littlbigguy: Here's a simple topic that I don't think has been broached on any thread so far: how do you feel when a girl is bigger than you are? I clearly don't mean by this that her clit is bigger than your dick but that she is taller and/or her overall body size is greater than yours. I'm a relatively small guy (5'8", 145 lb) but an example of good things (over 9.5x 6.5) coming in small packages. I have always dated girls distinctly shorter and more petite than myself. My current gf , however, is around 5'10" or 5'11" and as well is more broadly boned than I am. (She's attractively built, by the way.)She became enamored of me very quickly for the important things, my mind and looks and personality. From my side it has taken more time to fall in a like way for her, but this does seem to be happening now, slowly but surely. It's not a case where I instantly "fell in love" (which would have been easier) but rather a case where I at first couldn't resist her love and only in turn am responding to that love in kind (a far more subtle experience, and in terms of personal growth probably a more valuable one too). From the start, she's been also highly turned on by my body. After the inevitable big dick "surprise" was sprung, this made my body only hotter to her, and she loves to be all over it and me at just about any time of day. Sex itself has entailed less of the size adjustment process than I've known before, and the sex became mutually satisfying from early on. The problem is this: when it comes to just plain old general cuddling and hanging around I still do not feel overall as comfortable with her body as with a female body that I can "take in my arms" with more of me than her to spare. There isn't any deep "adequacy" issue here, as she tells me over and over (and means it, and I believe it) that to her I am "more of a man" (in totality, not just one coincidental thing) than she has known before or would ever expect to find. But the overall body size disparity still lingers as an unresolved aesthetic comfort zone issue for me. I know that a lot of guys (including some of my friends, from what they say) find taller women a turn on, but alas for me I just don't seem to be among the ones who's "wired" that way. Do any of you guys and women have anything to share on this?