when/how should i ask girl about smoking.

[B_New End]

I don't get people that think the taste of a smoker's kiss is nasty. As long as they stay properly hydrated, its really not that bad at all. The dry mouth from smoking can make things nasty, but same with if someone has consumed too much sugar.

I think it is more social stigma and self righteousness than actual distaste. I'll kiss a smoking girl any day, and let her suck my cock and eat her pussy too.

 

[ManlyBanisters]

who the hell are you! deal with it people smoke god damn there are people in here who drink cum and get fucked up the ass THATS nasty! IM

Last time I checked there were more concrete health risks associated with smoking than with drinking cum and getting fucked in the ass. When was the last time you heard a government awareness campaign saying "Getting fucked in the ass: the number one cause of heart disease in [insert your country's name here]"?

Also - if I am getting fucked in the ass and / or drinking cum within a 10 foot radius of you your health with suffer not one jot. Can you say the same for standing within 10' of me and smoking?

and if your not a smoker dont put your lil 2 cents in coz you know shit

So people who don't smoke should have no opinions on issues to do with smoking? Smoking somehow gives you an insight into how non-smokers feel about intimacy with people who smoke? Go have a cigarette, kid, you're nicotine cravings are clearly kicking in and making you grumpy.

I don't get people that think the taste of a smoker's kiss is nasty. As long as they stay properly hydrated, its really not that bad at all. The dry mouth from smoking can make things nasty, but same with if someone has consumed too much sugar.

I think it is more social stigma and self righteousness than actual distaste. I'll kiss a smoking girl any day, and let her suck my cock and eat her pussy too.

Maybe for some - but not all. For me there is a definite physical difference. Drymouth isn't the issue. It's the taste of his skin, his mouth, his cum, the smell of his hair and clothes - hydrating can't help with most (any?) of that. I would never ask someone to stop smoking in order to date me - I just wouldn't date a smoker again. And not just because of those issues I mentioned, but also because the strain that was put on my last relationship whenever he tried to quit was damn near unbearable. Not everyone is hell on a stick when they quit (or attempt to) but he was - enough for me to say never again.

 

[quintessence]

It depends on the level of the relationship if, like you say, it just stays casual then it would be a stretch to ask her to give up smoking, in my opinion.

However if you were to take the relationship further and more seriously, then by all means get her to quit smoking not only for your benefit but most importantly her's.

Q.

 

[StraightCock4Her]

Shit, you don't have to kiss her to fuck her or marry her. Lawlerblades, this comment is brought to you by McCain for president of Yugoslavia.

 

[vindicari]

If you don,t like smokers move on, you seem to wish to impose your values on her. She could clean her teeth prior to any physical contact but again that would be to suit you. She may find your farts disgusting. or you may have an annoying habit that may not be to her liking. relationships are all about compromise.

 

[vindicari]

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Tobacco money also generates a sizeable chunk of the cash that makes up the federal budget.
The US Treasury is estimated to have pocketed $118.6bn in tobacco taxes in the past 10 years. The US government makes seven times more money from the sale of a pack of cigarettes than a cigarette maker does, R.J. Reynolds, the second biggest US tobacco company, is quick to point out.

 

[nay-nay]

i once liked this guy A LOT. and i'm pretty sure he liked me, but he smoked AND he chewed tobacco. it was enough to turn me completely off. i won't be with someone that smokes anything or chews tobacco. NO THANKS. :biggrin1:

i told him he should quit cuz i would never kiss his nasty mouth, and he spanked me (jokingly) and said no. hahaha. so i was like "well you go ahead and get cancer then" and gave him the thumbs up (in a very sarcastic tone). i moved on and we remained friends.

if it grosses you out that much, then tell her. ask her if she ever plans on quitting or suggest it. if she says no, then that's up to you if you want to "deal" with it. i think it's good to be open about stuff. :smile:

 

[Jovial]

just a fyi, in N.J smoking was banned in all bars and resturants. and it really pissed me off because i believe people should beable to do what they want, if you dont like smoke then stay the fuck home. i think i was even more pissed them my friends who smoke lol. i never gave a smoker a hard time or left because a bar was too smokey.

The problem is all the waiters, waitresses and bartenders have to work in those conditions. If a factory was filled with smoke, they'd be shut down for unsafe working conditions. There have been studies showing higher risks for lung cancer among casino workers where there is smoking. So the smoking ban prevents lawsuits and protects the bars and restaurants.

 

[DaveyR]

If the OP had said she was obese and it turned him off you'd all be running round in circles screaming prejudice. One is addicted to food the other is addicted to nicotine.No difference.

Get real folks we all do things that others don't like. Learn to get past the flaws and know the persn not their faults.

 

[IntoxicatingToxin]

Telling her you don't like it is one thing, asking her to quit is another. Tell her you don't like it. Don't ask her to quit.

 

[BobLeeSwagger]

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Tobacco money also generates a sizeable chunk of the cash that makes up the federal budget.
The US Treasury is estimated to have pocketed $118.6bn in tobacco taxes in the past 10 years. The US government makes seven times more money from the sale of a pack of cigarettes than a cigarette maker does, R.J. Reynolds, the second biggest US tobacco company, is quick to point out.

I wouldn't call it a "sizeable chunk". In the last 10 years, the US government has spent many trillions of dollars.

 

[StraightCock4Her]

Fuck that, demand she quits, pimp slap the fuck out of her if she doesn't.


Prove you're a real boy, Pinnocio.

 

[javyn]

Great post.

If the OP had said she was obese and it turned him off you'd all be running round in circles screaming prejudice. One is addicted to food the other is addicted to nicotine.No difference.

Get real folks we all do things that others don't like. Learn to get past the flaws and know the persn not their faults.

 

[Bongo7]

I always will tell a woman up front that I will not date them if they smoke. In the past, they usually quit.

 

[WhiteZombie]

No, really man. Convince her to switch to herb. It's a win-win situation. If you're still scratching your balls on the situation maybe you should just put some panties on. Make a decision and say fuck all of our opinions. It's up to you, right? If you don't want a smoker don't date one. If it doesn't matter then go ahead. I mean - fuck - it's not like you're asking "should I marry this chick?" Hit the bong and stop whining about facts that don't matter. All of you.