When is there too much girth?

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  1. manstien

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    Hey all. Whats up?

    This is for ladies and guys. I never had anal sex before. Women have told me since my penis has girth, I am better for vaginal sex, than anal. I am about 5.75 girth which is above average, but I know there is much bigger.

    What do you people think is the cut-off when it comes to girth with anal, or even vaginal?

    Thanks!!!!!!!!!
     
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    couldn't give to you in inches (I sometimes forget to pack my tape measure when I go out) but, yes, girth can be excessive :(
     
  3. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    i think with some effort you can take that girth. My husband is 7 girth and with all the effort in the world we cant get more than the head in.
     
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    I Recently Found Out I'm Part Of The 7+ Girthy Club...Never Tried Anal In My Adult Years...

    never found a vagina that was too tight to look to alternative orefices..
     
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    Hey bud, I think you brought up a good question, which I've thought about from time to time. I too am above average in girth, not much more than you (I'm between 5.8 and 5.9 depending on arousal and etc...), but I definetely have been told by the ladies I've encountered that I'm very thick. What I have found is that, unless a woman is having intercourse with a thick guy or dildo frequently when you first encounter them, it can be difficult to penetrate her, even vaginally. Obviously, exceptional and plenty of foreplay is called for and gladly given :wink:, but it's still necessary for most girls that you'll encounter to be gentle and easy initially. In fact, the person I've been dating casually for a few months now is just now getting used to me and really enjoying that sense of "being filled up completely," but I still enter her slowly at the beginning, cause it can hurt her and irritate. Personally, I don't hink I could do anal with a normal girl, some pornstars and "veterans" out there who have done anal with large guys, I'm sure, but even if I had the opportunity, I don't think I'd like it, the vagina feels heavenly to me:smile:
     
  6. Principessa

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    It varies by woman or man. There is no way to tell just by looking at them when clothed who can take the most girth.
     
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    No such thing as too much girth for vaginal. NJQT is going to be proud of me for saying that. :D
     
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    As am I.
     
  9. IntoxicatingToxin

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    I've only had anal sex with a few guys, simply because of their girth... I can't handle a whole lot "back there"... now, when it comes to vaginal, I could handle quite a bit! :biggrin:
     
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    When I say to much girth, its because when I was in college I dated this girl who loved to fuck all time, but only vaginal with me. After we broke up, the next guy she would fuck all the time anal. A girl told me that was because he had a small dick.

    Ladies? Will you be more open to anal when a guy has a small penis?


    Did she not offer me anal because I had to much girth, or maybe something else?

    Thanks
     
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    well, i'm a tad below yourself on that scale at a "mere" 5.5 inches around...and pretty much every girl i've ever dated and/or slept with has informed in no uncertain terms upon seeing my fully erect penis that there is no way they would allow me to put it in their ass. they all seemed rather eager, if occasionally hesitant at first, to take it on in the more "traditional" manner though.

    personally, i've never minded as i've never had a particular desire to do anal. it's just never much appealed to me. so it all works out in the end. if a girlfriend ever ASKS me to and really wants me to...well, then i'll consider it.
     
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    There is never too much girth - just stay in the right hole... ;-)
     
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    Hate to bicker but my wife would argue that point.

    She can more easily accommodate my 7" x 6.25" girth anally than vaginally.
     
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    I`ve always had to be gentle when it comes to vaginal sex, in a way it has made me more understanding of a womans desires, also it`s helped me become great at licking p***y, let me explain.
    I have learned to think like a woman when it comes to sex, understanding their wants and needs is definatly the key, you can`t just stick it in `em that`s for sure.
    I`ve learned to be loving, kind, and gentle, which is exactly what they want, you can`t just start fucking the shit out of them until they ask for it.
    Now i did meet this one woman who showed me her dildo that was like a wine bottle, i ran outa that house quick.
    As far as anal goes, one woman that i`ve been with begged me for it, said i was perfect for it when it came to her, while the rest have said, if you get that thing anywhere near it we`re gonna fight.

    lafever:cool:
     
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    I don't think there's any "cut-off" for girth -- I think it more depends on the woman, the relationship, and to some extent, the situation.

