when it's too big...

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  1. Stats

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    I'm relating to my own problem here.

    What can be done when a guy just won't fit?

    How have you overcome the problem?
     
  2. Gisella

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    :smile: Hi and welcome Stats

    What exactly meassuraments you are talking about when you say 'too big', wont fit?

    Won't fit always, once, first time is trying? Etc...

    :confused:
     
  3. Stats

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    Hey Gisella,

    thanks for the response.

    I'm slightly over 9.5" in length and 7.5" in thickness (mid-point) and 8" thick at the base.

    After trying for months, it seems that it just isn't meant to fit.

    We've tried absolutely everything...I think :confused:
     
  4. Gisella

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    Yep, you are an extra large guy...

    Cool that your girth greater thickness is at the base. But still a 7.5" is a fat fat one....how much is the less fat /thinner girth you have?

    My personal experience is with 9"x6" that seems a piece of cake to me now because I'm used to it. But to me that I'm already used with a starting point closer to yours is the girth challenger...graduating from a 6" to a 7.5" because I could sit on a 9" could picture me trying to sitting on a 9,5" if the girth was a 6"...hmmm

    After all this months..what you 2 acomplished? How much of it ?

    Because it takes work just to learn acomodate your girth, forget all your lenght and the thickest base now. And we dont know your partener acomodation limit too...women comes in different sizes too.

    I wish Kotchanski was here because she has experiences with greater girths...if I remember right took her almost a year to acomodate a 8" girth...but she work with dedication...

    We do have a posts about that here...have to search where is it...

    But for sure you are going to receive feedbacks...

    :smile:
     
  5. Mr. Snakey

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    It takes time. It took my girlfriend and i nearly six months to get it all in. Be patient,go slow. Now a year or so later she feels comfortable with all of me inside. I have also had relationships with womem that it all wouldnt fit no matter what.. But in most cases it just takes time. Dont dwell on this. Enjoy and love one another..................:cool:
     
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    I have never had the problem, but I have heard that as women age, they get looser in the vagina. I have also heard people here say that LOTS of foreplay and fingering, and maybe gradual loosening through various sized dildoes, helps.

    If it is possible, get her to have an orgasm or two through oral, fingering, and maybe some manipluation of the clitoris. Make sure you use alot of lube, you may get in over time.
     
  7. Gisella

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    Uncut honey..what's your girth (I forgot)? And do you have different meassuraments on it as Stats has?

    And very well reminded Jeff, about using lots lots of lub...I do not use artificial ones yet, not needed yet. Than I keep forgeting to mention it...
     
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    I posted this in the wong fourm so here it is;
    My wife just started to take my cock in her ass after 2 yrs of marrage just because was scared it would hurt so much as it did her pussy and it took her awhile just to get her pussy from not being sore for days after. I'm only 8.5 long and 7.5 girth. We did some hypno-therapy (sex therapist) and now she's relaxed alot more and we really get rough during sex. We actually watched my twin brother(not identical) fuck her best friend (they're boyfriend & girlfriend) in the ass so she could get herself a visual of what to expect. As of today and working her ass with increased sizes of dildos 6 months later we have now had anal sex 9 times and she loves it and something new has happened, everytime and only during anal sex she plays with her clit and when she cums she now squirts and not just a dribble were talking close to a 1/2 cup of this almost pre-cum type of liquid. oh yeah i use tons of lube.

    one more thing we tried anal with condoms once and didn't like the feel i haven't used them since any health concerns we should be worried about?
    we are married and don't swing or anything.
    as i'm typing this my wife suggested we get one of those mold your own penis kits and she fuck me in ass with a mold of my cock so i understand her situation. OW!
     
