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When did your size begin to matter to you?

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Seeing as this is LPSG, I think it's safe to assume that most of us are above average in the size department and that has played a big role in our sex lives. My questions are, when did you start to care about your size, and when did you realize you were large?

The reason I ask is because I have two very distinct memories concerning size. First, back in fifth grade after we had our sex ed class I noticed my first pube. I can remember thinking something to the effect of "damn, my penis is gonna start growing. What woman wants to see a big flopping hairy thing when I take my pants off?" I grew up before Google made it easy to find averages and what not, and was a bit of an introvert, so I didn't have sex until I was in college. I always assumed I was average until my first partner said "slow down there big boy, I'm not used to so much." Somewhere between those two experiences I realized that I wanted to have a big dick but never had any confirmation of my size either way. In fact, I thought she was just being nice and assumed that women complimented your size just to be polite. (like I said, I was an introvert). So, when did you first decide you wanted to be big? When did the reality hit you that you actually were?
 
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Was in a similar situation. I was a 16 year old virgin and I found myself on a couch in a dark living room in between the thighs of a college chick. When she told me my dick was big I thought she was being nice; but she kept telling me over and over. So big that I couldn't penetrate her (I was a virgin and lacked the skill to wield a big sword).

After that I measure myself and compared my size to the averages online. Since then I have been proud of my dick.
 

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Size began to matter in my last year of high school when I noticed I was bigger than the assholes of my class :rolleyes:
I had noticed in my first year of high school that I was bigger, but I thought that was because I was an early bloomer because compared to many I also had pubes back then.

And since I joined lpsg I was more confronted about the size of dick, and then I realised that I wasn't small at all, but also that my girth was big compared to most others.
 
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Around ten comparing with friends. I was bigger by far.

No. Just recalled. I was a swimmer when I was a kid and in the locker room, I'd say at 8 I was bigger than my friends but thought nothing about it until 10 when we'd compare eachother.
 
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Never really mattered to me, but my partners seemed to like it.
 

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Early teens when things became more sexualy driven and girls kept telling me my dick was big, asking to see it, telling there freinds etc.
 

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Probably as soon as I realised they came in different sizes. I am the stereotypical guy in that sense. But I think I use 'matter' loosely, really. It doesn't matter one jot in the grand scheme of things.
 

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I realized I was larger than the majority of my past boyfriends but I never really gave it any value. I wasn't with them for their size, and I just assumed they weren't with me for my size either. I didn't care/appreciate my size until I started my new job about a year and a half ago and noticed that both the men and the women at work were glancing and sometimes staring at my crotch. It doesn't bother me when they look. Sometimes the looks can make a depressing work day a little less depressing. :)
 

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I schooled in an all boy boarding school from aged 9 to 18 and became very aware of my size early. It caused me very few problems and I also realised there was more to life than a just big dick! But I have enjoyed my size all my life and am very grateful!


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Size began to matter to me when I was around 12. My friends and I started measuring and I was a good 1-2 inches bigger than all of them....and bigger than the "average" adult size.
 
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It started to matter to me when I was about 10 or 11. My brother is 2 years older and he hit puberty fairly soon. He became well endowed very fast. Then he started teasing me, which obviously wasn't fair since I had only this little boys penis and I was too young to develop yet. Although I didn't realise it back then, my penis was probably more than fine for my age.

At age 13 I had a penis the size of an average grown man, but my brother kept teasing me since he was really large. I tried too feel good about it, telling myself that my penis was perfectly fine with an average size, but I wanted to be big.

Then at age 14 I measured 18 cm, which is well above average, so I started feeling good about my penis. I kept growing and so did my penis, now I feel very good and very confident about my shlong. It is probably the thing I feel most confident about. Certainly when I started having sex, since all girls told me my dick isn't only very large, but also very beautiful.

Now it matters less to me then it did back then. You could compare feelings about dick size to feelings about money. When you are rich, you care less about money than when you are poor.
 

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I guess I first became aware of the variety in penis sizes as a teenager. Not having any brothers and my father having died when I was young, I never saw other male penises until boy scouts, and high school gym class. I saw some adult men showering when I took a YMCA swim class around the time I was in eighth grade or so, and was of course struck by how they looked relative to me.

In high school there were plenty of guys who went through puberty before I did and were much bigger, although the majority, I'm sure, looked like me. But the ones that are much bigger than yours stick in your head.

From those limited encounters I got the idea that I was probably smaller than average. This was a time before the internet or Playgirl magazine. There were "girlie magazines" that one sometimes got a peek at, but they didn't show penises at that time (flaccid or erect) and the only porn videos were shown on 8mm tape at bachelor parties.

I was a little concerned that I might not be as "manly" as other guys, not only because of penis size, but also because I was not terribly muscular, didn't have a real deep voice, and didn't have a lot of body hair. I don't remember being terribly self-conscious about it, though.

It wasn't till I had a few naked encounters with girls in high school and received a couple of comments that I was "big" that I became aware that I probably wasn't smaller than average. Like most guys, to me I look strictly "average" since it is what I see every day. But on occasions that I am changing or showering with other men, I can see that I am larger than most, at least flaccid, and the statistics suggest I am larger than most erect.
 
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Some version of this question has been asked lots of times on here, but it is still interesting to read and interesting to respond to, I think. As I think back, I remember having a buddy who was a couple of years older than I was (he was probably 12 and I was 10), and we compared sizes. He commented that we were about the same size then, and he had already started puberty while I hadn't. A few years later, I had a younger friend and roles were reversed. My younger buddy talked all the time about how big my cock was and he was fascinated with the beginnings of pubes and such on me. Until then, I'd not thought much since I'd only compared with relatively non-developed boys.

Then came gym class, where I was thrown into a mixed-age boy's gym class when I was in eighth grade. This was in the days of mandatory showers, and not being much of an athlete, I was self-conscious of the class to begin. But I remember distinctly noticing the other, older guys in the shower (juniors and seniors), and realizing that I had nothing to be ashamed of at 13 when I got naked. In fact, despite my less than stellar athletic ability, the older guys always treated me with respect--which I realized as I got into high school was somewhat related to what I was packing in my skivvies (as my dad used to call them). I guess in that sense my size "mattered," because it gave me some social capital that I wouldn't have otherwise had.

I was not sexually active until college, when my size actually made a difference. I'm only moderately impressive flaccid (a nice hang but not OMG), but my college roomie and I messed around some, and he was the first to tell me I was big. Later, women commented on it, so I figured it must be true enough to make a difference.
 

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i googled average when i was in grade 6 and it said 6 inches so i thought i was below average lol ....yea stupid i know...

so i found penis enlargement exerecises when i begun highschool and it kept on growing. then at about the end of 8th grade i was about 8 inches (reached my belly button). all the girls i was friends with started to notice my dick and called me big dick ( name) lol hugged me and felt it up alot.

notice that it made me extra special...it grew some more and now its here...and it brings with it alot of sexual power which i thank God for everyday :)
 
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Around 20 when I started having sex and the women I was dating remarked about it. I didn't pay it any attention before then.
 

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Around 13 I think I started thinking bigger was better like everyone I knew. It's just talked about like a good thing to have lol. I didn't realize I was big untill 17.
 

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Mine started whenever I started to hear my friends talk about sex, and when I started to learn about stereotypes and what not.
 

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Seeing as this is LPSG, I think it's safe to assume that most of us are above average in the size department
no because there are so many scrubs here with 6 or so inchers looking for positive affirmation (grasping at straws) or smalllll guys looking for sph.
 

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I didn't realize me size still sophmore year in hs guys where like thats huge I'm 6 soft 8 hard been that size since i wash 15 now 22!
 

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During the summer of my freshman college year. I was talking to a woman on the phone and the subject of sex came around. At some point, she asked about the size of my dick. I hadn't measured in a while so I had to find a ruler to get the latest. When I told her, the conversation completely changed. It went from playful sex talk to now she was seriously propositioning me for sex - at one point saying like "I want to fuck you!".

THAT's when I wanted a large dick. Not that I felt evey woman would want me, but if she responded to that, she would have surely responded if I had said it were bigger.

And so we did, about two days later we arranged to fuck at her house and we did so for the rest of the summer.

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Mine was when a woman I was with slated me for being small and telling all of my friends and her friends that I was small. I have since discovered, in no small part to this site, that she was not entirely correct.
 

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I never gave it a thought through those years of communal showers in high school. A big dick on a big guy looks about the same as an average dick on an average guy, so i never really thought of myself as being hung. As for the women who have told me I'm big I figured, just like others on this thread, that they were intentionally feeding my ego and telling me what they thought I wanted to hear. So I never really appreciated how hung I was until later in life when I started playing around with other guys, very few of whom were anywhere near my size.

As for when it mattered to me, it never has. I can't say that I've ever been "proud" of my size as it's not something of my own doing, just a genetic twist of fate. However I can honestly say that it's something I've always enjoyed.:tongue:
 

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It all started when a slightly older girl I was dating(fucking), told her friends that she measured me and I was longer than 9 inches and thick as her wrist... All her friends wanted to have sex with me and/or us. Up until that point, I didn't realize my size was that rare. From there, I looked forward to being the dude who had the biggest dick and fucked "the girl" deeper, longer and harder then they have ever been fucked.
 

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It all started when a slightly older girl I was dating(fucking), told her friends that she measured me and I was longer than 9 inches and thick as her wrist... All her friends wanted to have sex with me and/or us. Up until that point, I didn't realize my size was that rare. From there, I looked forward to being the dude who had the biggest dick and fucked "the girl" deeper, longer and harder then they have ever been fucked.

I'm always suspicious when the only pic is a tiny one that could be from anywhere.

But I guess many just regard this as Fantasy Land anyway.
 

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after my first girlfriend made some comments about how i'm the smallest guy she ever had. it didn't really hurt me, but my first thoughts about size came after this happened.
later i realized i'm totally average (and not small like she suggested) and since then i'm not really concerned