Hubby and I will be married 10yrs in November. It's probably not going to reach 11yrs. He is a severe masochist. In the beginning of our relationship we started a domme/slave relationship. It was 24/7 for almost 10 yrs. I decided it was too much, like having another child, telling him what to do all the time, that I said we were going to have to scrap our contracts and try to make it a weekend thing. Mind you, I didn't just drop the bomb on him, I had been talking about cutting it back for some time. Now he's got no interest in sex (it's been since December). I insisted on an open marriage from the beginning, so I am not unsatisfied, but I am really sad that our marriage is ending. Has anyone else had a situation where fetishes/sexuality have ruined a relationship?