When do you tell her about the size?

D_Rosalind Mussell

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I'm tossing in another vote for the "don't tell her" approach. In my experience the penis size never made a difference to me whatsoever if the sex wasn't good. Let her be pleasantly surprised by your size, technique, passion, attentiveness, etc. IMHO, the passionate and inventive lovers get the goods. :D
 

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I never tell women how big I am. I prefer to let her find out for herself, where applicable.

If pressed, I usually tell people I'm tiny. That approach weeds out women who take everything literally, and amuses the few who might be in the know, so it's a good approach.
 

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Rob,
Just let her find out.You have a lot to offer a women. Your very handsome. I can only bet the charisma and charm is such that women and men love to be around you.
 

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Women don't particularly like men who brag about their big dicks. In fact, for some women it's a turn off. I have found that if you know how and when to please a woman, then she will do all the bragging for you!!-- no matter how big your dick is.

In my experience penis size never made a difference to me whatsoever if the sex wasn't good. Let her be pleasantly surprised by your size, technique, passion, attentiveness.

I've feel the above sums it up nicely; having a large penis isn't going to count for much if you don't know to please a women in bed. Being able to please a women isn't dependant on a big penis but she will enjoy it if she knows that you can arouse her in other ways before penetration.
 

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Yeah~! You don't need to tell her
Wouldn't you find it a bit weird if she in a casual conversation she was to say oh by the way I have a cavernous vagina......
 

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Dunno looks pretty big to me. Not sure we need to put Hung Rob down.

At any rate there's something else to keep in mind.

Most women are not that good at estimating size. If she thinks her ex was 7.5" he was probably more like 6.5" - for all we know her guesstimate make have been from bottom view, starting at the balls.
 
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If she was open enough to mention another guy's cock size in front of you, then that is your license to say "You ain't seen nothin' yet!"

Some women seem to have a double standard and believe it is okay for them to mention their past lovers, but do not want their husbands/boyfriends to do the same. Sometimes my wife, when she is talking to other women, including her daughters, when I am within earshot will refer to "all the men I've been with", which is her way of telling them "I've fucked with a lot of guys! And, I can say so in front of my husband!"

I do believe that if this girl told that her previous lover had a big cock, it is time for you to tell her about YOUR size, even if another woman is present.