Hi everyone, this is my first thread also here 
But I am going through a hard time trying to understand what has gone wrong.
Long story short.
I am 35 years old now. I have my own business in engineering and I consider myself more of a sapiosexual person; educated women with a strong personality and with confidence have always been my first choice before really looking into her physical aspect.
I became friends with this woman(28) through facebook who just got Phd in physiotherapy; there is a mini war going on where I live at the moment; but it turned out that between me and this girl there has also been lots of common relatives(her aunts have married a couple of men who were relatives).
So far things felt great;
and later we even met; I met her, her whole family.
They were really the kind of people I always wanted them to be part of my life.
She did a little party with small gathering for her graduation, and I was the only one amid her relatives and closest friends who was invited.
Everything was very wonderful until that last party.
The party was very wonderful; we all enjoyed and had a great time.
But right after that, the following days... I just felt that she has not been the same person replying/ talking to me.
Her replies have become straight to the point.
Sometimes One word only like: Yes/ True/ Correct.
She used to get involved in a discussion. And just recently, I did go through a terrible thing with my job and as much as I would have loved her to be by my side, it has been 5 days that she did not reply back.
I was planning last week to invite her for my birthday as well;
It has been a short period since we have known each other, but I had high expectations which are suddenly turning into a huge disappointment and I feel bad about this.
I really want a woman like that to be a part of my life.
What is the wisest thing to do?
But I am going through a hard time trying to understand what has gone wrong.
Long story short.
I am 35 years old now. I have my own business in engineering and I consider myself more of a sapiosexual person; educated women with a strong personality and with confidence have always been my first choice before really looking into her physical aspect.
I became friends with this woman(28) through facebook who just got Phd in physiotherapy; there is a mini war going on where I live at the moment; but it turned out that between me and this girl there has also been lots of common relatives(her aunts have married a couple of men who were relatives).
So far things felt great;
and later we even met; I met her, her whole family.
They were really the kind of people I always wanted them to be part of my life.
She did a little party with small gathering for her graduation, and I was the only one amid her relatives and closest friends who was invited.
Everything was very wonderful until that last party.
The party was very wonderful; we all enjoyed and had a great time.
But right after that, the following days... I just felt that she has not been the same person replying/ talking to me.
Her replies have become straight to the point.
Sometimes One word only like: Yes/ True/ Correct.
She used to get involved in a discussion. And just recently, I did go through a terrible thing with my job and as much as I would have loved her to be by my side, it has been 5 days that she did not reply back.
I was planning last week to invite her for my birthday as well;
It has been a short period since we have known each other, but I had high expectations which are suddenly turning into a huge disappointment and I feel bad about this.
I really want a woman like that to be a part of my life.
What is the wisest thing to do?