Principessa
Expert Member
That's how you operate but many people do not. There is a distinct difference between friends with benefits and a fuck buddy. By blurring the line you get confusion like Jovial'sNJQT- One of the requirements I have for a fuck buddy as that I like her and consider her to be a friend. I have gone out to movies and to eat with several of them. Just because I am not in love with them doesn't mean we can't be friends. It's called 'friends with benefits' I think.
Happens every day. Some men string women along. It's a fact just like Pi = 3.14159265. The problem is being able to discern the good men from the bad men.That's a sad story. I hate hearing stuff like this.
You over think everything!I'm not sure if they are giving me mixed signals or if I'm just looking for reasons to think they don't like me.
That is a distinct possibility. :tongue:Maybe I'm too dense to read their signals.
This bothers me. :irked: You should not have to ask them about their bf or how deeply they are involved. These girls should be honest with you from the begining so that you can move onto someone who actually wants to be with you.I don't think they're being ambiguous. It's more me not being bold enough to ask them about their boyfriends to see exactly what they mean.
Exactly.I think some women would prefer to think of a fuck buddy in their mind as a boyfriend, so they don't feel slutty. The guy may not think of her as a girlfriend though.
This makes sense. but I don't think the girls I'm talking about have fuck buddies. More likely they are just bored in their relationships. Of course, I didn't ask so I'm not sure. If a girl brings up the boyfriend, then I shouldn't be shy about asking more about him. But I feel like I'm prying. I grew up thinking it's not polite to ask people about personal things, but I have to realize if they bring it up, then it's fair game to discuss.
And there is a gray line between boyfriend and fuck buddy.
No there isn't. People like to blur the line but it's actually quite distinct.
Hell no, he is not a boyfriend! :duh: He could be referred to as a friend with benefits because they already had a relationship. Or he could just be a booty call. Fuck buddy denotes a bit of anonymity and little personal info being exchanged.Maybe the guy used to take the girl out, but now he just comes over and they hang out and fuck. So is he still a boyfriend?
Of course she would. Unless she has low self-esteem then a fuck buddy relationship is perfect for her.Well, call it what you want, but the girl would rather someone that takes her out too.