...keeping in mind that every man who has told me their size in advance actually turned out to be a disappointment. I think it's best to leave it alone until you are actually in bed together ready to get it on. I mean, I've had men tell me "oh I got 8" for you babe, or I got 9" for you darling", only to find out its untrue and in fact, I would have no idea how they even considered themself so large.
That being said, I don't really get into this reaction stuff "oh your so fuckin huge". I mean, perhaps I have seen so many larger ones or just cocks in general that I no longer care about their size or shape. The bottom line is if I decide to jump in bed with someone, I don't really care about how big, etc. and yes, when a man volunteers their size to me in advance, I usually take this in a negative manner, either suggesting to me that their cock is the only good thing about them or they are to cocky for me to handle - I have no problem walking out when I sense arrogant or cocky guys.