I like to be in charge, and let him be in charge, equally. You can just get a natural feel of each particular time you get with a guy as to what will turn him on.
Depends, if it's just a quick bj to get him off I want to be in control. If it's part of a longer session then he can fuck my throat as much as he wants.
I like to be in control. I've been told I give the best blowjobs and I can almost always deep throat. So it is hot knowing a guy loves my mouth and I hope to show him some new or unique things I can do with my mouth and hands. He can fuck my mouth some during a blowjob of course. And it is always the best to make him cum.
It depends. Usually I like to be in control and decide the pace and depth of how I suck a cock... but with certain guys all I want is to be face fucked and swallow everything!
I like it to be a back-and-forth between me and them feeding me when we get more into it. deep facefucking is reserved for guys who understand being tender and communicating, since I've had bad experiences with dudes who don't care or listen