When Not Getting Any, What Do You Miss?

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I miss sucking cock - especially one of a challenging length or girth (I like to test my limits). :08:

It's been a few weeks, and when I think about what I miss the most, it is definitely the moments of sparkling anticipation before I start sucking that are the best.

Like, pulling it out for the first time and feeling his cock grow and dance in my hands. Stroking his incredibly soft, smooth skin... watching it slide against the growing firmness beneath. *Mmm*, rubbing and tapping the head against my lips - every breath or hint of moisture making him sigh.

The little light moans and trembling from his rush of adrenalin.
And the best part, watching the first drop of pre cum leak to the tip and make a little dome. Sticking my tongue in it to make a long string from the tip of my tongue to the tip of his cock.

Or letting the pre cum stream down as I rub his cock and tickle his balls, then finally breaking the anticipation of my warm tongue on his cock by taking a long lick from balls to tip... erasing every trace of the pre cum stream...

:biggrin1: Of course, I always like to drive him crazy by taking him balls deep, but really, that's more of what he misses than me. :cool:

So, what do you miss?
 

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You sure do paint a vivid and sexy picture! :eek::biggrin1:

I miss getting sucked, stretching her out, kissing, cuddling, showering together, sleeping together, morning sex, and fucking for several hours and spending the whole day in bed. :redface:
 
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The Muslim world has a rich and highly-regarded history of erotic prose. I'm glad to see the tradition continues.
 

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I miss the feeling of a hard, throbbing cock slowly spreading me as it enters. The feel of the head pushing against the opening of my wet, waiting pussy, opening it, taking it. The hard cock entering inch, by inch, by inch, inflaming my nerves, making me want more. When the head pushes as deep as my body will allow, I love for him to stop, not to move, while he is buried. I then slowly start to squeeze, feeling him pulse inside me, his head swelling against the bottom of my pussy, if there is nothing else the man does, this will make me cum all over him.

Whew! Is it hot in here?
 

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Honestly, from the one experience I had, more than getting sucked, jacked off, or making out, I miss sucking like a baby to a pacifier on a pair of large tits. Additionally, I have to say making out with a girl whose breath smells like my cock was a big turnon.
 
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gagging on it, having it fill my throat, feeling warm cum fill my mouth, feeling like my entire world has been condensed to my need for dick
 

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^^ What he said ^^

:rolleyes::redface:

Actually - no - there isn't one single thing I miss more than any of the others - I miss being able to show him I love him with my whole body and with my eyes, heart and soul - and I miss him showing me the same.
 

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You sure do paint a vivid and sexy picture!

I miss getting sucked, stretching her out, kissing, cuddling, showering together, sleeping together, morning sex, and fucking for several hours and spending the whole day in bed.
Vivid. Yeah lust overtook me in the midnight hour.
So, your gf is really enjoying my BBQ, eh? :naughty:

Isn't showering together the best?
I always make the person I'm dating shower with me - in fact, totally possible that he may never shower alone again... mmm, warm, wet soapy bodies.


The Muslim world has a rich and highly-regarded history of erotic prose. I'm glad to see the tradition continues.
:08: Thank you!
An attempt to capture not only what I miss, but the deliciousness of men.


I miss the feeling of a hard, throbbing cock slowly spreading me as it enters. The feel of the head pushing against the opening of my wet, waiting pussy, opening it, taking it. The hard cock entering inch, by inch, by inch, inflaming my nerves, making me want more. When the head pushes as deep as my body will allow, I love for him to stop, not to move, while he is buried. I then slowly start to squeeze, feeling him pulse inside me, his head swelling against the bottom of my pussy, if there is nothing else the man does, this will make me cum all over him.

Whew! Is it hot in here?
:32: I'm a little flushed.
The entrance is amazing - nothing like the moment before he pushes in where my breathing turns heavy and a bit panting from excitement. I wrap my legs around his ass to pull him in, but he resists, his cock an inch away from my aching pussy... he's teasing, but then he pushes in, and every bit of my body and mind focus on that one tight, and now full, spot. *sigh* :32:

Actually - no - there isn't one single thing I miss more than any of the others - I miss being able to show him I love him with my whole body and with my eyes, heart and soul - and I miss him showing me the same.
I miss connecting with him, too.
So, I'll also add kissing(like those long makeout sessions), cuddling and all postcoital tenderness. :smile:
 
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I miss that look in her eyes when my rhythm is in perfect sync with hers, building to a simultaneous orgasm of mind shattering bliss... That look where she knows I am about to blow and she knows I know she is about to blow and we work together as one joined thru that fierce beauty in her eyes....

That's what I miss...
 

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It’s been little while since my GF and I have been on the verge of breaking up now for like a month lol.


What do I miss?

