You know, this is the primary thing that drew me away from the church. I had (have) a pastor who is in my estimation truly an incredible man. He is outspoken yet humble, intelligent to a fault but not arrogant, sensitive but not wimpy, progressive in his thinking without being untrue to traditonal values. He is, to me, tha best the Christian world has to offer! He has been personally a great source of inspiration because of his near-obsession with serving others, it has made me want to follow his example. But even this brilliant, well-rounded man has never been able to answer "What happens to the members of other religions?". He shrinks at the question, I know he doesn't want to believe in condemning them! But the Bible leaves little room for doubt that it is the one and only way. This very often gives Christians a very self-righteous attitude and enables them to treat others in a contemptible manner that was never suggested in the bible. What about humility? If you are not there for others, what is your life really about? Why would anyone care so much about gay marriage when they are themselves in need of attention? Since "all sin and fall short of the glory of God", why is any one man's "sin" more important than our own? How can anyone call someone's lifestyle "sin" to begin with??????? If "Judgement is mine alone, sayeth the lord", then why do so many Christians feel the need for hate rhetoric, and to lesser degrees just being judgemental in the first place, when being judgemental is also a sin! These are the questions I can't answer, and I can't remain in the church with the glaring inconsistancies. I know there are several gay members here who are devout members of various churches, and I would be interested to hear what their experiences are there. How does your Pastor/Priest view the gay issue, is it considered "sin"?
I don't know. Gottabigone, you say that just because we don't know everything doesn't mean we know nothing, and I guess that's true. It's just that the more questions I ask, the less confident I feel in my own answers. I have said it before, even things we view as absolute facts are subject to change with new information, so I just don't know how important it is (to me) to claim to know much, only to have to backtrack as I learn more. I heard once that a good formula for increasing knowledge is to listen as least twice as much as you talk. Since I talk so damned much, you can believe I listen to everything! I hope to never stop learning, never stop questioning everything, including my own opinions. The lack of this perspective in Christianity -as I have experienced it- is what I find most unnerving.
Jonb, yes we do know a tree by the fruit it produces! "Holy wars" and hate crimes are contemptible nomatter the reasoning behind them, how anyone can call this "Christian" behavior is beyond me. On the other hand, I can't go around feeling guilty about Hitler just because I am half German. I don't subscribe to his beliefs or condone his behavior. I think this must be what Javier meant by saying he felt distant from that, and using the example of "Muslims" as something he doesn't consider himself as being.