  9. Vestigial

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    What can be done? Well,.. she was scared senseless of it, sometimes letting out a little scream when it'd erect. Later down when we temporarily parted, she trained to fit two fists into her, but she never even managed one. Families tore us apart, usual romeo and juliet stuff,... except she was the crime boss, I her partner, and around other people we both hated and bickered with each other constantly :D


    Anyways, I couldn't penetrate her in a fit, so I just found did whatever little miss genius wanted me to, pretty much a slave (though she constantly begged my company, often dreaming of me) and worked on it further. From extremely prim and proper she became totally perverted around me, very slowly tugging away at my pure nature. Contiuned to work on what she wanted, pretty much just being the medium between her and her dreams. She soon mentioned the feeling she got from extended rubbing... rhythm, nerves,.. hitting the right spectrum of notes... and thats when I started approaching it very musically, with my spirit eventually driving her to what I call hyperorgasmia for lack of a better word. Later that day she saw a heart specialist.

    So there you go, crappy families suck and corn flakes packets should not offer them the licence. Next time something similar happens though, i'll be ready to start riots and take down armoured vehicles. :D

    ...

    What happened after my younger days?

    The joy at 5+ years of all-boys school and the mighty wonders of shrivelling size and practically losing all my libido.... oh yeah, finally masturbating something she had never dared touch... and finding out 1 minute and 20 hours recovery is an extremely sad pathetic substitute for the powers I could once feel working within her. Even now, through mindblowing orgasm after the next, over hours and days, and almost achieving the hyper state myself (just beating away down there, I still haven't tried the nerve orchestra method on my own body),...

    Regardless, I still very dearly miss those times, those brief times in my life that were inspiring... :)
     
  10. Stats

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    Its pretty much 7.5" up until half way from where it gradually gets thicker.

    Guess it will just take time

    Thanks for the posts :smile:
     
  11. Gisella

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    Yep, for sure it will take time, patience and dedication.

    Search around the board than you can have lots of great ideias and fun too..

    :smile:
     
  12. Mr. Snakey

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    Im about 1/2 inch longer and 1/2 inch less in girth.......:cool:
     
  13. vindicari

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    A womens vagina is designed to expand, if a baby can pass through then any cock can fit. There is however a medical condition called vaginismus which is a mental condition. It is an involuntary contraction in the muscles of the vagina which prevents penetration. Happened to a female friend of mine, in the course of time she came to realise she was lesbian. There is more information at vaginismus.com. aint sayin your lady is lesbian, aint a crime, maybe she just needs to relax more, or hey maybe you really are a monster cock. lol
     
  14. Gisella

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    But the girth 1/2 inch on his lesser meassure 7,5" as or larger 8"...:tongue:

    And if I can take a 9" lenght to the tilt can I take a 10" ?....What do you think? :cool:
     
  15. Mr. Snakey

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    No im only 7 girth. Yes my dear i know you could take a 10:wink:
     
  16. B_big dirigible

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    These threads always run down the same hill, don't they? Some genius always pipes in with the trite observation that yes, indeed, a baby can fit through there. But it hurts, and that does make just a tiny bit of difference. Somehow I can't see the typical modern woman getting all excited at the thought of dinner and a movie and a baby afterwards, then off to another day at the office. Personally, I go to some effort to see that Bedtime with Big Dirigible never reminds her of a stay in the hospital.
     
  17. Gisella

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    Oh Uncut...than you are 'only' a 7" in girth...

    Yep, you do have confidence in my taking..cool. Thank you! :tongue:

    I will not take nada to graduate from a 9" to a 10" because I dont need to fix to get to the tilt and may even be possible to tilt it but the challenge is to graduate from 6" to a 7" girth....but it may even not much so.

    Can your gf take you all now, lenght wise?
     
  18. Mr. Snakey

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    Yes!:smile:
     
  19. Gisella

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    :lmao:

    Yep..vagina fits any size bcause of giving birth blablabla...is already dealth with in many threads.

    And about the souvenir we carry after a night of lovemaking with a big penis is a good feeling ache for sure and may even be cured by more of that...:eek: :tongue:
     
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    Sorry if I offended you was not my intention I know childbirth is painfull been at six births , ok It wasnt me doin the deed but my wife never cussed me out once and she wanted all of them. By the way after seein what a woman goes through to bear a child I have allways felt very humble and appreciative of her commitment to me and our kids. Again i apologise, was not patronising any lady. However the question of vaginismus is still relevant. And I am still of the opinion (as a man) that men are in love with their cocks.
     
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