When is big…..TOO big?

[boc]

For straight women probs over 7.5x5.5 depending how much over that. Depends on the women how use to it some love big.

That has been my experience, I am 8 x 6.

 

[Hero50]

That has been my experience, I am 8 x 6.

Yes 8x6 real inches is insanely huge to any women.

 

[boc]

Yes 8x6 real inches is insanely huge to any women.

Women definitely have to adjust to it. Lots of foreplay with cunnlingus being most helpful. Which I enjoy. Some have only been able to take the tip in until they adjust, even when they are wet. A few have been able to handle it all with little problem. I have yet to be deep throated yet. But from looking at porn I would say I am huge. Even though many women have said I am.

 

[like2Feelabig1]

Women definitely have to adjust to it. Lots of foreplay with cunnlingus being most helpful. Which I enjoy. Some have only been able to take the tip in until they adjust, even when they are wet. A few have been able to handle it all with little problem. I have yet to be deep throated yet. But from looking at porn I would say I am huge. Even though many women have said I am.

I promise I'm not trying to stir up trouble but I'm surprised by what you claim, looking at your pics you don't seem particularly huge, not small by any means but I've had guys your size and probably bigger and had no trouble 'accommodating' them. Its all about lubrication, get me excited enough and I'll take it, I'm sure this is the case with all but the tiniest of women.
The best pic to illustrate what I say is your measured one, unless you have truly enormous hands it doesn't look crazy big, and I'd also question your measuring methods, sorry.

 

[wyldcdn]

Says the straight white man…..
Honestly expected more from a Canadian.

Look at this...a blocked button

 

[boc]

I promise I'm not trying to stir up trouble but I'm surprised by what you claim, looking at your pics you don't seem particularly huge, not small by any means but I've had guys your size and probably bigger and had no trouble 'accommodating' them. Its all about lubrication, get me excited enough and I'll take it, I'm sure this is the case with all but the tiniest of women.
The best pic to illustrate what I say is your measured one, unless you have truly enormous hands it doesn't look crazy big, and I'd also question your measuring methods, sorry.

I have large hands, 4.5 inches across not including the thumb. And long piano fingers, my middle finger is 4 inches. And I really don't think I am huge. My ex use to have an 8 inch dildo, and I am the exact same size. I am certainly not porn huge.

 

[like2Feelabig1]

I have large hands, 4.5 inches across not including the thumb. And long piano fingers, my middle finger is 4 inches. And I really don't think I am huge. My ex use to have an 8 inch dildo, and I am the exact same size. I am certainly not porn huge.

So I guess you missed a 'not' from your paragraph in the earlier post where you said "but from looking at porn I would say I am huge"?

 

[like2Feelabig1]

I have large hands, 4.5 inches across not including the thumb. And long piano fingers, my middle finger is 4 inches. And I really don't think I am huge. My ex use to have an 8 inch dildo, and I am the exact same size. I am certainly not porn huge.

And a genuine 8 inches would absolutely be huge, trust me....

 

[boc]

So I guess you missed a 'not' from your paragraph in the earlier post where you said "but from looking at porn I would say I am huge"?

Yep.

 

[boc]

And a genuine 8 inches would absolutely be huge, trust me....

I did not think the 8 inch didlo was huge, can't agree with you there. Maybe the difference between a soft polymer and real flesh and blood changes your persepctive.

 

[explosionerection]

I promise I'm not trying to stir up trouble but I'm surprised by what you claim, looking at your pics you don't seem particularly huge, not small by any means but I've had guys your size and probably bigger and had no trouble 'accommodating' them. Its all about lubrication, get me excited enough and I'll take it, I'm sure this is the case with all but the tiniest of women.
The best pic to illustrate what I say is your measured one, unless you have truly enormous hands it doesn't look crazy big, and I'd also question your measuring methods, sorry.

Agreed. He doesn't look that big. My dick is 7 inches properly measured (on top of the penis from 0 to 18 cm). He measures from underneath on the side which gives you maybe 2 more inches. I´m guessing he's 6 inches, which is a fair size, but not big.

Unless he gets a good picture of his dick measuring from the top to the tip I´m guessing he's just insecure about his size.

