When does a one night stand become a two night stand for you?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by earllogjam, Apr 3, 2011.

  1. earllogjam

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    If the first night was hot.
     
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    I was never interested in a one off. When I was single, if I fucked a guy, it was because I wanted to fuck him over and over.
     
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    When we get together the 2nd time and then they disappear never to be heard from again.
     
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    Yeah, I was gonna say "on the second night!" lol

    If we have fun, then I'm always up for meeting again. Most guys I meet are more than a one nighter, usually becoming regular wanking/fuck buddies.
     
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    When we hang out and fuck all through the next day, and decide to spend another night together.
     
  7. D_Edwin Eatser

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    not often these days... my one night stands happen away from home, on business trips. it's about sex, not relationships.
     
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    When I was in my 20s and 30s, any time I had sex the first time was based, at least in theory, that it would continue into a FB kind of situation, though it didn't always work out that way. These days, I have no qualms whatsoever about having a once-off that I'd have little or no interest in repeating, though if I find someone especially appealing I usually try and follow-up with (at least) a second.

    FWIW, everyone with whom I eventually shared a LTR started off as a one-night stand.
     
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    if the sex was good, and if I'm still horny and/or I think we might have somethingm ore than sex going on. this if from my memory, it's been years since I was single and doing one nite stands.
     
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    Not a relationship till you see each other. Have sex 3 times.
     
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    When you spend the next 36 hours in bed. :)
     
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    When she loses the keys to the handcuffs.
     
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    Nailed it.
     
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    ditto.
     
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    It's been so long since I had a one night stand but typically when it was great we just never got out of bed for 2 or three days!
     
  16. earllogjam

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    Same here...
     
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    That's been my experience too. :biggrin1:
     
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    Generally, they don't. It depends on the person. If I've established a friendship with that person or the sex was good, then yes- lets hang out, smoke up, and do this again. Otherwise, "it was nice meeting you. Best wishes to you in the future!"
     
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    When we wake up and notice it's the day after tomorrow.
     
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    This!!!

    *dies*
     
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