When is a compliment unwanted or for that matter taken wrong? Recently I commented on a members post of NEW photos. I loved them and believe me in no way did I compliment them knowing it would somehow cause a long tirade ending with anger. Maybe its just me but when I grew up we were told to compliment someone when they did good or in this case did good. Since the reality is with few exceptions we will ever meet a member in person these compliments are often private or worst on your profile page for all to see but where is the harm? After talking about this with a woman I date over the weekend who happens to be a therapist. She alluded to the idea that it was the poster who obviously resisted the compliment for their own personal hang-ups maybe low self esteem or abusive relationships in the past. It was her feelings after showing my post that I didnt do anything wrong with the exception of becoming defensive in the end with an anonymous poster who I will never meet. So let me ask you; has our society gotten to the place where a compliment can be misconstrued as negative even in an anonymous world such as this site? Obviously I know better than to ever make the same mistake with this poster but I still like to share what I think with a poster both male and female, I mean that is why I posted my photos, or why I play with myself in the chatroom, I love the audience and it feeds my own ego and lets face it, it is much cheaper than therapy and no one really gets hurt do they. No unwanted STDs, no pregnancies or fucked up drama or head games (well I know there are head games but you know what I mean).