 

[explosionerection]

I have large hands, 4.5 inches across not including the thumb. And long piano fingers, my middle finger is 4 inches. And I really don't think I am huge. My ex use to have an 8 inch dildo, and I am the exact same size. I am certainly not porn huge.

You measure it wrong man. From your pic it's measure from underneath and on the side. This gives you maybe 2 more inches. You gotta measure on the top of the penis and to the tip. Provide us a real measurement pic and we believe you

 

[boc]

You measure it wrong man. From your pic it's measure from underneath and on the side. This gives you maybe 2 more inches. You gotta measure on the top of the penis and to the tip. Provide us a real measurement pic and we believe you

Ok, thanks for your input.

 

[boc]

You measure it wrong man. From your pic it's measure from underneath and on the side. This gives you maybe 2 more inches. You gotta measure on the top of the penis and to the tip. Provide us a real measurement pic and we believe y

I took the liberty to look at your photos. My measurement is exactly how you compared the Gillette shaving cream comtainer to your cock. But you can believe whatever the fuck you want. I do not care.

 

[DiomedesXVI]

For me it’s about the thickness. I haven’t encountered a long cock I couldn’t fully swallow that was normal girth.
With M/F sex I’ll defer to you and your comment.
Have you ever been with a woman who can take your entire length?

I argue it can definitely be both haha. But, I usually find that unless you’re extremely long like pushing well into 9” length, then length usually isn’t cause of being told “it’s too big”. I’m willing to bet that for guys like myself who have both substantial length and girth, 9 times out of 10, the objection of “it’s too big” arises from the girth being too thick, not the length being too long.

Both the length and girth of my member have proven problems for partners in the past. But, the issues with length aren’t as egregious because the solution is usually just “you don’t have to fit every inch of me inside you”. The intimacy still mostly works out, even if you can’t fit the last inch or two of my dick, because the rest of the inches that do fit still feel pretty great to us both, so it can still be a win.

The girth being too much though, well that can and has stopped intimacy entirely in its tracks before. Let’s be honest, with how girthy my member is, there is going to be at least some level of soreness because of how wide your orifice has to stretch open for my penis to fit inside it. That said though, if the stretch of my dick being stuffed inside you is downright painful or takes too much effort to even enter you, then it kills the mood for us both. I’m not keen on hurting my partners, the big turn-on for me during sex is that you feel good. So if you aren’t feeling good then I’m not feeling good either and it’s an all around lose-lose situation

Mainly, an overbearing length can hurt with its pokes, but you can mitigate it by not poking too forcefully or with the entire length. But there’s little to be done in the immediate moment to mitigate an overbearing girth. For me personally, I know I’ve got a lot of dick, I know its dimensions are borderline impractical - seriously who needs a penis to be this long AND this thick!? But yeah, based on my experiences and knowing the experiences of many other similarly endowed guys, I agree that in the vast majority of instances, “too big” is an indictment of an overbearing girth rather than an overbearing length.

 

[DiomedesXVI]

I did not think the 8 inch didlo was huge, can't agree with you there. Maybe the difference between a soft polymer and real flesh and blood changes your persepctive.

I know what you mean. Proportion is really everything. I used to think my dick was just sort of above average in size. Because when it’s your own dick and you see and handle it everyday, you don’t usually contemplate its size from an outside perspective or consider its size relative to anything else but your own proportions.

For example, I’ve got some big ol hands. To me, the weight, length, girth, and overall size of my member is in proportion to my own hands. It fits in my hands just fine, I can wrap my hand around my erect member and my fingers touch, and I can hold a good portion of my erect length in just one hand. Even though, yes if I’m honest and technical about it, I require both hands if I want to hold its entire length, and even then my dick still has length jutting out over the top of both of my hands.

Anyway, while I felt confident enough that my dick was bordering near large as I was keenly aware that my dick could not comfortably fit into a standard-sized condom so I had to buy what condom brands labelled as L and XL, I never considered my dick to be particularly absurd in size until I became much more sexually active After that, it seemed like every time I played around with someone, they’d tell me how impressively big my cock is. Yet, I’d seen enough porn to know that “omg it’s so big” was a throw-away line told to guys to make them feel more sexually confident and get in the mood easier. So, I always took compliments about my size with a grain of salt

Until…

One of my partners was just playing around with my dick, just semi-erect, in a sort of bored casual handjob where the focus was to have something in your hands to mess around with rather than to work it to an orgasm. During that moment, my partner just casually said to me “god your dick is so heavy”. Which, that’s not really something I’d been told too often, I’d heard it before but it had never been said to me as a direct topic about my dick haha - usually the focus of any compliments were how long and thick it is - i.e. what I always filed away as compliments of sexual formality and not genuine praise.

