So I have been on quite a journey over the last year or two, finding me and making some decisions regarding my future. Last weekend I came to the final, all knowing decision that it is time to end my marriage. I have no doubts at all. It's over. But now it's blooming Christmas! I didn't tell him this weekend cos he had awful flu. Do I tell him before Christmas (though I only have 11 hours left for that and am working soon so probably not) Do I wait til next weekend? What about BEFORE New Years eve or AFTER New Years eve?!!? Basically, I've decided at a really crappy time and although I want to get it over with and tell him soonest, I am now over-thinking it and don't want to ruin his holidays! :redface: HELP!