some people just aren't sexy.
I can tell you the kind of guy who doesn't give a damn if his woman has an orgasm... he ain't never gonna be sexy, no matter what he looks like.
Some old geezer with rheumy eyes and bad teeth... also probably not gonna be sexy...
Ladies who decide to let themselves go and get a grannied up at age 50...
not too sexy...
Yet...
Picasso and Henry Miller were sexy right up into their 90s.
wooing women and showing them a good time..
I would absolutely screw the living daylights out of Dame Judi Dench, or Raquel Welch.
There is something in the eye... something in how you look at someone that transmits not only desire, but a genuine fascination with them, and a genuine joy in living.
People who get old are people who disengage with life..., stop changing, stop learning, stop drinking it all in.
But if you are 85, and you still live life to the hilt... still can risk your heart, still can be shattered by love...
...And stand in line for more...
then you are not old, you're just aging.
sexy is thrilling in the beauty of life, and love, regardless of your age.