When Not Getting Any, What Do You Miss?

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:32: Love it, Pitbull!
I miss feeling at peace and cuddling as well!
Always said that I sleep best when there is someone around to touch and kick in my sleep.
Waking up with together is definitely something I always love. :heart:


You like to taste your cock on her lips, eh? Well, just wait until she tongues a gob of cum into your mouth after blowing you... should be nice. :wink:

oh, sweet, i would love that. i would love to snowball. i don't know why some guys wouldn't do that. i mean especially since any guy who says he never tasted his own jizz is either a liar or repressed, either way not really a good choice.
 

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The biggest thing I miss is not having to make myself cum. There's something unexpected and a little more intense when you're almost there, not quite, just a bit more, that is much more of a release when it happens.

I also miss, with women specifically, when you're intertwined, how warm and wet that whole pelvic region gets. Maybe I'm not explaining it, but I just think it's hot.
You are explaining it well.
That almost radiating heat that you get, or give in my case :wink:, when snuggling is sexy

oh, sweet, i would love that. i would love to snowball. i don't know why some guys wouldn't do that. i mean especially since any guy who says he never tasted his own jizz is either a liar or repressed, either way not really a good choice.
Some people, men and women, do not like to taste their juice or scent on others. Personally, I love it, and will lick every drop off my man after rubbing my pussy all over his face. :32:

Connecting emotionaly. ( I know, I am a total girl.)
No, that's good!
Connecting emotionally with someone can feel more intimate than anything else, especially sex. When I think back over the past, idk, almost two years that I've been out of a serious relationship - the one thing that stands out and makes certain people I've met special is the emotional connection.

Even though we are no longer dating, the emotional bond stays strong. :yup:
 

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I miss something because of the period. I hate the idea that women have periods, there would be more fucking and less depression from their part lol!


btw, I love your avatar :) KObe fan!
 

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I miss something because of the period. I hate the idea that women have periods, there would be more fucking and less depression from their part lol!


btw, I love your avatar :) KObe fan!
I love my avatar, too!
Not a Kobe fan necessarily, but I do support my team. :biggrin1:

Btw, don't let the period stop you.
I have really easy, and strong, multiple orgasms when I am menstruating. :yup:
 

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I miss sucking cock - especially one of a challenging length or girth (I like to test my limits). :08:

It's been a few weeks, and when I think about what I miss the most, it is definitely the moments of sparkling anticipation before I start sucking that are the best.

Like, pulling it out for the first time and feeling his cock grow and dance in my hands. Stroking his incredibly soft, smooth skin... watching it slide against the growing firmness beneath. *Mmm*, rubbing and tapping the head against my lips - every breath or hint of moisture making him sigh.

The little light moans and trembling from his rush of adrenalin.
And the best part, watching the first drop of pre cum leak to the tip and make a little dome. Sticking my tongue in it to make a long string from the tip of my tongue to the tip of his cock.

Or letting the pre cum stream down as I rub his cock and tickle his balls, then finally breaking the anticipation of my warm tongue on his cock by taking a long lick from balls to tip... erasing every trace of the pre cum stream...

:biggrin1: Of course, I always like to drive him crazy by taking him balls deep, but really, that's more of what he misses than me. :cool:

So, what do you miss?
Exactly this, but on the receiving end. :biggrin1:

And awesome boobs.

I miss those two things most.
 

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With women:

Definetly the kissing, and the moment when I first put my hand between her legs and am surprised by just how warm and wet she is. I also love the way we cuddle afterwards.

With guys:

-The feeling of vulnerability when I am naked before he is, and he has the ability to do pretty much whatever he wants to me.
-The moan that even the most dominant guy lets out when my lips first touch the head of his cock.
- Feeling his soft member grow to be thick and hard in my mouth
- Being on all fours, anticipating the moment he will penetrate me. I can feel that he is only an inch away, but he makes me wait for it until I'm literally moaning.
-The moment that he stretches me, and I feel as though I've made some huge accomplishment, until I realize that he still has 7 more inches to stuff into me.
-Getting weak in the knees when I'm getting pounded hard
-After a really good fuck, collapsing on the bed, couch, etc., and feeling completely spent. My ass is still twitching and gaping, my breathing is rapid, and I'm usually still moaning a little. Then looking into his eyes and seeing the immense pride and confidence that he has from making me look this way.
- I've written about this before, but I love the feeling of soreness that I have the day after a good fuck. It makes me feel so dirty, and it keeps my mind on what happened the night before.

Thank goodness I am getting some these days (on the guy side), he's gonna be getting a text really soon...
 