I miss how all your senses are hit during sex, how your body becomes one big nerve ending picking up everything with a heightened state. When I’m kissing someone’s neck, I can smell their perfume and their shampoo when I bury my face in their hair. Feeling the softness of her skin, touching her earlobes, her chin kissing and tasting her flesh as our bodies are pressed closer together. Hearing the rush of air disappear in a vacuum from our gasps, the feel of goose-bumps building, backs arching, kissing getting harder, wetter, slight biting, feeling each other all over at the same time, looking into each others eyes anticipating what’s going to happen next……

I can do certain things “on my own” intimacy isn’t one of them, that is the part I miss the most.
 

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I miss that look in her eyes when my rhythm is in perfect sync with hers, building to a simultaneous orgasm of mind shattering bliss... That look where she knows I am about to blow and she knows I know she is about to blow and we work together as one joined thru that fierce beauty in her eyes....

That's what I miss...
Even though I always use condoms, feeling him cum inside me, seeing the satisfaction on his face, and my own inexplicable pleasure at his release, were always powerful.


It’s been little while since my GF and I have been on the verge of breaking up now for like a month lol.


What do I miss?

I miss how all your senses are hit during sex, how your body becomes one big nerve ending picking up everything with a heightened state. When I’m kissing someone’s neck, I can smell their perfume and their shampoo when I bury my face in their hair. Feeling the softness of her skin, touching her earlobes, her chin kissing and tasting her flesh as our bodies are pressed closer together. Hearing the rush of air disappear in a vacuum from our gasps, the feel of goose-bumps building, backs arching, kissing getting harder, wetter, slight biting, feeling each other all over at the same time, looking into each others eyes anticipating what’s going to happen next……

I can do certain things “on my own” intimacy isn’t one of them, that is the part I miss the most.
Mmm, yes, engaging the senses heightens everything - taking it from good sex to :32: "I need to feel that again and always"... and, I agree, it can't be reproduced solo.... I've tried. :09:
 

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Is there enough room to write here

The feel of soft skin pulling someone close
The warmth of her body
Her breath
The scent - drives me wild
Those little purring sounds

When I can do something that makes her body tense all rigid
And she wants me to stop but she doesn't want me to stop
So I do - but I don't. I can be such a tease.

Touching
softly
approaching the forbidden zones and being allowed to proceed
kissing soft sweet lips
alive with desire
licking those full sweet lips and having tongues meet.
Holding hands.

Tasting the salty skin on the back of a sweaty neck and grabbing her there with my mouth like an animal my arms surrounding and the relaxing that follows.

Kissing her nipples and gently kneeding them with my lips as they become erect.

Running my fingers through her hair.

Massaging her back and legs and arms.
Feet and hands.
Hearing the faint moans as I do

Burying my head between her legs and licking until she goes insane.
Having her arch her back and not be able to get away because of my grip on both her arms.

Making her dizzy so she can't stand.

Then being "forced" to lie down and do nothing while being licked and sucked.
A feeling I can't describe...

Watching her move
Following the curve of her body with her eyes all around.

Looking in her eyes.
Deeply
seeing her soul

Rubbing my penis head up and down on moist labia and gently massaging her clitoris. Slowly Slowly moving in. then out and back in deeper

Then when I am about all the way in grabbing her ass and squeezing and pulling her whole body toward me.

Losing control
The moment
I wanted
but not
because it will be over

And then
profound relaxation
peace

I miss intimate conversation
Laughter
giggles and being silly

Holding someone in my arms
to the sound of rain at night
And falling asleep

And waking up
with her still there
the sun shining
and softly kissing her forhead
and she awakens
 
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:32: Love it, Pitbull!
I miss feeling at peace and cuddling as well!
Always said that I sleep best when there is someone around to touch and kick in my sleep.
Waking up with together is definitely something I always love. :heart:

Honestly, from the one experience I had, more than getting sucked, jacked off, or making out, I miss sucking like a baby to a pacifier on a pair of large tits. Additionally, I have to say making out with a girl whose breath smells like my cock was a big turnon.
You like to taste your cock on her lips, eh? Well, just wait until she tongues a gob of cum into your mouth after blowing you... should be nice. :wink:
 

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It has been so long since there has been someone there to hold me at night... lately I miss having someone in my life to miss.
:hug: I hope he finds you soon, Honey!
I love missing someone as well - in the kind of way where receiving an e-mail, text, or hearing their voice gives you the warm fuzzies. :smile:

I miss the complete relaxation I get of not being alone.
Awww! :hug:

I can be alone and OK.
But, meeting people that you can relax, shut the fuck up and be quiet with, and never lose your connection or feelings of intimacy is something I love.
 
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The biggest thing I miss is not having to make myself cum. There's something unexpected and a little more intense when you're almost there, not quite, just a bit more, that is much more of a release when it happens.

I also miss, with women specifically, when you're intertwined, how warm and wet that whole pelvic region gets. Maybe I'm not explaining it, but I just think it's hot.