And it just sorta clicked after that moment. I started thinking, telling someone “god your dick is so heavy” seems like too weird of a compliment to mean without some genuine sincerity. Cue me diving into dick size stats and info, then eventually realizing oh shit, compared to the average guy, my dick is legitimately large, extra-large even

But to think, if my member was only ever considered in proportion to my own body, some people out there (like my former self) might not think it appears as large as it really is. After all, whenever I’ve shared pics or vids of my dick to someone who later actually gets to play with it in person, the most frequent thing I hear is “jeez, your dick is so much bigger in person, pics/vids really don’t do your size justice“

 

[Magnum10x2]

Numbers mean very little; all vaginas are different.

Some can take a long cock and thoroughly enjoy it, and some can take a thick cock and enjoy it.
Some are shallow and some are so tight you can barely get 2 fingers in there.

The key is sexual compatibility.

 

[explosionerection]

I took the liberty to look at your photos. My measurement is exactly how you compared the Gillette shaving cream comtainer to your cock. But you can believe whatever the fuck you want. I do not care.

The measurement of my cock is measured from on top of my dick with a ruler, yours is not. So it's medically not measured the right way. Simple fact. You wouldn't see the comparison of my dick and the Gillette shaving cream if I placed it on top of the penis so obv needed to show it from the side. But the true number of my dick is very visible and correctly measured with a measurement tape.

And why get offended when you measure it wrong? I´ve never said anything negative about your dick. I´ve just said it's smaller than what you say it is cos you measure it wrong and if that hurts your ego, then so be it.

 

[Into_BigDicks]

Hey everyone.

Geeez, what a thread...
I'm big dick worshipper too and love so much to worship big dick like 8" and above, especially if these dick are soft and hard pretty huge.
But it's not in my focus to "deepthroat as much as I can" or sucking a dick up & down like a maschine till his owner cum.
I simply love to play with a big or monster dick like lick it, kiss it, touch it, give it a massage and that's with a big passion and for ages.
I also do love to laying down between guys legs with my head resting on his lap and have his big dick all over or next to my face and simply play with it like Idescribed here above.

 

[boc]

I argue it can definitely be both haha. But, I usually find that unless you’re extremely long like pushing well into 9” length, then length usually isn’t cause of being told “it’s too big”. I’m willing to bet that for guys like myself who have both substantial length and girth, 9 times out of 10, the objection of “it’s too big” arises from the girth being too thick, not the length being too long.

Both the length and girth of my member have proven problems for partners in the past. But, the issues with length aren’t as egregious because the solution is usually just “you don’t have to fit every inch of me inside you”. The intimacy still mostly works out, even if you can’t fit the last inch or two of my dick, because the rest of the inches that do fit still feel pretty great to us both, so it can still be a win.

The girth being too much though, well that can and has stopped intimacy entirely in its tracks before. Let’s be honest, with how girthy my member is, there is going to be at least some level of soreness because of how wide your orifice has to stretch open for my penis to fit inside it. That said though, if the stretch of my dick being stuffed inside you is downright painful or takes too much effort to even enter you, then it kills the mood for us both. I’m not keen on hurting my partners, the big turn-on for me during sex is that you feel good. So if you aren’t feeling good then I’m not feeling good either and it’s an all around lose-lose situation

Mainly, an overbearing length can hurt with its pokes, but you can mitigate it by not poking too forcefully or with the entire length. But there’s little to be done in the immediate moment to mitigate an overbearing girth. For me personally, I know I’ve got a lot of dick, I know its dimensions are borderline impractical - seriously who needs a penis to be this long AND this thick!? But yeah, based on my experiences and knowing the experiences of many other similarly endowed guys, I agree that in the vast majority of instances, “too big” is an indictment of an overbearing girth rather than an overbearing length.

Thanks.