I recently just broke up with my boyfriend. It was a mutual thing. We will be friends but for now, going to take our space, otherwise we might dredge up feelings and fall back into another rut. My question is - when is it a good time to give back his things or go get my things? Should I go there to get my stuff? I don't need my stuff right away, as it's just a few articles of clothing, and some books. And I'm fairly sure he doesn't need his items just right away.