When do you tell her about the size?

D_76froy

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Do not tell her! She'll see for herself the first time you have sex and the look on her face will be priceless. I never boast about having a big cock, and even when women ask (they sometimes do) I just tell them they'll have to judge for themselves.

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lol more or less :redface:

Maybe you can measure it sometime :tongue:. I'm sure it'd grow to 8" for you!

And I could measure your boobs...for no reason except that I want to!
 

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Yah definitely do not say anything about it. If you do...she may feel that you're trying to boast/brag or are insecure and have to "one up" the x boyfriend. Just let her find out for herself. It will make you look that much better in her eyes. Confidence is a good thing, but arrogance is another. *sometimes people do not know the difference and go too far.*
 

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Another vote for "Don't tell her." (unless she asks)

On the other hand I think maybe she knows you are big.

The way you describe her personality (Take home to Mom) tells me she would not talk about her ex's penis size in front of you if she did not think you were at least as big as he was.

Does that make sense?
 

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About a year ago there was a lot of gossipping about my size going on behind my back AND right in front of me. Usually it were the same two girls who tried to embarass me by talking about my cock to other girl(s) were I was talking to.

Anyway: I had my share of situations. Imo, the best you could do, is shut up. I always try to give a mysterious/confident/cocky smile/grin. The Pierce brosnan kind of smile. This makes them wondering. Garanteed you and your cock will be on their mind for a while...
 

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when do you TELL her?
she gets to find out all on her own.
enough good night kisses with embrace
for long enough and she feels it..........
yeah. no need to tell. let her unwrap a
nice package and enjoy it.
 

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...keeping in mind that every man who has told me their size in advance actually turned out to be a disappointment. I think it's best to leave it alone until you are actually in bed together ready to get it on. I mean, I've had men tell me "oh I got 8" for you babe, or I got 9" for you darling", only to find out its untrue and in fact, I would have no idea how they even considered themself so large.

That being said, I don't really get into this reaction stuff "oh your so fuckin huge". I mean, perhaps I have seen so many larger ones or just cocks in general that I no longer care about their size or shape. The bottom line is if I decide to jump in bed with someone, I don't really care about how big, etc. and yes, when a man volunteers their size to me in advance, I usually take this in a negative manner, either suggesting to me that their cock is the only good thing about them or they are to cocky for me to handle - I have no problem walking out when I sense arrogant or cocky guys.
 
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Also, from doing some reading here, women tend to not be the best judge of size. So unless she actually measured it, ladies's estimates are usually more generous.

And its best not to brag. Dont say anything. If it ever comes up, the best thing to say is, "I dont know what big is to you, but I am definetly not small." That covers all the bases.
 

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I've had men tell me "oh I got 8" for you babe, or I got 9" for you darling", only to find out its untrue and in fact, I would have no idea how they even considered themself so large.

Fucking liers! What do you do at that point? They were probably hoping you would just do it anyway by that point.