When the shoe fits...

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Flashlight, May 20, 2010.

  1. Flashlight

    Flashlight Well-Known Member

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    So I have a friend who just utterly frustrates me just because of the fact he is a walking big cock stereotype to the max. I love the kid but sometimes I just want to throw him one cross the face. We are both very attractive young guys in our early 20's and have known each other since we were 18. I am decently hung 8.5" and he has a more substantial about 9x7. I feel like I have gotten to the point where I know who I am, I am an art student, and I consider myself to not be extremely intelligent but can hold in intellectual conversation, have something that I am passionate about and I can make a decision. My friend on the other hand has a big dick. He tries to be discrete about it but really all he has going for himself is that he has a big cock and he plays it off that way. I am happy for him that he is packing a nice dick and am always around as a friend but I feel like I almost need to wake him up and let him know that he is just a stereotypical hung and dumb dude and thats what he is going to amount to if he keeps on with his current attitude.
     
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    Try showing him one of those 'Where are they now' things with older dudes from Pornography. That should work
     
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    Just tell him that hinting about his pack will not carry him anywhere in life and that it could also annoy some people. As a friend I'm sure you can tell him this.
    Just try not to make him feel pathetic, don't be aggressive, be a friend :)
     
  4. TheRob

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    what exactly is the big dick sterotype
    that we are dumb?
     
  5. houtx48

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    maybe you should have him show us his dick then we could give him advice.
     
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    You've rated yourself at 60% gay. Where is he on the gay-straight scale?
     
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    He is going to have to want to change. Kind of tough situation. Good luck though.
     
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    I doubt that all this guy has to offer the world is his big dick. He has all sorts of qualities that you are not seeing because that is all you see. We are all far more than just what nature has given us as a penis. The big dicked guy needs a better friend than you if that is how you talk about him.
     
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    Sadly, in my experience with men packing big dicks that's frequently the only thing they have going for them.
     
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    If he can make it through life, just on the merits of his cock then more power to him. Why do you want him to change his lifestyle? Are you jealous because you can't get by on your cock?

    Obviously this guy has found something that works for him. If it didn't work, he would change his ways. He doesn't change because there's no need for it. His big dick gets him what he wants.

    I'm jealous of this guy. I wish I had a skill or trait that was as useful and easily exploitable as a big dick.
     
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    To be honest mate, give the guy a break. He plays off it? In what way? You trying 2 make urself sound like a superior being... art student, hold a conversation etc etc... and him just mentioning his dick says more of you then of him.
    Just let him live his life and mind ur own business when it comes 2 sex and the like.
     
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