I lifted weights for over 25 years and I learned that being able to lift 45lb dumbbells and lift 240 lbs laying on my back didn't give me the results I was hoping for. Muscle results seems to be closely tied to body architecture, while strength can be less detectable. I'd rather be strong than muscle bound. Another man's beard is something else for me. I grew my beard three years ago Other men's beards, as has my beard is to me, is something I will comment upon. The last time I shopped for produce, a strong looking man wearing his Marine's camouflage coat was in front of me, his beard caught my eye. He was with his wife, and they realized I was paying close attention to him. Instead of pretending I wasn't, as I passed them, I said "that is a most excellent beard. It was about 1/2 an inch long but quite thick with as much grey as dark whiskers. Both of them seemed pleased about my comment. He was proud of his and she must have liked it as well. He thanked me and said he liked my beard as well. Even though beards are fairly common, only about 20% to 25% of men sport one. I think both he & she understood and appreciated my comment. There are too many lame beards around here and he had one of the better ones. I do not believe they thought I was hitting on him, just complimenting him. I believe in supporting men of a similar mind, so I'm not ashamed to make a personal comment. I have never had a negative comment back. However, I wouldn't have minded us jumping each others bones. Before I moved on, I thanked him for his service. Bearded men, belong to a fraternity of sorts and growing one here in the suburbs takes a touch of courage. My favorite comment made to me came after I told a 35 year old to stop reeving his truck exhaust. so loudly. He got out and I didn't budge. Hit me, you know you want to, was my expression and attitude. Frustrated, he said "Oh, shave you old man"and got back in his truck, but got out just as quickly and apologized as he had had a bad day. I responded, Thank you for you apology, we have all been in your shoes", and said it was not a big deal for me. No, it was a great deal as my beard projected a don't mess with me attitude. I was very proud and happy. - Steven