When everyone is in a relationship, except "you".

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All of my friends are in relationships, yes, every single one. I'm the only one out of all of my friends who has had only 1 boyfriend in their whole entire life. I'm actually getting sick of hanging out with my friends and their boyfriends. I guess I don't need a boyfriend to function.

Anyone else in this position ?
 

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I have been single for awhile and 99% of my friends that I see daily have a bf/gf. It gets old always seeing them togather and hearing about how they need to do this with another couple and how they did this with another couple! I sometimes want to punch them in the face.
 
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I have been through this in my younger days, but I ended up the lucky one. I eventually met the most wonderful woman in the world, and we have had 23 years of sheer bliss together. I couldn't imagine a more wonderful marriage. Words of encouragement, I hope.
 

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luckily, I'm not the only one in my circle who's unattached...
in fact, 2 of my friends were just telling me how much they want to meet the right woman & settle down & have a family...
 

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Most of my friends are single right now and we are all in our 30's. It seems that everyone is looking for that perfect one. One of my friends ended up marrying a woman from his country just to get married, and has already cheated on her. I don't want to be like that :(
 

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I have been single for awhile and 99% of my friends that I see daily have a bf/gf. It gets old always seeing them togather and hearing about how they need to do this with another couple and how they did this with another couple! I sometimes want to punch them in the face.


Ahahahha!!!! Love it!
 

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At Christmas I had two relationships end suddenly. It was completely devastating, and I can still hardly believe it all happened as it did. I was devastated for a while, it's getting better now. But I'm older, and have been through this kind of stuff.

We usually exagerate our emotions and work ourselves into a real sadness and depression by comparing our lack to other people's seeming ability "to have." However, take a closer look at most of the people in relationships. I'll be most are in not very good relationships. And they put aside all their unhealthy behaviors to try to have one good day/night on Valentine's only to watch them fall apart sooner or later.

It's okay to be single. In order to find the love you want, you have to become the love you seek. You are the answer to your problem, the helper you've always needed. When you get a hold of that, you suddenly become empowered, and attractive, and people will start flocking to you.

Trust me on this. I've been working through grief over my losses, but I have no regrets about my role in all this.

There is someone for you. But become the person you hope to find, and they'll be there when you're ready.

And don't sweat this Valentine's day crap. My Christmas day sucked like new vacuum, but it was just one day, and there are all kinds of new opportunities rolling my way. You be that way too. You deserve a great life.
 

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At Christmas I had two relationships end suddenly. It was completely devastating, and I can still hardly believe it all happened as it did. I was devastated for a while, it's getting better now. But I'm older, and have been through this kind of stuff.

We usually exagerate our emotions and work ourselves into a real sadness and depression by comparing our lack to other people's seeming ability "to have." However, take a closer look at most of the people in relationships. I'll be most are in not very good relationships. And they put aside all their unhealthy behaviors to try to have one good day/night on Valentine's only to watch them fall apart sooner or later.

It's okay to be single. In order to find the love you want, you have to become the love you seek. You are the answer to your problem, the helper you've always needed. When you get a hold of that, you suddenly become empowered, and attractive, and people will start flocking to you.

Trust me on this. I've been working through grief over my losses, but I have no regrets about my role in all this.

There is someone for you. But become the person you hope to find, and they'll be there when you're ready.

And don't sweat this Valentine's day crap. My Christmas day sucked like new vacuum, but it was just one day, and there are all kinds of new opportunities rolling my way. You be that way too. You deserve a great life.


Awh, this is sweet. Yeah, I'm fine being single, I'm just tired of being around "un-single" people, LOL! The whole kissy kissy thing just gets too much sometimes, it's sickening, ahah.
 

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Yeah I'm with am12387, whats QFT?

am12387, I can't stand it when they do that! You're sitting there while they are doing it thinking "Oh my gosh just go get a room and hump already! You're anoying me." Or my favorite is to look at them and go "Awww, look at the sweet couple, only wish I had a person to do that with, but no I'm always alone. I guess it is just not meant for me" and start pretend crying so they start paying attention to you and when they go all dr.phil on you telling you you will find someone look up and go "you think so? me to lets go to the mall" and just be all chippy happy like nothing happend. Stuns them for a moment, its funny. In my book.
 

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Yeah I'm with am12387, whats QFT?

am12387, I can't stand it when they do that! You're sitting there while they are doing it thinking "Oh my gosh just go get a room and hump already! You're anoying me." Or my favorite is to look at them and go "Awww, look at the sweet couple, only wish I had a person to do that with, but no I'm always alone. I guess it is just not meant for me" and start pretend crying so they start paying attention to you and when they go all dr.phil on you telling you you will find someone look up and go "you think so? me to lets go to the mall" and just be all chippy happy like nothing happend. Stuns them for a moment, its funny. In my book.


Ahaha, I've never done that before! Sounds hilarious! I should try it one day, ahah! Well, I work anyways, and I don't have time to hang out with my friends a lot, so when I do see them, it's not that annoying, but if I did have to see them everyday, I'd probably shoot myself, or them, ahah.