When is it ok...?

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When is it ok to expose your self just a little for others to see?

I get thrills thinking about someone catching a glimpse of my cock, no matter where it may be, and I would love for that to happen. But I just don't know how to go about it.

I hear all these stories about showing off at urinals or seeing up shorts when free balling, but I can never bring myself to do that stuff even though I want that (although I know that situation is rare to begin with).

Like for instance, when I'm out at a place that doesn't have walls between the urinals and no one is in the bathroom, I stand away from the wall just a bit so I'm a little exposed, and someone coming in may see a glimpse. But when the door opens I quickly lose that thought and huddle up to the urinal nice and tight, because I'm afraid of what might happen.

So is there really a "right" time to do something like this? Or should I just not bother trying at all?
 

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When is it ok to expose your self just a little for others to see?

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So is there really a "right" time to do something like this? Or should I just not bother trying at all?

Try the show off forum.

I don't think there's an appropriate setting for showing complete strangers your junk when you're out and about.
 

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Try the show off forum.

I don't think there's an appropriate setting for showing complete strangers your junk when you're out and about.

I agree, it's a fun thought and I would love to pop a titty out at random once in awhile just for funzies but it's just not cool, you never know how the person seeing will take it.

I love the show off forum though, plenty of people would love to check out what you wanna show off :biggrin1:
 

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i recommend doing what i do... i go to a bar or bar/restaurant. i drink a a few beers I get a little brave... when i have to break the seal i pick the first urinal next to someone that catches my attention and i unzip and start pissing from about 6-8 inches away. that is far enough to see show my cock easily, and i just wander my eyes around the bathroom... also, i try not to stare at anyone in the eyes so they wont think i caught them staring at my dick or that im coming on to them. so after i do that then i try and get a good view of their cock. its a strategy but i like to think i mastered it well.
 

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I agree, it's a fun thought and I would love to pop a titty out at random once in awhile just for funzies but it's just not cool, you never know how the person seeing will take it.

I love the show off forum though, plenty of people would love to check out what you wanna show off :biggrin1:

haha and i would love to be there the moment you pop that baby out :)
 

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I agree, it's a fun thought and I would love to pop a titty out at random once in awhile just for funzies but it's just not cool, you never know how the person seeing will take it.

I love the show off forum though, plenty of people would love to check out what you wanna show off :biggrin1:

Women can get away with showing off without showing off... certain outfits that can be revealing, but only if the viewer goes the effort of changing their point of view to catch a glimpse. You can make them the perv rather than yourself ;)

If kilts were in fashion here, I'd say guys have some options, but I can't think of any clothing options that offer views like that only to people who are actively trying to get a look.
 
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Woman and children are inappropriate. Guys are no big deal. Straight guys dont care and gay guys might not mind.
 

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I've been in public washrooms before where guys have been like ten feet away and have unzipped and whipped it out while walking to a urinal. Don't feel bad about showing it off ... it's not like you are forcing guys to look, they choose to!
 
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I think it's about what you do / how you do it, not so much when.

This is true. Standing back and taking a few extra taps is different from leering and stroking while licking your lips.
 

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When is it ok to expose your self just a little for others to see? I get thrills thinking about someone catching a glimpse of my cock, no matter where it may be, and I would love for that to happen.
Much can be done with your choice of clothing. Now that summer is here, we all wear less clothes. Many guys show dick in their pants / shorts without even trying, especially lightweight gym shorts. Lighter colors show more than darker colors; white being the best. You mentioned that you were hesitant to freeball. Have you tried wearing boxers instead of your usual underwear? Wearing boxers feels just like freeballing, and shows just enough dick outline to serve your purpose.

Give some thought to your swimwear. If a Speedo type brief is too outrageous, get a squarecut or jammer. I saw a young athletic dude on the beach last weekend who was wearing mid-thigh length white compression shorts. Loved it! He looked amazing I've seen some stylish compression shorts in colors. Perfect for the beach instead of boardshorts.

I hear all these stories about showing off at urinals.

The best times showing off at urinals are when the scenarios seem like they just happened with no ulterior motive or pervy intention on the part of the user. We can stand back a given amount and chalk it up to avoiding backsplash; too far back and it looks intentional. Depends what you're comfortable with.

Over time, I've come to learn of many men's rooms where the guy at the urinal is visible to those outside of the men's room. It could just be when the door swings open that people outside catch a quick glimpse. There are some stores, bars, etc. that wedge the men's room door open. One is a nearby home improvement store. I always have a bursting bladder every time I shop there and like to use their men's room. The urinals are on the right wall with no dividers. Anyone in the aisle passing by can catch a profile view of the guys at the urinals.
 

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I've been in public washrooms before where guys have been like ten feet away and have unzipped and whipped it out while walking to a urinal. Don't feel bad about showing it off ... it's not like you are forcing guys to look, they choose to!

On the flip side, don't assume that if a guy is standing back it's because they want to show off. I stand back some to keep piss from splashing off the porcelain and getting on my pants. I still try to be discreet, I don't put my hands on the back of my head and sway my hips or anything.
 

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In general public (shopping centers, etc): It is generally ok, as long as you're not obviously showing off, and you don't spend more time at the urinal than you have to. Also, avoid doing it when minors are around.

However, gay bars/clubs, and the patrons there are going to be fine. Some bars/clubs even have setups that facilitate or even encourage showing off or checking out other guys. But still, obviously showing off might not be viewed as classy, but it wouldn't provoke a negative response.
 

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Speedos at the beach...

I can't come up with any other reason to expose yourself in public...