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The feel of their skin against mine.
Their weight on top of me.
That moment right before they enter me and I'm panting, squirming and trying to get them to hurry up because I can't wait any longer.
Their moans.
 

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Is there enough room to write here

The feel of soft skin pulling someone close
The warmth of her body
Her breath
The scent - drives me wild
Those little purring sounds

When I can do something that makes her body tense all rigid
And she wants me to stop but she doesn't want me to stop
So I do - but I don't. I can be such a tease.

Touching
softly
approaching the forbidden zones and being allowed to proceed
kissing soft sweet lips
alive with desire
licking those full sweet lips and having tongues meet.
Holding hands.

Tasting the salty skin on the back of a sweaty neck and grabbing her there with my mouth like an animal my arms surrounding and the relaxing that follows.

Kissing her nipples and gently kneeding them with my lips as they become erect.

Running my fingers through her hair.

Massaging her back and legs and arms.
Feet and hands.
Hearing the faint moans as I do

Burying my head between her legs and licking until she goes insane.
Having her arch her back and not be able to get away because of my grip on both her arms.

Making her dizzy so she can't stand.

Then being "forced" to lie down and do nothing while being licked and sucked.
A feeling I can't describe...

Watching her move
Following the curve of her body with her eyes all around.

Looking in her eyes.
Deeply
seeing her soul

Rubbing my penis head up and down on moist labia and gently massaging her clitoris. Slowly Slowly moving in. then out and back in deeper

Then when I am about all the way in grabbing her ass and squeezing and pulling her whole body toward me.

Losing control
The moment
I wanted
but not
because it will be over

And then
profound relaxation
peace

I miss intimate conversation
Laughter
giggles and being silly

Holding someone in my arms
to the sound of rain at night
And falling asleep

And waking up
with her still there
the sun shining
and softly kissing her forhead
and she awakens

Could I trade for you?
Seriously.
cigarbabe:sasmoking:
 

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The smell of hot, sweaty skin and crevices.
The taste and feel of a cock in my mouth.
The slippery nature of a big foreskin.
The trust that lets us go anywhere in or on our bodies, using whatever bodyparts we wish.
 

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The smell of hot, sweaty skin and crevices.
The taste and feel of a cock in my mouth.
The slippery nature of a big foreskin.
The trust that lets us go anywhere in or on our bodies, using whatever bodyparts we wish.

and everything else during those weeks when I'm separated from my long-distance SO
 

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The smell of hot, sweaty skin and crevices.
The taste and feel of a cock in my mouth.
The slippery nature of a big foreskin.
The trust that lets us go anywhere in or on our bodies, using whatever bodyparts we wish.
Mmm! My most recent ex's scent was like the smell of leather with a slight sweetness - snuggling up and smelling him after sex was very calming.
 

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Is there enough room to write here

The feel of soft skin pulling someone close
The warmth of her body
Her breath
The scent - drives me wild
Those little purring sounds

When I can do something that makes her body tense all rigid
And she wants me to stop but she doesn't want me to stop
So I do - but I don't. I can be such a tease.

Touching
softly
approaching the forbidden zones and being allowed to proceed
kissing soft sweet lips
alive with desire
licking those full sweet lips and having tongues meet.
Holding hands.

Tasting the salty skin on the back of a sweaty neck and grabbing her there with my mouth like an animal my arms surrounding and the relaxing that follows.

Kissing her nipples and gently kneeding them with my lips as they become erect.

Running my fingers through her hair.

Massaging her back and legs and arms.
Feet and hands.
Hearing the faint moans as I do

Burying my head between her legs and licking until she goes insane.
Having her arch her back and not be able to get away because of my grip on both her arms.

Making her dizzy so she can't stand.

Then being "forced" to lie down and do nothing while being licked and sucked.
A feeling I can't describe...

Watching her move
Following the curve of her body with her eyes all around.

Looking in her eyes.
Deeply
seeing her soul

Rubbing my penis head up and down on moist labia and gently massaging her clitoris. Slowly Slowly moving in. then out and back in deeper

Then when I am about all the way in grabbing her ass and squeezing and pulling her whole body toward me.

Losing control
The moment
I wanted
but not
because it will be over

And then
profound relaxation
peace

I miss intimate conversation
Laughter
giggles and being silly

Holding someone in my arms
to the sound of rain at night
And falling asleep

And waking up
with her still there
the sun shining
and softly kissing her forhead
and she awakens


So poetic and erotic!
 

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Trade what?
3 cat's eye marbles
pet frog
and
secret decoder ring?

And who would become the beneficiary of such a treasure trove?
May I present an offer? No decoder rings, but how about the best arroz con mariscos you've ever tasted and a moonlit walk through Strawberry Fields? :wink: