early in the summer of my 15th year, I had quite a growth spurt between my legs, my balls got very large and my girth must have tripled. late that summer my bro came home from college, and we were always pretty open about being nude in front of each other. we shared the same bedroom for 10 yrs. anyway, he got a glimpse of the "new" part of me, and was kind of taken aback, almost in shock. said I got the old man's cock. about a yr later I lost my virginity to a gal visiting for the summer. she had done a couple dudes in the neighborhood, and one day it was my turn. the next day & evening it was my turn. after a few days of only doing me, one of my buddies complained to her, and she told'em she was only fucking me cuz I had a big one.
it really only started to matter to me when I got in my early 20's and if I got really serious about a lady, that I, more than likely, would meet her sexual needs. I never was told I was bad in bed, quite the opposite. I had woman leave me cuz I was poor, struggling my way thru college, or they thought I held no promise(not very smart). or if I was dating a local gal, she was upper class, on a higher social level, and I was from the wrong side of the tracks.