    My Master is a bit girther than you are, manstein, and gets even thicker at the base (the base of his cock is as thick as my wrist).

    I won't lie to you -- women are right to be a bit afraid of taking you anally. The seemingly small difference between, say, a 5.25" girth and a 5.75" girth, with the same length of penis (let's say, seven inches) may seem relatively minor, but when you calculate the volume difference of those two cocks, the girthier one has 20% more volume even though it is only 10% thicker in circumference. This amounts to fitting about 4 more cubic inches of cock in the same ass.

    That said, with plenty of lube, patience, and the right degree of willingness, I'm sure most women could take you.

    The following isn't a very sexy thought, but most of us have probably had bowel movements in which the fecal matter was more than 5.75" around, and survived relatively unscathed.

    If you do convince her to try anal sex with you, proceed as follows:

    1) Generously lube your fingers, and apply lube to her asshole. Work lube inside her asshole with one finger, then two, then three, reassuring her, reminding her to relax, and preferably in a position that allows her to stimulate her clit with her hands or a vibrator -- the clitoral stimulation makes the ass penetration much easier to take.

    2) Generously lube your cock even if you are wearing a lubricated condom. The lube on the condom straight out of the package is not enough lube for anal sex.

    3) Enter her gently and slowly, but do your best to be sure of your direction. Lots of lube makes anal sex with a thick cock possible, but it can also make entry difficult, because your cockhead will want to slide away from her tight asshole. Keep encouraging her to relax and stimulate her clit. After you enter her, let her tell you when you can advance further, and when you can begin to move.

    4) Talk about it beforehand, and if she is inexperienced at anal sex, let her know that it does not stay as painful as the initial penetration the whole time. So, if it hurts at first, or even for the first few minutes, you need to hang in there and give it a real chance before just saying "no way." Once the anal sphincter relaxes, it is not nearly as painful, and to many women, is pleasurable.

    As to vaginal penetration, many of the same principles apply. Lubrication is important if you are very thick. If the woman does not get really really wet on her own, use lube for some extra help. Do what works for you both to get psychologically turned on before trying to have intercourse. Most women need some form of foreplay to get wet. For me, a good whipping does nicely. But for most women, foreplay involves kissing, touching, and sexy talk.

    Anyway, before entering her for the first time, work her vagina with your fingers (usually stimulating the G-spot, not fast finger-fucking) and stroke or lick her clit to arouse her and cause her vagina to "balloon" -- that is, relax and expand inside (this is normal when a woman is aroused). Only try to enter her after she is relaxed and aroused.

    Also be aware that if she is not used to a cock of your girth, she may not be able to take prolonged, aggressive fucking. There is just a lot more friction going on. Be consistently aware of how wet things are, and add more lube if she is not producing enough to keep up with the drying effects of friction.

    And here it looks like I've written a phone book again, but perhaps the OP and/or others will find it helpful.
     
  16. stevo111

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    my wife and I have been married for 9 yrs but together for 14yrs, and every time we have sex it still takes alot of lube and foreplay and she still has a difficult time getting me in at fist. She says that I rub against her bones down there and it makes her really sore. Im 8.75"x6.75-7". We have tried anal sex afew times and only the head got in and that was to much for her. So for her I am to much girth she has told me she wished I was smaller, but for some girls maybe Im just right that said I think it depends on the girl.
     
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    i wish i had too much girth.. mine is kinda long and skinny
     
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    Interesting post, what % volume would a 7x7 cock have?

    lafever:cool:
     
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    find out for yourself - can compare with pornstars and averages methinks
     
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    Don't forget the few of us who can accommodate serious girth orally as well. Usually guys with very thick cocks are not enjoying oral sex for obvious reasons, but it is a huge turn-on for me when I find a guy with a truly massive cock who, sometimes for the first time in his life, gets a proper blow job and experiences what deepthroating feels like. Heaven on earth :cool:
     
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