When Does Sexiness End ?

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  1. basque9

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    Having been admonished a few times on here to stop pretending to be sexy..presumably at " My Age ", I would like to know whether you feel being sexy does in fact have an age related aspect; and , if so, at what age does being sexy end?:confused:
     
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    well with some people quite early on, some people were never sexy to begin with, and for all the rest, when your dead probably.

    But for some folks even thats not a problem for them :biggrin1:
     
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    Gotcha..good point. LOL:wink:
     
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    good question -- as a young teen, I only found older guys sexy

    older guys, as everyone knows, seem to find guys in their twenties sexy

    dunno ... probably varies, as one of the posters said, 'till death
     
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    Interesting to contemplate that one might always remain sexy..right up until death!:rolleyes:
     
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    For you, sexy is however you see it and will end when you feel it. For others, sexy is in the eye of the beholder and will end when it ends.
     
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    Sexiness is in confidence, taking care of yourself, being comfortable with who is around you, and allowing yourself to be sexual.

    There is no end to that so long as you have those traits. If anyone is telling you to tone down your sexiness, then they're just jealous or have issues of their own. Be yourself and enjoy what you have to give to those around you. If that turns into sex, well then it does.
     
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    If you're able to get it up, get off, and have a ready and more than willing partner who appreciates you, you're the sexiest person alive -- and by extension so is your partner whether he's your lTC or you're paying some stud by the hour.
     
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    "Arousing or tending to arouse sexual desire or interest."

    ...so there is no cutoff age as long as you can arouse someone else.
     
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    Basque9, I don't think you need to worry about loosing your sexiness. Wow! Must be interesting for someone your age to have seen the advent of computers (as did I at my age) and to be posting your dick on a site like this. It's something that no one could ever have imagined. Keep it up guy!
     
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    Sexy is totally relative.

    While a 70 year old man may find a 18 yr old girl sexy she probably won't see hi in the same way....however that 60 yr old silver-haired bird might think he's a fox.

    Same for different body styles....some men think skinny with big boobs is sexy while others prefer girls with more curves and some meat.
     
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    True, Cary Grant was sexy until the day he died.

    I think that Americans in general are more ageist. But in the Gay community I have heard it said that once you hit 35 or 40 life and dating are over. :eek: :confused:
     
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    who says that? a line from "Boys in the Band"?

    one of my first FBs was this fifty-plus guy while I early to mid-twenties

    very hot memories
     
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    some people just aren't sexy.

    I can tell you the kind of guy who doesn't give a damn if his woman has an orgasm... he ain't never gonna be sexy, no matter what he looks like.


    Some old geezer with rheumy eyes and bad teeth... also probably not gonna be sexy...

    Ladies who decide to let themselves go and get a grannied up at age 50...
    not too sexy...


    Yet...
    Picasso and Henry Miller were sexy right up into their 90s.
    wooing women and showing them a good time..

    I would absolutely screw the living daylights out of Dame Judi Dench, or Raquel Welch.

    There is something in the eye... something in how you look at someone that transmits not only desire, but a genuine fascination with them, and a genuine joy in living.

    People who get old are people who disengage with life..., stop changing, stop learning, stop drinking it all in.

    But if you are 85, and you still live life to the hilt... still can risk your heart, still can be shattered by love...

    ...And stand in line for more...

    then you are not old, you're just aging.


    sexy is thrilling in the beauty of life, and love, regardless of your age.
     
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    Good points!
     
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    Interesting points!
     
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    Hey man, thanks for the morale boost! Yes, I have lived through many changes! :wink:
     
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    Fascinating points! I can tell you though, my friend, there is sex and life after 40 LOL!:wink:
     
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    WOW..incredible post!:cool:
     
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    Valid points!:cool:
     
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