When Have You Had No Standards?

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No, what matters is who you are as a person. Religion was created to persecute and cull. Not religious. Not particularly spiritual anymore either. We are just here because two people didn’t wear a condom, we are just animals who live and die. Which is why the only thing that matters... is who you are. As a person.
 
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No, what matters is who you are as a person. Religion was created to persecute and cull. Not religious. Not particularly spiritual anymore either. We are just here because two people didn’t wear a condom, we are just animals who live and die. Which is why the only thing that matters... is who you are. As a person.

I didn't ask if you religious or spiritual, as yes or no. I asked as in either or.

If all that matters is who you are, then you agree with me. All we are is the external.
 

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I didn't ask if you religious or spiritual, as yes or no. I asked as in either or.

If all that matters is who you are, then you agree with me. All we are is the external.
Who you are comes from the inside. Your external bullshit doesn’t tell me who you are.
 

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Your post... “objectively below you”. If you’re viewing someone as below you, then objectively, you’re a prick lol.
I agree. It should be subjectively below you.

Thats a hard thing to think about because for me, is not so much the person was "beneath me" but more like they were not my type.

When I was actively dating, yes, I did this a lot and ended having unsatisfactory sex.

Back then I was super toned, tan, skinny and exremely cocky. I had sex with pretty much any guy I liked but if I had a bad night, and I was horny, I would go out with whoever lol

Some of those guys turned out to be great in bed and one had a nice cock. The one with the nice cock turned out to also be an ass. One who was good in bed had a complex emotional history. In either case, with little physical attraction, it would not have worked out for me.

I am still friends with a few of these guys. There is only one that I would have sex with again. Idk why but eventhough he is not my type (He is fat and kind of femme) he had something I liked. I think it was his willingness to do anything.

Yeah thats it guys. This sounds terrible but it turned me on knowing I was probably the best lay they ever had. They made you know it. They were all over you . It is an ego boost and it can turn you on sexually if you are with the right person....
 

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I agree. It should be subjectively below you.

Thats a hard thing to think about because for me, is not so much the person was "beneath me" but more like they were not my type.

When I was actively dating, yes, I did this a lot and ended having unsatisfactory sex.

Back then I was super toned, tan, skinny and exremely cocky. I had sex with pretty much any guy I liked but if I had a bad night, and I was horny, I would go out with whoever lol

Some of those guys turned out to be great in bed and one had a nice cock. The one with the nice cock turned out to also be an ass. One who was good in bed had a complex emotional history. In either case, with little physical attraction, it would not have worked out for me.

I am still friends with a few of these guys. There is only one that I would have sex with again. Idk why but eventhough he is not my type (He is fat and kind of femme) he had something I liked. I think it was his willingness to do anything.

Yeah thats it guys. This sounds terrible but it turned me on knowing I was probably the best lay they ever had. They made you know it. They were all over you . It is an ego boost and it can turn you on sexually if you are with the right person....
Omg your willy and bush is.... breathtaking. Give me a second to process real words again.
 

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Depends if we're talking dating or sex. ideally i wanna have some semblance of friendship with the person, i outgrew one night stands long ago

Sexually a woman either turns me on or not. I can find something that arouses me on her if shes got wit and charisma. Her ass, her toes, her tits eyes whatever.
 

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So in 97 messages and 5 pages only 4 dealt with the original topic posted by the OP. We all know exactly what he was talking about. So it’s either yes or no and or give the story. But in post #5 the PC morality police showed up, reared it’s ugly head and detailed the entire thread because they didn’t either like it or the poster. Giving us 92 posts of people going “oh my god how can you think that way, no one is better or worse or above or beneath anyone else”. You are all pretentious bullshitters and you know it. It’s called “out of your league” we have all seen it or done it. Our friends have called us on it.

yes I have been lucky enough to date and fuck “out of my league” because they were from the “league” above mine. And I have dated and fucked from the “leagues” below mine.

grow up, we all have standards and we have all gone outside of them at some point to get some.
 

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Drunk at a party and ended up laying down in one of the beds. Girl I wouldn’t have looked twice at came in and wanted to have some fun. Kind of said fuck it and let her do her thing. Felt like shit the day after physically and mentally.
 

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For me, I think the only time(s) I’ve had no standards has been when I’ve either felt crappy about myself and slept with much older men (I’m talking 60+ when I was 18) or generally gross guys who gave off creep energy or treated me like shit. I don’t think, as far as I recall, that I’ve ever slept with anyone who isn’t in the same league as me because most of my sex life has been built around meaningless hook ups anyway.