When nobody cares about your big dick, then what?

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hey aquaman, remember to BREATH during all this. and also remember this only makes you human, we're all there at one time or another. it looks like physically you've probably had yourself in fantastic shape for quite some time, and that's going to get you attention for much of your early life so you may not have ever been forced to think about the other aspects of your 'being'. i've struggled with feeling desireable, with rejection, all the way from the day i first had to get glasses in the third grade and thought my world had basically come to an end. now i'm a late bloomer, chicks seem to take far more interest these days than ever before, but because of that background, that 'base' of self-doubt from early on, fueled by my own debilitating shyness during the 'formative years' it seems like i don't know if i'll ever get over these feelings of not being desired. and what's even sicker, i've got a gorgeous wife who loved me from first sight, we have the best marriage anyone of we know (their words as much as ours) and yet we both STILL have these feelings of innadequacy from time to time.

sorry, i've started shifting this away from you and what you're going through, just trying to say i guess that what your feeling, maybe its the first time you've felt it cause you've had the 'shallow' good looks things to bring you sailing through this much of your life, but now everyone you're hanging around is older as well, they're probably all going through 'mid-life crisis' (is it me or did the mid-life come a LOT earlier than i thought it was supposed to) themselves and they need some REAL HARD love, and not the kind your cock brings.

stick with it, you're obviously in touch enough with yourself to even be asking the question, that's a fantastic sign that you'll come through with shining colors. just jerk yourself off for a while, find out who you are besides that dick and amazing body, and then start showing the world that. you'll ROCK it for sure
 

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My dick has gotten me nowhere. Unless I walk around with a hard-on all of the time, or fuck someone with a loudmouth, it will never get out that I have one, and therefore will not be a factor. I prefer to keep somethings from the public forum (odd that I am on here).

One of my buddies has a HUGE cock, and everyone knew about it from the time we were in junior high. He used to bang every chick he could, despite having a steady girlfriend from the age of 14 until his 20's. It seemed that as soon as the world knew about his cock he became Ferris Bueller. Girls, who normally would not have given guys from our "neighborhood" a chance, were all over him all of the time. People found reasons to say that he was charming, or interesting, or smart even when he really wasn't. Eventually, it stopped mattering to people and his house of cards came crashing down. Anyone who lives by the cock, dies by the cock... i.e. life comes back to fuck them.
 

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Lex said:
When nobody cares about your big dick, I think you realize that the sum of a person is more than any of his/her parts.

I certainly don't think about my dick half as much as other people seem to.:rolleyes:
I can't follow that. Way to put it, man.
 

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Aquaman said:
There have been times in my life when I thought having a big dick and being fairly goodlooking would get me somewhere with a girl or land me a job, and it didn't. There's also been times I was a butthole (and can still be a total butthole sometimes) and I think having a big tool has something to do with that, and I know I'm not alone here on this.

K'mon, let's hear it. :cool:Str8, gay-bi -we've all had a watershed moment.
look at it this way :
you are at a point in your life where , with out your conciously knowing , your devine intelligence is trying to tell u something :
that there is more to life than having good looks and a big dick ;may be its time to explore the real thing and find the real purpose in life !!think about it !
 

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Ski Bum, Manbhaav and everyone here :smile: -you're all beautiful souls, like I've got new brothers in a cosmic sense. I'm finding so much truth in what you're sharing and I know I'm taking it all with me, and that your strength and honesty will become part of my new awareness (consciousness).

I'd like to go on a fast, but fasting makes me horny, which is no good because I'm trying to find new pathways to wholeness and sex just makes me hungry as a pack of wild dogs. :cool: :redface: :wink: I've done some stupid things (shallow too) offboard this week, but I've also been reading and meditating alot :rolleyes: -trying to keep it all positive.

Thank you for being a part of that energy.
 

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During a job interview, the guy behind the desk was on the phone but staring all into my crotch. He must have liked what he saw cause he did this until the call was over. I just knew I had that job.

But, I never did get that job. It's like some have alluded to on this topic. At the end of the day, a whole person is required. And we are much more than just a dick!

******* Dayum, I gotta change that avatar. Every "crotch type" topic I post on is later punctuated by that pic. :smile: