When do you tell her about the size?

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  1. D_James K Poke

    D_James K Poke New Member

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    So i've been dating a girl for a couple of weeks now and so far its been completely non sexual. She is a really taken home to Mom kind of girl. Well she was joking around last night to one of her friends about one of her ex's being so big, and the details came out that he was 7-7.5ish. I wanted to step up and share some dimensions but I didn't. What would be the most appropriate way to share them with out sounding really really arrogant or cocky? (Which i'm not) But I am much larger than her ex.
     
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    I wouldn't, I would just wait until you had sex to let her see for herself. I'm not the type to go around telling people my size, just let it speak for itself.
     
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    You could open it by asking if size made a difference. Whether it does or not, during the conversation your size might come up. If not, just let her be surprised the first time she sees it.
     
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    Holy shit....nice cock! Lucky gal :biggrin:
     
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    Never, let her find out herself
     
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    thanks for all the feedback. i think i'll just wait for it.
     
  7. D_Sparroe Spongecaques

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    Never,if a guy harps on about having a big one then i and some women would think 1.you didnt really 2.You do but are crap at using it....

    Let her find out for herself......nice chest btw!
     
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    I can see no reason for you to tell her.
     
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    thanks miss
     
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    You're very welcome!

    :tongue:
     
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    Well I think she's incredibly lucky. Not only is she getting a handsome, hot, hung stud but also an emotionally aware and nice guy. Just think about it. If it seems like it'll be an issue or she'll be intimidated bring it up to her. Personally, I hope she's pleased. ;)
     
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    Well I do have a pretty good grasp of what is polite and what is proper. It just kind of made me giggle a little to hear them talking about him and how "big" he was. Shes a great girl and it was my first time ever really hearing her talk about the topic. I do have to admit i'm pretty excited to actually do something now, bc she was talking about how always brag about how big they are and then they suck in bed. I feel like I have a lot to prove hahaha.
     
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    Not only R U hung BUT U R extremely handsome but most especially sensitive to the needs of others - hope U will be happy together.
     
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    Women don't particularly like men who brag about their big dicks. In fact, for some women it's a turn off. I have found that if you know how and when to please a woman, then she will do all the bragging for you!!-- no matter how big your dick is.

    I also sent you a private message, HungRob. Check it out.
     
  15. D_Sparroe Spongecaques

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    BTW,if things don't work for the both of you then come to England because i'll happily listen to you telling how big your wanger is hehe!!!
     
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    Do not say a word and just wait for the reaction when you drop your pants the first time! When I saw my husband naked the first time I was speechless but then asked "Is that all for me?" UGH I was so lame.... but my husband still says it was the best reaction he ever got!

    It really would have ruined the "surprise" if he talked size before I saw him.
     
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    None of the women I've had sex with knew my size before things started getting sexual ... and fortunately I'm not so large that any of them had to stop the proceedings! :biggrin1:

    Not every woman commented on my size, but it has been very nice to hear
    "You're huge!"
    "Oh my!"
    "Hmm ... big boy"
    "Nice dick"
    <thumbs up>
     
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    Yeah, I wouldn't mention it. I never even saw TheBF's penis before he penetrated me and he never mentioned that he was hung before we had sex, which would have been weird IMO. I can't imagine how he could have possibly worked it into the conversation without coming off like a jackass. The only way to do it and still be a charming guy is if you make a joke about it, and then she'll just think you're being humorous.

    I heard rumours, though, but I thought the girls were exaggerating to be funny, because we were all drinking in a bar and giggling and gossiping, and they all thought he was really hot and they were saying some really naughty things about him.
     
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    You only tell her when she asks. Which is usually just before or just after you've penetrated her.

    Then you tell her your size and she'll say "Really? I thought you were [at least two inches bigger]"
     
  20. D_Sparroe Spongecaques

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    Yeah but when the burds tell you that your head is big they aint on about your willy:tongue:
     
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