling filled up I knew I was at a disadvantage. It sucked to find this out!
     
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    Bradhardhairy and Scott8361, I dont think either of you are small. You guys watch too much porn. I always thought I was really tiny when I was younger because of porn. I am still trying to grasp the fact I am above average.
     
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    Exactly what is the point of this thread? So far it seems like people are dredging up negative experiences. Having people share this is no different from those people who have laughed at the small ones (like it even matters).
     
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    Scott: those comparison pics you have are hot.
     
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    I wasn't really aware of my size until I had sex for the first time with the second girl I ever dated. We were in high school and she had dated a bit before me and was more experienced.

    The first time she saw it she said, "Huh. I thought it would be bigger". It wasn't meant to be mean or cruel -- she was just making a comment and I think wasn't really aware that it would have an impact on me. I'm 6'3" and have big hands and size 13 feet, so she hasn't been the only one who has made that assumption.

    But that was the first realization I had that I maybe wasn't as big as other guys.
     
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    when I was inhigh school and in gym saw other guys penis and realised mine was small......
    4.5" hard.....Oh well life goes on.......
     
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    I realized I was smaller when I compared with a friend, also looking in locker room, and first time I had sex.
     
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    I had always suspected it, but I didn't know for sure until I first had sex. My first sexual experience destroyed my last bits of self confidence.
     
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    I always figured mine was smaller...sneaking my dad's porn movies as a kid the guys had massive dicks.
    Also in the 9th grade, swimming pool locker room, all the white guys had huge soft dicks and mine was tiny.
    10th grade, my then best friend talked about how he could hold his cock in his hands "double fist" it and still have the whole head of his cock sticking out of his hand...
    I thought "Gee I'm nowhere near that" that's when I knew mine was smaller. :)
     
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    yeah, probably when a guy told me so to my face. really shattered my fragile ego
     
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    Heard one of my girlfriend's friends brag about one of her exboyfriends cocks. Man, I felt..... Small.
     
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    Food for thought, the vagina has nerve endings in the first 3-4 inches. The larger cocks are for showing off and bragging, like on this site. In the porn, ever notice that the really big cocks rarely put it all the way in?
     
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    Porn....porn.....porn. It sets a standard that is not reality.
     
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    my soft cock was bigger than my ex-boyfriend's hard cock but it wasn't an issue with me (and it wasn't the reason why we broke up). If the man is hot, both mentally and physically, the penis isn't that big a deal.
     
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