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I had a little existential moment today when I found myself checking out some grade-A beefy dudes. More on that in a sec, but first, just a lil' bit about me.
I've always been primarily attracted to guys my own age or (reasonably) younger. I'm generally top-ish/dom, but also kinda vanilla I guess. I mean I think I'm fun, and I'm definitely sex-positive, but my point is that I've never had any special thing for older/bear/leather/daddy type scenarios.
But today it was hot and sunny and as I was leaving a park I found myself walking behind (trust me, it was obvious) a hot young dad, carrying a football, and his, I'd say 19 y/o, son and his son's friend. All 3 were wearing b-ball shorts and wife-beaters, looking very schlong-y, and suddenly I noticed that I was just not very interested in the kids. But I was totally scoping out the dad the whole time.
I'm 33, and I hope not to raise any controversy about age and what's too old/too young. That's totally not my point. It's just that, as I was checking out the dad, I suddenly thought: this is itthe moment when I can be certain that I'm more interested, sexually, in the parents than the teenagers. And I hypothesized to myself that this probably happens to everybody, gay or straight.
Straight example: One day you're watching Modern Family and you realize you find the mom hotter than the daughter (the older one, of course, who is definitely in her 20s, so don't get nervous).
Gay example: On the sitcom The Middle, you find the dad sexier than the son (same deal).
I'm still on the fence, I guess, b/c in that show The Middle I'm sort of into the son, which is why I thought of it. But, again, I hope this doesn't seem controversial, b/c I don't wanna get into heated stuff about who's too young to think of sexually. I just thought others might have thoughts on this and/or similar experiences about getting "older" with your sexuality...
My theory: our sexual tastes age much more slowly than we do, but they age nonetheless. And it's interesting when you notice that.
I've always been primarily attracted to guys my own age or (reasonably) younger. I'm generally top-ish/dom, but also kinda vanilla I guess. I mean I think I'm fun, and I'm definitely sex-positive, but my point is that I've never had any special thing for older/bear/leather/daddy type scenarios.
But today it was hot and sunny and as I was leaving a park I found myself walking behind (trust me, it was obvious) a hot young dad, carrying a football, and his, I'd say 19 y/o, son and his son's friend. All 3 were wearing b-ball shorts and wife-beaters, looking very schlong-y, and suddenly I noticed that I was just not very interested in the kids. But I was totally scoping out the dad the whole time.
I'm 33, and I hope not to raise any controversy about age and what's too old/too young. That's totally not my point. It's just that, as I was checking out the dad, I suddenly thought: this is itthe moment when I can be certain that I'm more interested, sexually, in the parents than the teenagers. And I hypothesized to myself that this probably happens to everybody, gay or straight.
Straight example: One day you're watching Modern Family and you realize you find the mom hotter than the daughter (the older one, of course, who is definitely in her 20s, so don't get nervous).
Gay example: On the sitcom The Middle, you find the dad sexier than the son (same deal).
I'm still on the fence, I guess, b/c in that show The Middle I'm sort of into the son, which is why I thought of it. But, again, I hope this doesn't seem controversial, b/c I don't wanna get into heated stuff about who's too young to think of sexually. I just thought others might have thoughts on this and/or similar experiences about getting "older" with your sexuality...
My theory: our sexual tastes age much more slowly than we do, but they age nonetheless. And it's interesting when you notice that.