Yeah, I have a buddy who did this every few months or so. He’d get super drunk, then wanted to wrestle. Eventually ending with his hands in compromising spots: on my ass, on my upper thigh. It was ‘funny’ the first few times. Then it just got old.
He knows I have had a few bi experiences, I am super open about it with anyone who knows me well. So he knew he could make a move if he really wanted to, but eventually it just got pathetic.
A few months after these ‘wresting nights’ happened he got engaged to the girl he was seeing, and quickly stopped hanging around with most of his friends. I think deep down he is closeted in some way or another. But that’s up to him to figure out I guess